Wonder Women's

Eighteen Years

" Women propose that Khuluk may Bulik. During his life in the household was raging marut not because. The husband cannot be a good husband and priest. Like your life right now. From eighteen years ago your life has not changed. It's like you're a statue for your family, but your husband depends only on the umbrella you open. What is normal household life like ?" My brother-in-law, whose wife is my brother. He tried to strengthen me by coming to terms with the situation and making the decision that he should have made. Cook yes I have to live with a priest like this. Which does not affect the circumstances and the circumstances make it harder for me than happy with the children.

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I try to struggle with my feelings and my inner self. Applying to HIS will be the best decision ACCORDING TO HIS. Every night I open myself to Him. Long before the feeling of raging, there is no way I with the Khuluk problem I have indeed vent all my patience to NYA. My life only had HIM and my death moreover.

"Oh Allah, may my second decision for Khuluk be the right one. Please give US YOUR BEST HINTS, Robb, for all of us. Aamiin's."

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And In Shaa Allah, I have separated from him. I filed a decision to separate from him with my older brother in court.

"Bulik, you have indeed proposed kuluk on your husband. Indeed, you have separated the bed, separated the room, it is to keep your feelings with your children. But even so, you still have responsibility for your husband. You still have to serve food, prepare what it needs. But with the record you can't have a jima' relationship'. And if you violate your khuluk is considered void. And if you do not give him the right to prepare food for him, wash clothes for him, cook for him, that is what Allah does not like SWT. And until three months of mediation does not give a good change. Bismillah khuluk can be done. "

"Yes bude, I understand. Lately, she has never been able to go home. As happened before, if he felt hate and anger he would leave the house as he pleased when he came home. And it's been more than two weeks that he hasn't been home, no matter where he's gone. And I don't want to look anywhere she goes. "

" O. So he's been sitting at home. The patient, Bulik. May this decision you make be right, in accordance with the law and may the separation between you and your husband be good according to HIS and good for you and your children and family. Aamiin's."

Such was the case during the mediation to the waiting for the third trial he never showed his presence in this house again. I hope you get a companion wife as you wish. And may this be the best decision according to Allah SWT, us and for children and families. Because niqah I don't think I'm married to you well, marrying me to you is marrying your family and you marrying me is marrying my family. Thank you for being a part of our lives for eighteen years until our son Safi becomes an adult you never make him proud of you.

Thank you for making this life story with me and it is very heavy hearted I prefer to be a single parent by releasing you, mengikhlaskanmu become your wife's companion later, later.

I'm sorry I can't be what you've been expecting all along, apologize for my mistakes with you and apologize if I don't want to be your wife for life. Indeed I do not want to be with you, because what my heresy there is much more handsome than a person who is not perfect as like the Imam Sholeh. And sorry you are far from Sholeh.

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And Alhamdulillah, the day that we will have arrived you come to the trial by talking ugly, insulting me and making a riot. And I'm just silent, not that I'm giving up but because I'm patient I don't want to provoke you. And let the judge know that you are of that nature. At the end of the day we are separated.

Thank you for giving me the color of the grey rainbow, my children and my family all this time. May you always be happy, my ex-husband.

~The End~