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Midodareni Procession

The flush procession has been completed, Ashafa replaced the wet shawl cloth with a new shawl. After that, Ibu Dina did stretching all over Ashafa's body. Then, Ashafa performed the Ritual of the Bridal Ungkep, which means sweat a lot. The purpose of the Ritual, so that when becoming a bride does not sweat much.

Ashafa felt hot after sitting on the water containing various spices, his body sweat a lot. Alya who was nearby felt funny, then laughed a little at Ashafa mendes@h overheating. But he did not taunt her at all, because seeing Mother Dina who was so calm and painstaking caring for Ashafa like the Princess of the Palace.

Dina's mother only smelled a smile, because adab in caring for the bride and groom, should not talk much about the less important according to the pilosophy.

Ashafa is like a sweat bath. After feeling enough, Ashafa finally finished doing the Ritual Poultry Bride, he cleaned his body with a towel that had been washed with warm water. Instantly his body seemed to feel lighter and smoother when touched, perhaps the effect of the stretch and the Ungkep that he had just lived.

While in the large family room of Mr. Bernad, held a Review and Thanksgiving for prospective Brides. All gathered in one room chanting the Holy Verses and Prayers led by Mr. Ustad.

Asyafa, also Alya joined the event of the Study. There, too, were Mother and Father present. Mr. Ustad gave Advice to the Bride-to-be in carrying out married life, and Prayer for the smooth running of the Wedding Event tomorrow so as not to happen unwanted bad things.

Hearing the Advice and Prayer from Mr. Ustad, many of the people present were touched and moved to tears. Moreover, Asyafa, did not feel he was crying and touched to feel slapped with the words of advice from Mr. Ustad whose contents, Married is a worship that is recommended and required for those who are already baliq and reasonable. Never reject the fate that has been given and be grateful for what has been accepted.

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While at the Rayhan residence, they also do a flush procession for prospective brides there. Using the traditional Javanese theme, not much different from the Siraman Procession carried out in the residence of the Asyafa house.

Rayhan looks handsome, wrapped in batik cloth that is worn from the chest to under the eyes of the feet. Rayhan's good looks are increasing after the flush procession takes place solemnly. Many invited guests in the surrounding environment were fascinated with Rayhan let alone young girls.

After the Siraman Procession Ritual was completed, Rayhan was immediately joined by Mama Jovanka, and Papa Beni into the house to Rayhan's room.

In the house, they also make Thanksgiving and Study as well as at home prospective brides.

After the Thanksgiving at the residence of Rayhan's house, in the afternoon they were ready to bring goods as part of the Midodareni evening event. The goods in the form of cash, personal items for the bride and groom, raw food, staples, vegetables, fruits, pets such as chickens, geese and goats also give the Mahar in the form of jewelry, as well as, and there are many others.

Finally, Rayhan and his family entourage Mr. Beni Darma visited the residence of the bride-to-be. They arrived at 06 pm, immediately greeted warmly and in herbal medicine by Mr. Bernad Dorman's Grand Family. They occupy a seat that has been prepared by the host, then collect and put the luggage at one place on the big table.

The Midodareni Procession itself is a series of traditional ceremonies before the Wedding ceremony, in which the prospective Groom comes to the house of the prospective Bride, to meet with the parents of the prospective Bride. Where the procession starts from 06 pm to finish at night.

The prohibition on the night of Midodareni is that prospective Brides should not meet prospective Grooms. The Bride stayed in the room until the Midodareni Procession was completed.

Midodareni procession itself, includes four stages, namely,

Jonggolan that is, the prospective Groom brings offerings in odd numbers, which are then given to prospective in-laws such as cash, food, fruits, and others.

Tantingan that is, the prospective bride will be asked by her parents, to accept the prospective groom sincerely. But the prospective Bride should not meet the prospective Bride because in the pingit time.

The handover of Chess Wedha, namely, Giving advice to the prospective Bride of the groom from the male parents and prospective in-laws.

That is the series of Midodareni Procession events, which are broadly undertaken by both Bride Candidates and prospective in-laws. Finally they closed the event by eating with a large family, except for the prospective Groom who only drank water.

After the completion of all the series of Midodareni events, finally the Family of Mr. Beni Darma said goodbye to leave the residence of Mr. Bernad Dorman with relief and happiness.

Asyafa accompanied Alya in a room full of blue haru, because tonight was, the last night he had to let go of his bachelorhood. The next day after the Marriage Accord took place, she was already Madame Rayhan.

Tonight, it seemed that Asyafa had not been able to sleep as if the drowsiness had simply disappeared. Almost two o'clock at night, Ashafa still stays in bed occasionally playing his phone. While Alya had already visited her dream an hour ago, she was sound asleep and at peace.

Ashafa tries to imagine something beautiful with Rayhan.. ! He smiled and gradually Asyafa fell asleep in his sleep.

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Housed by Mr. Beni Darma's family, this morning is the most historic day for Rayhan. Where today is the day of his wedding with Ashafa, a beautiful girl who is a little fierce but adorable according to him. Rayhan smiled to himself if he remembered that ridiculous thing.

Rayhan reflected on wearing his clothes for his Wedding Event, he looked handsome and handsome with the clothes he wore.

The servants of the house, already busy arranging the luggage that will be put in the car. Mr. RT, and Mr. Ustad Abdul were also some neighbors who took part in the besanan event.

Mama and Papa are getting ready in the car with Grandpa Jaya Darma and Assistant Martin. While Bulek Dewi with her husband Palek Dimas and sikembar in one car. Family from Bari Darma, no one came to Rayhan's wedding despite being invited over the phone.

The Dutch family of Uncle Jonathan and his wife Aunt Stepani and their son Wiliam were also preparing for the car.

Rayhan boarded a car that had been specially decorated for the Bride, he sat casually on the passenger bench with a radiant face.

Everyone has run their cars in tandem.

The car that Rayhan was riding, was going faster than the others. However, I don't know why the car he was riding in was like something was wrong. Rayhan's hunch says if the brakes are blong.

Ciiit....!

Tweezers.... !

"A.. watch out Mr. Driver... ! Banting stir Sir.. !"

Tweets... !

BRAAK.... ! Hit trees.

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