The Love Ship Ayana

Cultum

The knock on her bedroom door woke Arga up, she glanced at her clock, not yet at 4am. The sound of knocking on the door became more intense.

"Argha.. Arga. wake up son!" Call her mother from behind the door.

Arga hurriedly got up to open the door, worried that something had happened that made his mother wake him up this early.

"Squealing" the door's sound opened.

"Yes mom, what's wrong?"

"Let's get ready, accompany your father to the morning prayer at the mosque." The distance of their house is approximately 750 meters to the Mosque, so when they want to perform congregational dawn prayers in the Mosque, his father will ask Arga to deliver it by motorbike, he said, when he came home, his father would choose to walk, all sports he said.

"Arga get ready first." Arga closed his room and went to the bathroom.

Arga now wears his cocoon clothes by using a sarong as his subordinate. He took out a matic motorbike from the garage that used art in his house to go to the market.

After the dawn prayers, they still chose to stay in the mosque. Incidentally this morning there's a cult schedule. It seems that Ustadz Satria is ready to bring his cult material.

The worshippers who still survive in the mosque take a sitting position gathered close to ustadz.

"Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullaahi wabarakatuh." Sapa ustadz Satria.

Then answered simultaneously with loud by the worshipers. Ustadz Satria then offered sholawat and salutation to the Prophet and his thanksgiving to Allah. Then he went into his material.

"Okay, ladies and gentlemen. This time, our cult theme is about HOUSEHOLD, PLEASANT TENDERNESS."

"So, ideally the father of the mother, the interaction between the husband and wife should be smeared with tenderness, both in communication, attitude and behavior. Husband and wife should get used to anointing with magic words or magic words that soften the heart. If the husband is provided with food by the wife, say thank you. If the wife sees her husband is unhappy, apologize immediately. The word magic words that need to be provided often other than thank you and sorry is please, excuse me, please, and for example. Do not use magic words when the bride is just, but also the old bride needs to say it often, both when meeting face-to-face and through long-distance communication.

In addition, reduce the communication that ends using exclamation marks, what is it? Commandments. Instead, multiply news sentences or questions to smooth the way husband and wife communication. This may seem difficult for husbands or wives from certain tribes who are accustomed to speaking loudly, but if accustomed to God willing our way of communication can turn more gentle.

Gentleness is the nature of the teachings of Islam. The Prophet is the most gentle person to others, especially to his wives. "Because of Allah's mercy, you have been meek toward them. If you're being tough again being rude, they'll be distancing themselves from your surroundings. Forgive them, ask forgiveness for them, and consult with them in this matter. Then when you have resolved, trust in Allah. Verily Allah loves those who trust Him" (Qs. 3:159).

Once he came home and his wife Aisha did not hear her husband knock on the door. After three times the Prophet knocked on the door and gave his greetings, he lightly slept on the porch of his house without feeling too upset. He knew his wife might be tired after a day of taking care of the house. There was no anger shown by him.

He also used to call his wives with his favorite calling and beautiful calling. Like "Yaa.. Humaira" to call Aisyah. Calling with a favorite call to our husband or wife is the sunnah of the apostle that needs to be imitated by husband and wife in this day and age. Call our wife or husband with a call that he likes and only we call a partner with the call, so it feels intimacy and meaning in particular. Do not with calls that are too common and market, such as mas, say, honey, ummi, abi or the like, so it becomes not special and special.

If you can in the family there is a code of ethics not to shout at each other, say a rude swearing, especially to do KDRT (Household Violence). Indeed KDRT is not something that appears suddenly. It is a long process of often husband and wife say and behave rudely to their partner. Which is then reciprocated with a rougher one by his partner. So it continues to multiply until finally there is a KDRT.

It should also be understood that the level of rudeness committed by the husband or wife to his partner is not the same as the roughness received by the husband or wife of people outside the home. The rate of his heartache is higher if done by a husband or wife to his partner than done by others. Because the person who is most likely to hurt us is actually the person we love the most, namely our husband, wife or children. Therefore, be careful to speak and behave towards kiya couple and children. Wounds due to roughness committed by the healing partner longer than wounds due to roughness done by people outside the home.

May our family be a family whose interactions always prioritize tenderness and affection."

"Aamiin's." The voice of the congregation simultaneously guarantees the prayer of Ustadz Satria.

The cult brought ustadz Satria this time taste meat all for Arga. He really felt enlightened and got a better view of how to deal with Aya in the future.

Although Arga has not got an idea for his magic word for Aya, but at least he will try to be a man full of gentleness and as much as possible never show his anger in front of Aya later. And so will his children. He did not want his wife's children to remember him as a rude and angry person. Firm, of course he will be very firm, but firm which is different from angry.

Arga immediately returned home, leaving his father who still wanted to greet the other worshippers. Arga wants to get ready, this morning he will take Lala to follow Aya at the top.

His heart was racing at the thought of his meeting with Aya later on. Hopefully he's not expelled. If he was expelled, in vain had his efforts overtime day and night just to clean up some of his work so that he could take leave for the next few days.

Arga to force Lala to return to Indonesia as soon as possible so that he has a strong enough reason to meet Aya. hopefully Aya not suspicious. Arga really can't bear to meet Aya.

It felt like he was crazy, did falling in love for the first time feel this crazy? Does everyone who has ever been in love feel crazy, or does he feel that way???

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Note: the contents of the cult are taken from an article written by ustadz Satria Hadi Lubis.