A Friend from Malaysia

The Re-Marriage Accord

A few days in Jakarta to take care of the needs of documentation of marriage between Yola and Ilham, finally their marriage book so well. Of course by doing a re-marriage certificate procession at the Gunawan family home with the aim to facilitate the management of the marriage book. Because on the KUA side there is no way Yola and Ilham will say that they have been married since 11 years ago without the legality of the state, especially Yola was still a minor at that time.

"Ananda Tengku Ilham Nirwan bin Tengku Ismail Nirwan, I marry and I marry you to my daughter Yolanda Gunawan with her marriage a set of prayer tools and gold jewelry of 25 grams, paid for ... cash!" abhimanyu said while reciting the words of the ijab qobul was witnessed by both sides of the Ilham and Yola families.

And after the in-law said that, Ilham immediately answered him steadily after almost a night he tried to memorize each sentence correctly. Although this is just a formality, because Yola and Ilham have been married for a long time but the man still wants to do it with all the best he can do.

After all, there is nothing to remarry to dismiss any doubts about the validity of their marriage which for 7 years has been shaken to make the two separate. Even if you have to say it 100 times again, Ilham can still support it so that no one else doubts the relationship between the marriage between them

"Saye accepted his marriage and the marriage of Yolanda Gunawan bint Abhimanyu Gunawan with his bride a set of paid prayer tools .. cash!"

"How's witness??? Sah??" ask the ruler while looking to the right and left at the witnesses who were there.

"Well!!!" answer them simultaneously.

Yola again did not expect that she would eventually experience this sacred moment as well. I think he feels overwhelmed. Back when she married Ilham in her childhood growing up, there was not the slightest bit of her feeling this way. Just feel compelled. But this time he really felt like there was a feeling of "waaah!!!" it cannot be explained in the form of words.

Is this how it feels to be like the woman out there that her lover marries? And for some reason, Yola still felt like her mom and dad were always there for her, after hearing Ilham recite the ijab qobul over her Yola felt like there was a distance that distanced her from her parents now.

Until the simple marriage contract is over, Yola and Ilham both sign their respective marriage books, Yola looks a little moody.

After the headman and officers from the Office of Religious Affairs left, the two large families were still gathered in the living room which was still spacious and had not been rearranged with various kinds of furniture that was usually there. All are still in their positions. Sitting around in a circle.

Abhimanyu inched with his own initiative sitting somewhat in front. Ratih follows the husband aligning their sitting position.

"Yola, Ilham, come here!" call him.

Ilham and Yola looked over. While Mama Ratih nodded giving the code to the two to get closer.

Inspiration sat cross-legged and Yola sat down before Abhimanyu.

"Brach!" call Abhimanyu with that barithonic voice.

Ilham and his family have been staying at their home for a few days but the man, who is 50 years old, has not even wanted to be friendly with his son-in-law.

"Yes, Papa!" reply Ilham.

"This is the second time I've handed over my daughter Yolanda to you. The first time, I gave my daughter to you with complete confidence, that you would look after her and protect her, even though I knew you were forced to marry her because of our two families' agreement. And I asked you how you're willing to be with that. Do you remember what you answered about that time?" ask Abhimanyu.

Inspiration took his breath away. He remembered. And now he nodded.

"Saye answered, 'saye is willing', Papa!" answer with guilt.

Abhimanyu.

"If you answer unwillingly at that time, by God I will not give up my daughter to marry such a minor" Abhimanyu urged.

Ilham. Yola also looked down. He was sad to remember what happened in the past.

Ilham nodded bitterly at the thought of the sin he had committed against Yolanda.

"Saye knows, Papa ..."

"Then this is the second time" Abhimanyu said. "You know how hard it is for me to bless this marriage. A father's heart is afraid that his daughter will be wasted again. But Yola wants to be with you even if we strictly forbid. He's forgiving like his father. Can you guarantee you won't repeat that again?

Ilham nodded with his head half lowered.

"You have to promise never to hurt her again. No, this is not enough with promises. You must dare to guarantee even with your own life. If you're gonna make my daughter happy. You'll never make her shed tears. Because I'm his father would never let that happen again."

Inspiration raised his head and nodded. He is also a father, although he only has a son. But as a father, his heart would hurt if anyone hurt his son. Even if he had a chance to have a princess. Of course he would never let his daughter get hurt let alone it was because of a man.

"Ilham promised Papa! Inspiration will take care of Yola, will not let the same thing that used to happen again" said the man.

Abhimanyu.

"good. I will keep your promise this time" he told Ilham. " And you're Yola!"

Yola raised her face that had lowered.

"You know Papa always wants the best for you, right?" tanyakanya.

Yola nodded.

"Maybe you think Papa has been too hard to educate you all this time. Papa admitted that what Papa did was too excessive, too protective to protect so that you do not get hurt. Without Papa being aware it is Papa's attitude that even makes you much more sick than you should. Papa admitted Papa was wrong to keep you away from your son Ammar. Ammar is Papa's flesh. I forgot that besides being a child, I am also a mother. For that, Papa apologized to you, son! Don't hate Papa! Papa did it solely because Papa loves you."

Yola shook her head.

"Yola never hated Papa" he replied.

"And today Papa married you back to Ilham, handed you back to him, as someone who really has grown up. Not the same as when you were a kid. Now you know the true meaning of marriage. Although you're still our daughter, but your real husband is more entitled to you. Although Mama is the one who gave birth to you and Papa is the one who raised you. But when Papa has married you to their son, your father-in-law and your husband's family are the ones you should put above us now. So take yourself there, son! You are the daughter-in-law of the Nirwan family, but your origin is from the Gunawan family. Keep our family's good name. Stay the Yolanda Gunawan you can always be proud of!"

And the wobble from Abhimanyu ended with the broken cry of Yola in the arms of the Papa.

"Papaaa ... huuuu .. don't say that. Yola was still Papaaa's son ..." lamented sadly.

All who were there could only see haru Yola wailing miserably in Abhimanyu's arms.

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Duuuh Yola cried until all the gangs...

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