
In Ana's room, just to put her head down, she did not understand what Anton said about the illegality of shaking hands between men and women. Yes, during this time he always shook hands with other men, if the same older people often kissed the butt of his hand.
But this arrives with no explanation at all Anton says that tudks make sense that it is haram to touch women. Ana really revolted once, how could be illegal, where ya try.
Question after question was never answered because when he said it was Anton pepper, Anton like evasive and never give a detailed explanation. Maybe if he knew for sure wouldn't ask Anton at all.
Not only that makes Ana blank with what Anton said, the opening is only the touch of a woman's hand that is haram, dating also according to Anton haram. Automatic Ana does not know and does not understand the haram from where to try dating.
What Ana thinks is the same as what Anton thinks. If Anton thinks Ana's 21-year-old doesn't understand religion? Yes according to Anton should be a girl who is like Ana already understand what is illegal and what is not. But the truth was that Ana did not know the matter at all. Ana is like a bird in prison not knowing what.
The fatal mistake of Anton's figure was never run what he had told Ana. If Anton wanted to share his religious knowledge, it would be impossible for Ana to pursue Anton and want to find out the problem.
From Abu telling me Ma'qil bin Yassar narrated he said that the Prophet said,"the stabbing of a person with a stake from better was indeed better for him than touching a woman who was not a mahram (HR Thabrani in almu'jam Al Kabir ).
The courtship should not be because in the courtship sometimes women and men grip, kiss, and the more risky and fatal sometimes alone and the tip ends adultery. And if dating sometimes we are more likely to his heart in a partner who is not halal.
It is not permissible between us men and women alone unless accompanied by his muhrim and a woman is forbidden to go far without a mahram. Muslim HR.
Dating is also considered an act that includes adultery, the foundation of courtship including adultery there is the word of God namely;
And do not come near to adultery, that vile deed is a very bad way. The Qur'an Surat Al Isra: 32.
(i finally knew when I met Najwa tea and it was the young man who told me everything, that brother Anton told me there was no way I could be angry).
Because of the illegal problem of shaking hands makes Ana and Anton quiet for a while, according to Ana figure Anton is a holy figure not a woman handbag. If Ana is more fun shaking hands if shaman with men origin do not cipika cipiki only.
Ana maintains the ego and Anton also maintains the ego.
"Son is not a holy pretender!" shouted Anton emotion.
"Emang brother is a holy pretentious, hold hands can not, dating can not continue if you want to marry how!" spray Ana sharp.
In the course of Ana at that time if women and men want to get married will have to pass first courtship as an introduction between the woman and the man, it is impossible to get married immediately. According to Ana, it is impossible for a woman to marry a man without love, how can a man accept the woman let alone marry?
"Yes haram. Dating is not in Islam! Islam teaches us that it is a sermon!" obviously Anton.
"Sister! The ribet of Islam forbids this! What kind of cake sermon, how come it's in a wedding?" ask Ana plain.
Yes even though Ana from birth is Islam, but the problem she does not know at all. Ana is not a painting pesantren, she just studied the world without based on pesantren education. Moreover, parents only teach prayer, and fasting Ramadan and Sunnah Sunnah it is enough.
But Anton instead told me the three-word problem, dating, touching and preaching. Anton's face also looks really upset to hear the words of the girl in front of him, unlike the girl who was discovered by him.
(The sermon is a male proposal that is ready to marry the woman who will be his wife, the sermon is done to know the candidate who will be married ).
"Oh God, Ana! You never know, yes" Anton bursts in a beaver.
Yes no doubt, he had to find a girl who should know about what is forbidden even religion does not know what. Ana who did not know the problem did not accept that the courtship was replaced with a food called khitbah. He thought that if married it should bring a cake sermon as a wedding gift.
BRACKET!
Anton kicked through the small table in front of him, he did not expect to meet a woman who was really innocent like Ana who did not know the problem he was talking about..
"Sister! Why is brother angry? Ana should be angry with her sister because she did not explain what to Ana!" yell Ana ketus.
He doesn't like guys in front of him. The glasses guy let out a long sigh, there was a feeling of resentment in his heart seeing Ana's innocence in the matter of Islam.
"Ana, in Islam there are three things, namely; Ta'aruf, sermons and marriage. So if we want to get married we have to ta'aruf, preach." Anton explained.
"Ta'aruf's? Ta'aruf what the hell brother, really complicated if you want to marry. O,ya ta'aruf what kind of drink is that?" ask Ana begong.
"What's different about dating?" then Ana asked.
BRACKET
Twice Anton breaks through the small table in front of him, he is upset to hear Ana's question.
"Na you don't know, dating is haram!"
"If it is not haram like my brother! Everything is forbidden," Ana snapped annoyed.
Yes not upset how Anton did not explain what to him should he explained, maybe if Anton explained it is impossible the girl sewot and pursue questions from the figure of Anton.
"Udah said the same sister will not be done," Ana immediately moved from her seat and left Anton on the porch of the house.
Anton gawked at the girl leaving just like that. He only snorted as the girl left the place, Anton only shook his head to see Ana.*