The Sacrifice of Love 1

Chapter 69

One week before the wedding Arya and Isyan are not allowed to go out and even meet aka dipingit following Javanese customary traditions.

Isyan was gathering with his family in the garden behind the house while enjoying a snack.

"Geez why should be pinned all the hell" murutu Isyan.

"The name is also a tradition dear" replied Ratih.

"But Isyan kangen is the same as Arya" Isyan said.

"It's so bad you're Syan. If you're married also meet again"timpal Dion.

"Well, did you order Isyan's wedding ring from Mouwad Jewerlry?"ask Ratih.

"Mouwad Jewerry? The diamond company from Dubai? It is very expensive Pah" Isyan exclaimed by glaring at his eyes.lnyam

"You forgot about Shan, you're the sultan"ledek Rama laughed.

"Dion, Isyan's wedding ring when's dateng?"ask Kusuma.

"Relax Om they have flown from Dubai a day ago later this afternoon the Mouwad Jewerlry landed in Jakarta" Dion replied.

While Arya was just silent with a pouting face. The barrel that was busy arranging the home decorations looked at Arya who was in a rage.

"Mama's son why are you pouting?"ask Laras.

"Wouldn't you see Isyan?"ask arya to be clear.

"Can't make it later. Let's go pangling if we meet. Tubes of longing so that you can meet your broken homes"ledek Laras laughed.

"Can't you get married tomorrow?"ask Arya plain

Angga hit arya's arm because gregetan heard his son's babble. Since she was going to marry Isyan, she became an impatient human figure.

"Yesterday he said marry another two weeks. Now ask for tomorrow. You little boy" grumbled Angga.

"The name is also bucin yes" continued Surya chuckled.

*****

One day before the wedding held a recitation and watering event conducted in each house of the bride and groom.

The Wijaya house.

The Wijaya family home is decorated in all white for the study. There are several flower concept backdrops and some flower decorations covering the walls of the house. The school uniform is white this time. Guests present to the study mothers, and close relatives. A welcome to welcome was delivered. Then the show began. From the recitation of the holy verses of the Quran, prayers, and religious lectures.

After the completion of the study event, stay sungkeman event before the flush event. The Wijaya family has also changed with orange-colored kebaya and beskap. Isyan knelt down before his parents who were sitting side by side on the chair.

"Father, Mamah, forgive Isyan's mistakes so far.isyan can not be a good child for papah and mamah. Maybe for 28 years Isyan became the son of mamah and papah there are many mistakes that Isyan did. And now Isyan begs my blessing because I'm going to marry someone of my choice. The man in charge and loved Isyan as sincerely as possible. Pray Isyan can build a harmonious family like papah and mamah build our family" Isyan said with sobs.

Kusuma who was never seen crying finally cried bitterly. Sometimes Ratih stroked his back to win it.

"Isyan little princess papah, you will always be my little princess. Happy Papah becomes your first love. Now you are an adult and choose your own way of life. Papah is willing to let you go to get married. May you be happy with the man of your choice" replied Kusuma.

"Isyan you will be a wife. Do not commit to your husband later. Execute your duties as a wife with all your heart. Prayer will always be with you" said Ratih.

Sungkeman was after the Siraman event. And Isyan changed clothes with a jumping cloth for a flush. After the flush is completed the custom guide directs Kusuma to cut Isyan's hair, after which Kusuma is asked to hold Isyan.

"Not ah Isyan is heavy" Kusuma joked.

"Ih, papah is the last time carrying Isyan"grangek Isyan.

"Who told your body to be strong Shane" ridiculed Dion.

"Udah we gotong royong aja" cried Rama.

Then Rama and Kusuma joined their hands and Isyan sat on their hands. Everyone laughed at the family's funny behavior.

After Isyan reached the room, he returned to wearing the kebaya earlier and was embraced. Then Isyan returned to the event venue to do the last session that was cut the tumpeng as well as the last bribery by his parents. And lastly Kusuma and Ratih selling dawet as the last event.

*****

The Surya house.

Not much different from the process carried out by Isyan. From the start of the study to the flush. The clothes used were the same white teaching uniform and orange-colored kebaya beskap. Who also came to study mothers and their relatives from Bandung. When the study also looks solemn. Plus Arya who very smoothly read the holy verse of the Quran. Continued sungkeman event and Arya was gathered in front of his parents and had changed with the captain.

"Bah, ma'am, let me rest in front of you and melt down the wrongs I have done to papah and mama. I'm sorry if I haven't been able to be a good son to this day. But a lot of the things I learned in life are mainly about responsibility. I have chosen a woman to be my wife. She's beautiful, kind, and independent. I ask and beg do’a and your blessing" said Arya tearfully.

"Arya, after all the events that happened in our family, papah happy finally we are still given a chance to gather. You are papah's favorite son. You'll bring a girl from her father. So please him until he lacks nothing. Be a responsible husband" Angga smiled.

"You will have a great responsibility. Whatever happens in your household will be faced with a cold mind, guide your wife well, be loyal to her. Because all this time he has been faithfully waiting and fighting for you" Laras said in tears.

"Arya, I'm not your real father. I was with you for a year. But one of my messages to you is not to compare your wife to any woman. Because he is also holding back from comparing you to any man" Surya continued.

Sungkeman full of crying haru was over. Arya also changed clothes with a jumputan cloth and immediately carried out a flush. Angga also cut a little Aryan hair. And the customary guide told Angga to carry Arya.

"How's the carrying? My son's body is bigger than mine" Angga said confusedly.

"Try the father to think"the customary guide.

"How is this Sun?"tanya Angga ruined his blankon.

"Just use a pick up car"celtuk Surya origin.

"Lah papah thinks I'm cement transported in a pick-up car" said Arya who began to digiginan.

Angga and Surya looked at each other and signaled by raising eyebrows with a ignorant smile. Suddenly Angga and Surya raised Arya's body like carrying a fainting person.

"Mapu huaa!!"yelled Arya who invited laughter.

Arya was taken to the room to reuse her bedsheet. Then out of the room to return to continue the ritual of cutting tumpeng and fed to his parents. Not to forget also Angga and Laras also sell dawet as the closing of the event.

*****

It was night but the show did not stop there. Now will be held midodareni night. Where the family of the male side visited the house of the female side to bring offerings as well as silahturahmi. This event is only for families, there are no outside guests.

While the bride-to-be is not allowed to go out alias to stay in the room. For this event families and relatives wear kebaya and beskap that nuances more classic or ancient. The kebaya model is non-broken and beskap used bright motifs.

The Aryan family's entourage had already arrived at Isyan's house. They were greeted so warmly but they were only allowed to arrive at the terrace of the house. So that the courtyard of the house has been built tent for tonight's event.

"Thank you for the warm welcome from the Wijaya family. We came here to want to silahturahmi as well as giving as a form of our affection to Isyan. All we bring is a simple gesture but we sincerely give it" Angga said.

"We accept this gift as a form of your love for our daughter" replied Kusuma.

"In addition we want to convey about the wedding dowry" Angga said.

"What's the dowry?"ask Kusuma.

"Money of 3,000 pounds" explained Arya steady.

"Why not a dollar?"ask Rama.

"Rupiah is mainstream. Once in a while make our guests a bit sinter so that at the count of 3,000 pounds how much rupiah" said Surya glanced at the guests who seemed surprised by the value of the dowry.

"Wow sultan's. Didn't expect my brother-in-law sultan once huh"celtuk Dion silly and invited everyone's laughter.

"Thank you for dowry as a manifestation of seriousness and steadiness you ask my daughter" Kusuma said.

"For my handsome son-in-law. Take care of your health until tomorrow. Drink this water. Tonight until tomorrow morning you have to fast" said Ratih while stroking Arya's shoulder and giving a glass of water, which is one part of the ritual called jonggolan.

"Makasih Mah" answered Arya then drank water until it ran out so quickly.

"How many days did you not drink? Until that wave"goda Rama.

"He is not holding back thirst but holding back the same longing Isyam" cried Surya who invited everyone's laughter.

"I'm sorry Arya, you can't meet Isyan. Kan again dipingit" said Sinta who made Arya bowed lethargic.

"I can't see you but I can talk. Nih take the mic you say let Isyan tomorrow more firmly marry you" said Rama gave a mic to Arya.

Arya took a deep breath to relieve her nervousness. Isyan was in the guest room at the front of the house, where the window of his room was directly opposite the event venue.

"Ishana Wijaya, I am no better than any man who has ever tried to enter your life. There are so many bad and wrong things I have done in the past. But I don't know, every time I'm around you, I always feel like I want to be someone better. Tomorrow is our wedding day, will you be my wife?"arya was so soft.

Isyan who was in the room smiled shyly. She did not alone Rara accompanied her with some bridal fairy team.

"Let's answer Kak"Rara's request moves Isyan's hand that is already holding the mic.

"Many things happen in my life when you are and are not. Fighting for love and happiness is a part of my life. I have found happiness with you. There is no doubt in my heart. Arya praditya, I'm ready to be your wife and life partner" Isyan replied.

"Uhh so sweett" cried all those who are lulled by the romantic expression of two lovebirds.

After the phrase from Arya to Isyan, Kusuma gave four wedha pieces of advice or chess before the wedding. Midodareni's night series was finally completed. All guests enjoy the dishes.

"Well, can Arya go to the toilet? It's so sweet" said Ary while holding his jarit.

"You are already big and want to marry even rich children again circumcision" said Laras bobbing head.

"Yes, he went to the bathroom. The one in the living room. Don't stop by"Rati insisted on giving an ultimatum.

As quickly as lightning Arya entered the house. It was not the toilet she was looking for but the guest room Isyan used to hide in.

Seeing the room with lights on and the door decorated with flowers, Arya approached the room. Arya was about to touch the door knob but suddenly there was someone who had opened the door from inside the room. And it turns out that the one who came out was Rara.

"So, what's up here!"rara shouted like she saw a thief and Rara immediately closed the door again.

Hearing RmRara shout, Isyan was about to stand up from the bed.

"Miss Isyan should not leave the room until her future husband's family comes home. Sit down again" said the mother of shaman manten.

"OK deh" replied Isyan resigned.

"Sstt. Brother is not a thief" said Arya stick the index finger to Rara's lips.

"H look out, sister, Rara's lipstick is broken. What brother is here?"rara protest.

"So, I really want to meet Isyan, Ra. Plis for a moment, just a limamenit" said Arya pleading.

"No, never ever. Can't see" said Rara.

Isyan briefly heard the debate in front of the room. And Isyan finally finds out that Arya is trying to sneak in.

"But Ra, a very kangen sister with Isyan" said Arya seduced Rara.

"Bodo. Emang Rara cares. It's getting pinched again. Later it was discovered that Mamah just knew the taste"threatened Rara.

And sure enough Ratih and Laras come along with a fierce face like a boarding mother willing to charge a monthly fee. Both of them immediately grabbed each of Arya's ears.

"Oh, Mah is sick! Why diwewer!"arya's moans held both of her ears.

"Bad boy! I'm told not to stop by uh actually mlipir. Want to circumcise you again?"omel Ratih's.

"Shame on you. Mamah tabok new to know taste"Alaras ambush.

They also took Arya away and are still in a rut condition. Rara laughed out loud at the fate of her brother. Rara went into the room again.

"Why Ra?"ask Isyan.

Rara also recounted the tragedy in front of the room and immediately made Isyan laugh with satisfaction.

"It must be hot ears lined up with our friends" said Isyan.

Arriving at the courtyard of the house, Laras and Ratih were still nagging. And it became a refreshing joke for everyone. Arya Praditya is the President Director of PT. Surya Contractor this evening sneaked like a thief to meet his future wife.

"Sgratimin. Wrong yourself" ridiculed Dion.

"Eat him do not fight the eagle eyes of mothers" Angga laughed.

After the banquet was over, Arya's family also decided to go home. So they can rest for tomorrow's event.