FRIEND OR HUSBAND

Ijab Qobul

The cordial greeting of both parties between the Host and Besan was completed, then continued with the reading of the Holy Quran and Prayer. Not to be left behind, Mr. Ustad Abdul gave a word in his lecture.

Mr. Penghulu has come with his Assistant, they are welcome to sit in a place that has been provided by the wedding committee. Bernad Dorman's father as the Marriage Regent of his daughter Asyafa Dorman has also prepared. Likewise with the witnesses, already prepared to sit in an orderly manner.

Rayhan walked with Papa Beni, and Mama Jovanka to the seat that was provided. Rayhan sitting right in front of Bernad Dorman's father was only limited to the table, while Papa and Mama sitting behind Rayhan also became witnesses of marriage.

After that Ashafa walked gracefully and beautifully, accompanied by Mother Nurlaila and Alya, his best friend to a seat beside Rayhan.

Looking at the bride and groom who is really beautiful and graceful, makes everyone who is in the Marriage Certificate room stunned and amazed. Moreover, with Rayhan, his eyes did not blink looking at the beauty of his future wife.

"Asaalamualaikum, Sis!"

"Why, Brother?"

"It's a custom, brother!"

"It's the light!"

"Awas, Brother! His eyes will jump!"

"Surely Brother just saw a beautiful woman, didn't he?" Salam Ashafa rebuked her future husband, smiling and sitting next to Rayhan. Instantly the whole room laughed, hearing the babble of the bride-to-be.

Suddenly Rayhan blushed embarrassed, found himself caught wet so closely looking at his future wife. No hope Papa Beni, and Bernad's father laughed and watched their children's behavior. Ibu Nurlaila and Mama Jovanka also did not miss laughing.

"E... ahem... !" Mr. Penghulu cleared his throat, all was silent at once.

"Alright, because Ananda Ashafa is already in our midst, then Ananda Ashafa Dorman is welcome to ask permission from his beloved father to ask for their blessing to marry them." Said Mr. Penghulu.

"Yes, Mr. Penghulu."

Finally, Ashafapun asked permission and blessing with tears to his beloved widow father, to be married to a beloved husband named Ananda Rayhan Darma Bin Handa Beni Darma. Bernadpun's father, giving his blessing to the princess only wayangnya with tears.

Everyone who was there, joined in tears to witness the interaction between the father and the child.

"Now is the time to say the Holy Promise of Marriage, between Mr. Bernad Dorman and Ananda Rayhan Darma." Said Mr. Penghulu explaining.

"Not to be tense, Mr. Bernad and Ananda Rayhan!" Said Mr. Penghulu, while putting their hands together. Rayhan and Bernad's father nodded in small sign of understanding.

"Is Father Bernad Dorman ready to accept Ananda Rayhan Darma as your son-in-law?"

"It's ready! Mr. Penghulu."

"Is Ananda Rayhan Darma ready to be the husband of Ananda Ashafa Dorman and the son-in-law of Mr Bernad Dorman?"

"It's ready! Mr. Penghulu."

"Is Ananda Ashafa Dorman ready to be the wife of Ananda Rayhan Darma?"

"It's ready! Mr. penghulu."

"Because everything is ready, please to Mr. Bernad Dorman and Ananda Rayhan Darma to carry out the Ijab Qobulnya." Said Mr. Penghulu, while guiding the path of Ijab Qobul. Bernad and Rayhan's father nodded small confidently.

"I marry you and marry you Ananda Rayhan Darma Bin Beni Darma, with my son Ananda Ashafa Dorman Bint Bernad Dorman with a dowry a set of Shollat tools and 100 grams of pure gold paid in cash."

"I accept the Marriage and Marriage of Ananda Ashafa Dorman Binti Bernad Dorman with the dowry paid in cash."

"WELL... !" Speak of the witnesses present.

"Roomalloh... Alhamdullillah's chat. Said Mr. Penghulu, then he recited the Wedding Prayer for the Bride. Then everyone present spoke up,

Aamiin... !

Aamiin... !

"Alhamdulillah, the completion of this Marriage Agreement with Ijab Qobul went smoothly. It is now time for the signing of the marriage book between the two parties, and the handing over of the Mahar to the Bride." The Wedding Committee.

Rayhan, and Ashafa sign the marriage book as a sign of their legal marriage above Law and Religion. Do not miss also the signatures of the guardians and marriage witnesses involved.

After that Rayhan handed the wedding dowry in the form of a set of Shollat tools and 100 grams of pure gold into the hands of his wife, Ashafa. The photographers, do not miss the moment to capture them from the beginning to the end of the Wedding Procession.

"Now it's time for the bride to pair each other's wedding rings in her sweet day." The wedding committee.

Finally Rayhan put the ring on his wife's right ring finger, and Ashafa also put the ring on her husband's right ring finger. Then Ashafa kissed the back of her husband's hands reverently, then Rayhan kissed his wife's forehead gently a little held back for a long time as reluctant to take off.

"Sister, already! Shame on seeing people."

"Yes, baby! Brother gemes." Rayhan chuckled as he pulled the nose of his wife.

"Aishi... Sis! Start it off." Ashafa grumbled softly as he pursed his lips.

"Don't pout that way! How will you kiss? It's halal! Can, right?"

"K.. sister... !

Suddenly all laughed, who saw the interaction of the newly halal husband and wife.

"Now is the time for the sungkeman event, for both parents of the bride and the elders are requested to occupy the seats that have been prepared." Said the Wedding Committee.

Both parents of the bride and groom finally occupied the place that had been prepared for the sungkeman event, and Grandpa Jaya Darmapun accompanied there despite using a wheelchair.

The bride and groom held a silent vigil with reverence, kissing one by one their parents and their in-laws then kissing Grandpa Jaya Darma, while begging for forgiveness and blessing to run the Sakinah household, Mawahdah and Warohmah with happy tears.

After doing sungkeman they run the ritual ceremony of marriage customs such as stepping on eggs, breaking jugs, seizing chicken broth, cutting tumpeng and then bribes rice tumpeng, saweran containing money, pennies, rice and candy whose purpose contains a certain meaning for the life that will be lived by the bride and groom.

The culmination of the wedding ceremony and ceremony of the Wedding Ritual is closed with, congratulations from parents, relatives near and far, and invited guests who have attended and witnessed firsthand.

"Congratulations, Shay! My friend, happy always! being the sameWA family. Aamiin's." Sincere words and prayers from Alya.

"Amijin, Al! Thanks my best friend." Ashafa answered, hugging his friend.

"Congratulations, Mr. Rayhan Lecturer! Good luck and good luck, sir! I tipped my best friend, never make him cry let alone hurt him well sir. Please take good care of my best friend forever." Alya was sure.

"Aamiin, will I execute his orders! Thank you Alya." Rayhan said for sure.

After everyone congratulated, finally the couple could rest in the bridal room together. Let go of the sense of accomplishment, tired, tired that they have been through all day.

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