The Impossible, Becoming Possible
The Part 11
The clock shows at 13:00, today Fatimah's ustadzah will collect all the ustadzah, to be asked how broad the insight of the ustadzah. Fikri and Azka....
“Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,” says ustadzah Fatimah.
“Wassalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,” says all.
“At noon today ustadzah want to test how broad your insight during giving material to santri-santri,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“Good ustadzah will start yes, ustadzah will explain about the difference ta’aruf with dating in Islam, after finishing ustadzah explain ustadzah will ask you,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“Na’am ustadzah,” says all.
“In Q.S Al-Hujurat Allah SWT said which means “Hi man in fact We have created you from a man and a woman, then make you a nation and tribes so that you know each other (li-ta’aruf) (QS Al-Hujurat:13),” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“The ta’aruf process in the present can be said to be the initial stage of introduction. However, ta’aruf activities are rarely done in the present. Many young people are looking for a soul mate by courting. Keep what is the difference between ta’aruf and courtship when both are equally to know prospective partners,” said ustadzah Fatimah smiled.
Novita and Fikri watched in earnest...
“In terms of destination
Ta’aruf aims to get to know each other towards a sacred bond in marriage. While courtship aims only to have fun without any strings attached. The two lovebirds are just two-and-a-half with no official ties. This is what is forbidden in religion. Dating is not wrong, wrong is our goal, the way we do it, it is wrong and prohibited in Islam,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“Well, how about dating? Isn't that also actually a process of getting acquainted as well? Right, dating is a process to recognize prospective partners. Even the courtship is sometimes not just recognize, but can arrive at the stage of understanding. The difference is, ta’aruf the process of acquaintance that is limited to the rules of Islamic sharia. Even much more complicated than the courting process. Ta’aruf is much simpler, there is no need to come mengapel every night of the week for months or even years. Enough a month ta’aruf process, generally continue the khitbah process (lamaran) to the prospective in-laws. If accepted, can already invite the family to apply officially and determine the date of the marriage contract.” It was clearly Fatimah's ustadzah with a smiling face looking towards Novita and Fikri.
“Ustadzah what is his law of dating?” Aisyah asked who made Novita and Isma look at her.
“ basically courtship as a form of socialization is allowed as long as it does not lead to actions that are clearly prohibited by syara’. That is dating that can bring the perpetrators closer to adultery,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“So in Islam can not date ya ustadzah?” Ask Aisyah.
“Fikri try to read a surah that states courtship is haram,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“letat Al Isra verse 32 reads:
وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓ ۖ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ فَٰحِشَةً وَسَآءَ سَبِيلً
It means: “And do not approach adultery, indeed adultery is a cheese act. And a bad road.” (QS. Al-Isra: 32),” says Fikri submissive.
“Don't approach zina, after ustadzah here who has a relationship Fikri and Novita, so gini, the courtship is not wrong, as long as we are not close to zina, what is zina ustadzah? Zina is like the two of us, looking at each other, always thinking about each other, it is zina in dating, her manggara is better ta’aruf than dating,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“Means that dating should break up yes ustadzah,” Aisyah quipped.
“No, if you really want to continue to a more serious level is not papa, but do not in the name of dating, just assume that you are maintaining a commitment,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
Aisyah was upset to hear what Fatimah's ustadzah said, that they did not need to break up, but committed each other....
“Ustadzah, commitment is what?” Ask Isma.
“Commitment is, The inner bond that slowly emerges from a relationship that initially without much direction occurs. But, for some people, commitment is an important thing that must be discussed at the beginning of their relationship. So, which is better, to commit from the beginning of the relationship or to let it grow on its own as time goes by?” Ustadzah Fatimah.
Novita was silent a thousand languages, he felt guilty for tying ties with Fikri by way of dating. There are many trials coming....
“Someone wants to ask again?” Ask ustadzah Fatimah.
“Ya already if you understand now ustadzah will share groups in 1 group there are 2 people, for presentations or cults at the end of the test, that will determine whether you pass or not, his cult as bad as ya want themed what is clear that is very useful,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“Fikri and Azka will watch over yes, so Fikri petrified Novita yes, while Azka helped Isma,” said ustadzah Fatimah.
“Na’am ustadzah,” says all.
“Good ustadzah end yes assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,” says ustadzah Fatimah go.
They also returned to their rooms. Evening came, tonight many of the stars, Novita and Isma as usual, sat in their usual place of gathering but not with Aisyah....
“Si Aisyah tumben yes not here,” said Novita.
“Maybe he sprained, ustadzah Fatimah your partner with Fikri,” said Isma.
“Iya times, but he should not know, yes just because it's my enemy,” said Novita.
“Yes how?” Isma.
“Apologies yok, I swear I'm not good youh if gini,” said Novita.
“Ya has come back,” said Isma.
Isma and Novita went to look for Aisha, Isma and Novita met Aisha in front of the musholla she was sitting with Cantika....
“Syah,” call Isma.
“Eh Is, what is it?” Ask Aisyah.
“Shah do not gini donk, yes you are angry with me Just because of....,” Novita said cut off.
“Where not angry, you know I like,” said Aisyah.
“I've liked him longer than you,” said Novita.
“You do not be selfish donk, Just because your boy giniini me,” said Novita.
“You are selfish, from the first time you entered, I am good with you, but this is a reply from you,” said Aisyah.
“Updah-already, do not fight in front of musholla donk,” said Isma.
“Ok, I'm sorry,” Novita said.
“Decision of your relationship with him only then I can forgive you,” said Aisyah left.
“Well he's a selfish donk,” said Novita annoyed.
“Iya,” says Isma.
Morning arrived, as usual Isma and Novita doing the activity as usual, after doing the activity as usual, Novita panicked, she saw her capelan bracelet with Fikri not there. Novita meets Isma in the library.....
“Isma, this department,” Novita said in a panic.
“Witch why?” Ask Isma.
“My bracelet is gone,” Novita said.
“Loh can,” said Isma shocked.
“Yes where I know, I was out of work, I will see my hands, well that's where I realize that the bracelet is missing,” said Novita.
“Astagfirullah why are you so careless, if Fikri knows how?” Isma.
“Don't panic donk, today I want to talk about graduation cult later,” said Novita blurted her lips.
“Ya keep how?” Isma.
“Yes I don't know, help you run yes, Plisss,” Novita said begging.
“Help find where?” Ask Isma.
“In the place where I taught earlier, in his class the brushed,” said Novita.
“Ya I will search for it,” said Isma.
“Ya I already want to meet Fikri first yes, Dadah,” said Novita go.
Novita and Fikri have made an agreement in the back garden of the ponpes to discuss cults to graduates....
“Assalamualaikum, sorry yes late,” said Novita sitting next to Fikri with keep distance.
“Wassalamu’alaikum, yes gpp kok,” said Fikri.
Somehow Novita was nervous, she was afraid that Fikri would ask about her bracelet....
“You want a cult later on what theme?” Ask Fikri.
“About free association how?” Novita.
“Good, ok deh, oh yes I said there is a book about free association,” said Fikri opened his bag.
“Well this,” said Fikri gave it to Novita.
As Novita picks up the book, Fikri sees Novita's hand not wearing her capellant bracelet.....
“Hm, Nov where are your bracelets?” Ask Fikri.
Novita was shocked when Fikri asked about it....
“Sorry yes, sorry really, the bracelet is missing,” said Novita submissive.
“Kok can?” Fikri said in shock.
“Sorry,” says Novita.
“Serious you're not angry?” Ask Novita.
“No, why try angry, it will be just a bracelet, later if there is a time to buy again,” said Fikri smiled.
“Still yes already understandiin,” said Novita smiled.
“Iya,” says Fikri.
After all the material that Novita will discuss later when the cult to the graduates, Novita also walked to the room, suddenly in the middle of the trip Novita saw Arif was holding his bracelet. Without thinking long Novita went straight to Arif...
“Arif,” call Novita.
“Eh ustadzah,” says Arif smile.
“That bracelet can be where?” Ask Novita.
“From class,” says Arif.
“Balikin donk, it's my bracelet,” Novita said.
“Oh his bracelet ustadzah, I can do it, I return it but there are conditions,” said Arif.
“What?” Ask Novita.
“Lunch with ya today,” said Arif.
“Hah?” Novita said in shock.
“Kalo don't want gpp anyway, but the bracelet belongs to me,” said Arif.
“Ya already yes, ayok,” said Novita.
Novita was forced to have lunch with Arif, if not for the bracelet, maybe Novita refused Arif's invitation. As Arif looked at Novita, suddenly Fikri came, his face was like an angry person. Novita who saw Fikri was shocked, Arif immediately left, the bracelet held by Arif was given to Novita...
Novita was silent a thousand languages, then Fikri also invited Novita to speak under a tree, when he reached the tree feeling Novita was afraid, until Novita did not dare to see the face of Fikri....
“Ngapain lunch with him,” said Fikri turned his back on Novita.
“Sorry,” says Novita submissive.
“I asked why?” Fikri said in an angry tone.
“Because my bracelet is with him, when I asked for his bracelet he gave the requirements, his requirements must be lunch with him, I sold it all in order to get this bracelet,” said Novita.
“Wheellet? Where's the bracelet?” Said Fikri took the bracelet in the Novita bracelets, and removed the bracelet he was wearing, then threw the bracelet.
“Kok on waste?” Ask Novita.
“The bracelet can be bought again, I'll say the gpp bracelet is missing, I don't care, it's just an item, I don't like you Deket with each other, ok if Just a friend, just a friend, but it was Arif that saw you so,” said Fikri Long.
“Ya sorry,” said Novita submissive.
Fikri approached Novita..
“Nov, the goods can be bought again, if it is gone let alone not be searched again,” said Fikri.
“Iya, I will not repeat again,” said Novita.
“Sorry yes, have snapped you,” said Fikri.
“Iya gpp kok,” says Novita smile.
“Ya has returned to the room,” said Fikri.
“Iya, assalamualaikum,” says Novita go.
“Wassalamu’alaikum,” said Fikri.
Somehow Novita day was very happy, hearing Fikri's words, that it was only an item, and Novita was also very sure, if Fikri's heart was only for him, because what? Because Fikri said that he did not like Novita close to other men. Novita met Isma who was sitting in an ordinary place, with a happy look on her face....
“Why are you Nov?” Isma said astonished.
“Possible if only met the prince of his side will already be official,” continued Isma.
“I'm happy to see Fikri jealous,” said Novita smiled.
“Hah? Jealous of what?” Ask Isma.
“How I ate lunch with the brute,” said Novita.
“Astagfirullah Novita!” Said Isma shouting.
“You cheated on the same guy? Your level is very low yes,” said Isma staring at Novita.
“Heh ngawur you yes,” said Novita staring Isma back.
“Well you have lunch just as neat, try the same ustadz that is more handsome than the Fikri is still mending,” said Isma.
“There is no more handsome ustadz than Fikri,” said Novita.
“Iya have handed you over,” said Isma
Evening came, tonight the weather was like rain, Isma and Novita sat in front of his room, looking up at the sky...
“Is, not good deh musuhan gini,” said Novita.
“You think it's good, I'm still confused, want to have lunch with you or the same Aisyah, my head is so dizzy, try not marahan we can be with three, I'm sure,” says Isma.
“Ya already so help me let me be better with Aisyah,” said Novita.
“Well I have an idea,” said Isma.
“What,” says Novita.
“How if you say it to Aisyah if you have broken up with Fikri, even though you also say the same to Fikri, tell him to keep your relationship a secret, you also tell him to keep your relationship secret, in public places you have nothing to do but in reality you still have a relationship,” said Isma.
“Well, kok tumben you pinter,” said Novita raised both eyebrows.
“Isma mah is always smart,” said Isma.
“Ok so tomorrow I will say the same to Fikri,” said Novita.
“Sip,” says Isma.
Even in the morning, Novita immediately went to find Fikri, and finally met, Novita immediately told him everything, and Alhamdulillah Fikri agreed with Novita's plan. After that Novita went to see Isma, after which Isma and Novita went to meet Aisyah....
“Syah,” call Isma.
“Iya why,” says Aisyah.
“I have broken up with Fikri, you said if I break up you will forgive me,” said Novita.
“Serious?” Aisyah said in shock.
“It is serious,” said Novita.
“Ok I'm sorryin, so I'm free to go near the Fikri,” said Aisyah smiling face.
“There are people cake him, said his aja ponakan kiyai but akhlak nauzubillah,” said inward Novita.
Novita also walked, I don't know where Novita will go. Now Novita must strengthen her heart to see Aisyah approaching Fikri, but this is all for the sake of her relationship with Aisyah is fine and also the relationship with Fikri is fine.
At lunchtime, Novita and Isma had arrived at the cafeteria, while Aisyah had come with Fikri, Fikri looked towards Novita with a sad face, if it wasn't for her relationship Fikri wouldn't do something stupid like this...
“Quiet Nov,” says Isma soothes Novita.
“This has calmed down,” said Novita while biting her food.
With the passage of time, 1 week passed, during 1 Sunday Novita had to feel the pain, see her lover close to others. This morning Fatimah's ustadzah assigned Novita and Fikri to teach in a Tsanawiyah madrasah, Fatimah's ustadzah already knew all that Fikri and Novita were ekting pretending to be enemies when they were not. The Fatimah Ustadzah commissioned Novita and Fikri to teach outside the ponpes. Hari Novita was very happy to hear the word ustadzah Fatimah, because he today will not see Fikri close to other women.
Novita and Fikri went to Tsanawiyah madrasah on a motorcycle, because if you ride the car is only berduan not muhrim, so Fikri decided to ride the motorbike. They went to the madrasa, Fikri took the bike leisurely, about half an hour away, Fikri and Novita stopped at a stall, they stopped because they wondered why they had not found his address.....
“This is already half an hour away why have not met also the madrasah,” said Fikri.
“Iya, the cake is a fake address times yes,” said Novita.
Fikri who had not looked at Novita for a long time, now he could look at Novita up close, Fikri smiled to see Novita nagging because he did not find his address. Novita who realized from earlier Fikri saw her blushed embarrassed...
“What the hell, see it so much,” said Novita held back laughter.
“Hm gpp anyway,” said Fikri smiled.
“This how?” Novita.
