Pomegranates

Education

Often we as parents, wrong in pampering children, especially at the age of toddlers.

Now Mangata age even 2.5 years, starting a lot of requests that he wants to until it will sulk and rage if not given. So, how do you deal with it? what else is a young mother like me who does not understand much.

One day, Mangata whines for toys while shopping for restaurant needs at the supermarket. He went on a rampage to the streets.

Of course I let it go.

He continued to roll, until many pedestrians asked.

"That's the kid why the hell mba? want a toy"

some even shined.

"*Yaampun very much love this mother, ketibang want toys just not in the box, ampe nangis so that*nya nangis"

And so forth.

But, without them understanding, I always did this to Mangata.

Note: When your child sulks to tears and rolls. Try not to yell at him, scold him or hit him. And also do not stay, wait and supervise the child. And the most important point. Do not make eye contact with the child.

point : The child will learn to process emotions and teach him how to ask well. In addition, it teaches if :

Not everything in this world he could have.!!

After the mangata stopped and calmed down. Of course he will wake up by himself.

"Haven't?" Ask me softly.

Then I likened my position to her and gave her a drink and asked her what she wanted.

"Drink first, ade haskan...!! Mbu asked me carefully, what do you want?"

He hugged me and apologized.

"Sorry mom, you naughty bitch!!" Her words.

"Yes dear...!! so don't want the toys? let's go home, yuk!!"

"No, you already have it at home, later if it's ugly. Buy more toys!!"

The merchants on the side of the road who had seen me and the mangata, were stunned by the way I taught him.

I carried her and went home.

Arrive at home. I immediately teased Mangata with what happened earlier.

"Dec, what happened? there is no shame.many see Ade loh. Same mbu in madurin same people."

She blushed in shame and embraced me.

"Mother in malain olang huh? who even mbu naughty, will hit!!" Clotechnya.

We laughed together and went to the kitchen to clean up the blanjaan and called Iman so that the blanjannya brought to the restaurant.

After finishing, I also bathed Mangata because it was dirty rolling on the road.

A few minutes later, the bath was in order, I immediately took her to bed and put on clothes, and tidr together.

The day started getting late, I woke up and immediately cooked for Mangata.

After I finished cooking, I took a shower and accidentally closed the bathroom door afraid Mangata would wake up and look for me, plus she was so active that I was afraid she would fall.

Then suddenly someone entered my room and went straight to me who was bathing because the door was not closed.

"Amara!" Her exclaim.

I turned and screamed loudly.

"Aaaaaaaaaaa...go to you.. go!!!" I cried while quickly wearing a towel.

"Zahwan??" My welcome.

I was surprised if the one in front of me was him.

"You why the hell the shower door is not closed, the door of the house is not in the key. What if someone comes in, huh?. Intentionally let them see your body freely, right?. Let them do what you do, will they?" Zahwan.

"*You are silent, you are entering sin*i.. Come on!" I cried while pulling her into the bathroom.

"You look outside, from here we can see one room. From here I can also keep an eye on all Mangata activities if I stay in the shower. So don't be mad2 before you know the reason." I clearly.