
" You're going to pick up your wife tomorrow?" marlin asked while putting a magazine on the Aksara desk.
" Of course." replied Aksara less excited.
" then when we go home, do we still need to call Fatan's sister?"
" i will not talk to my wife either..
my phone he never picked up.."
Marlin was silent for a moment, seeing his friend was good.
" You want to hear no..?"
" about?"
" you.."
The script fell silent, but then he lifted his chin, like allowing Marlino to speak.
" If this is over, promise me.."
" what promise?"
" give your wife some space.."
" you mean?" Aksara is less clever in the affairs of women's feelings.
" Give him his freedom.."
" you think I'm putting him in jail?" sahut Aksara slightly unacceptable.
" The freedom I mean is always to give him a choice..
give him his opinion..
give him space for things he likes,
before meeting you he must have had a habit,
whether it's a hobby or even a different mindset,
you know you've been separated for 10 years, change must be there, whether it's you or your wife,
of course, every human being does not undergo the same process..
so is your wife..
you left him when he was young..
and now she's not a girl anymore, but a grown woman..
there are things other than materials that you have to fulfill..
like my wife, she loved traveling in her youth..
I once let him have his own time to enjoy his old hobby,
even though my heart is not willing..
but still I must allow it for the calm and stability of my wife's heart..
youknew..
the role of the husband is very important to keep the mood of the wife remains good..
if every day he's just you, with him,
and you're just letting it out with you..
how can he develop his mindset,
have a good friend he doesn't. Then who can advise him as a friend?
if he'd let you and you would've trusted him, maybe when he was in trouble he'd tell my wife or Farhan's wife..
at least he got good input..
if she harbored it herself like this, she would be depressed and take a step to leave..
imagine there are no relatives or friends here, and you always act overprotective..
how can he think rationally when faced with things that suppress his feelings..
You're like a mirror to her,
if you're impulsive, he'll slowly become impulsive like you..
if you're grumpy, he'll slowly become grumpy like you..
the husband is the wife's place to study..
so fix the way you treat your wife..
the husband does not have to be perfect, but he is perfect in front of your wife..
spread your shoulders..
enlarge heart..
communication is important..
problems of any size will be small when communication between you is good..
you're gonna be a dad..
remember that..
don't blame why a wife is like that..
fix how you love it first.."
marlin said at length.
Aksara lowered her head for a moment, she was like a bewilderment.
" What don't you understand..say..?"
" of course it's mandatory, but give him a little confidence, but give him a little confidence,
like shopping for her own after she gives birth..
buy his favorite book2 at the bookstore, go to the salon, or shop at the mall like another wife's wife.."
" but he has no friends, just like me. There's only you and Farhan.."
" your wife doesn't have no friends, but you make her no friends..
you didn't give him time and opportunity, for him,
how can he open friendships with others while he is at home, and once out it is only with you..
even go home, he immediately you deliver it home,
another mother invited him to spend time together outside..
do you want to make your wife ceramic, or house decoration?"
" Where might I be so. " replied Aksara slowly, Aka,
" he's always quiet and accepting, so I don't think it matters.." added Aksara.
" Of course he doesn't dare say no, you're creepy..
against the husband is not justified, but many husbands also forget, too,
the wife's opinion is also important..
try asking, please,
does he mind or not..
tired or not..
give him time to pamper himself according to his taste.not with your taste continues.."
again the characters can only be silent.
He knew what Marlin said was true, but it wasn't easy for him to think so freely of Rania.
His burdens and responsibilities as a husband as well as an older brother greatly overshadowed him.
Fulfilling his promise to the late father was very important to him.
Dimas just nagged, it had been half an hour more he followed Rania to and fro, from the living room to the kitchen.
Jihan just got so bad to see it.
" Rania is stressed.. if she is angry so yes more stress..?!
don't don't you get married later you're gonna scold me all the time like that?
I think I need to rethink.." Jihan's upset, man,
" I have the right to nag him, he's already considered a brother, of course he's wrong to just leave the house?" answer Dimas manyun,
" what the hell is it with rethinking about marrying me?!" Dimas is getting more and more manyun.
" Do you have to ask why he left the house? you're his best friend, should've listened to him and given him good input..
open nagging from the living room to the kitchen." Jihan said making Dimas mute instantly.
" Rania isn't the rebel type you said..
if he leaves, then,
it means something hurt him and he can't stand it..
remember, not all women are able to withstand the pressure caused by feelings or circumstances..
some people tend to go to avoid the cause of the stess..
but there are some people who will solve it directly..
humans are not all like you..
so don't be confused..
give it a good understanding, not nagging it.."
Dimas thought for a moment,
" but you used to nag me..? don't it be a scolding for jealousy?" the chirps arrived to discuss what had passed,
" that's because master teachers do love to spread charm..!" Jehan pinched Dimas' arm.
" Hurt?!" moozy Dimas,
" it's there, apologize to Rania. Stop nagging, we'll just get her off the road.. "
" great idea.we take him to the newly opened tourist attractions, which are many flowers.. " Dimas up, up,
he walked towards Rania's room,
" gig! poke! tock!" Dimas knocked on Rania's room door,
Rania who was tired of hearing Dimas' tirade arrived just entered the room, she was not angry, just was not having the energy to answer.
" Ran??! I'm sorry, aren't I.. ? I promise I won't talk about it again..
we go yuk road? we go to a cool, cold place, you like to see the flowers and the hills.. ?" persuade Dimas, long time no answer.
" Purik wes.." murmured Dimas,
" Ran??!" call Dimas again, and before long the door that was knocked on Dimas was open.
" Where is the street (where is the road)?" asked Rania with an enthusiastic face.
" Where are you going, I'm the same Dimas manut..?!" jihan smiled widely.
" Quick change clothes. wear comfortable clothes, do not forget the jacket.." added Dimas worried pregnant women in front of him was catching a cold.