Obsessive Love Disorder's.
Happy day
3 weeks later.
Today was a very happy day for Alana. And so is Arif. Arif is very confident that he will take Alana. Because for two weeks. He intensely prayed istikharah, praying fervently. Is Alana going to be the right wife for her. Every time he prayed, he got
steadfastness, to go forward to take Alana's wife.
All the space in his house is not spared from the very beautiful decorations. Batak and Minang tribal decorations dominate the room where the ijab kabul will be held. The outside of the house is also beautifully decorated. There are 10 columns on the ground, along the way lined with flower boards that say Congratulations on Arif and Alana's wedding.
Alana's extended family looks very happy to welcome the groom's entourage. Although the real Alana's extended family, it is still very sad, because Alana's mother has just died 3 weeks.
Alana looks so beautiful today. The synthetic body is wrapped in white kebaya bones decorated by embroidery and swaroski sequins, making the shape of the body more beautiful, moreover, this sacred dimoment Alana was wearing a hijab decorated with a crown made of pearls.
Alana's appearance was very different today, enough to make Arif stunned. Both of his eyeballs glared perfectly, keenly staring fixedly at Alana, who is now entering the space will be implemented ijab kabul.
Alana is seated behind the groom. Arif who was amazed at his future wife was unconsciously following Alana's movements. He had to turn his neck back.
"eehmmm... Well, father mother, it seems that the kabul ijab event can be carried out, because the marriage pillars have been fulfilled. Is that Mr Arif?" ask Pengpenghulu politely to Arif.
Arif who was still looking back, looked in admiration the wife did not hear the words of the pak penghulu, which this time also applies as a host.
Nyut...
A man who was still Arif's age, poked at Arif's waist, who was sitting not far from where Arif was sitting at the moment.
"Eeuww... What..?"
Aduh Arif was surprised to feel his waist being poked by someone. He turned to the left where the left waist was poked by the man.
"The way will begin." Said the man slowly.
"Ouww...!" Arif grinned the horse towards the ruler, he was currently feeling very tense. Her chest is pounding great. I don't know why he feels so unsettled. Besides, he was ashamed of his past. Her heart was also in turmoil, stunned by Alana's beauty.
"Can we start Mr Arif?"
Pak penghulu reaffirmed the readiness of Arti.
With a big smile Arif looked at Pak Penghulu. "Yes sir." The man who was nervous was friendly and suave. Still smiling at the people in front of himincluding the pengulu and the witnesses.
"Well let's start, but first I need to. Are the files for the list right to the Office of Religious Affairs, will be prepared by you tomorrow?"
Said Penghulu. He asked seriously to Arif.from the question that pak penghulu catapulted if, he doubted the seriousness of Arif. Maybe it was Alana's parents who said that I haven't gotten a divorce certificate. So, we are currently married betel. Flo is a transgender woman. When we got married, her identity was a real woman.
"Yes sir, I've prepared everything. I'm serious about this marriage." Replied Arid firmly, this time he did not smile again to pak penghulu, but he showed Wibawa. I used to be a brave cop.
"Thank God, let's start the kabul ijab event. Given this sudden event and lack of preparation, yes we do the perfunctory. Importantly, the terms of marriage are complete." Obviously Mr. penghulu again.
Huuff...
Arif took a deep breath and exhaled slowly Somehow he felt very tense. Her second marriage was more thrilling than her first marriage to Flo.
"Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi Westarakatuh...!" Said Mr. Penghulu starting to open the event. The greeting sounded excited in the room.
Pak Penghulu started with his long-term Tausiahan, discussing all the obligations/rights of husband and wife. Everything is discussed by Pak Penghulu starting from birth and inner living.
"The duty of the husband to the wife in marriage according to Islam. Husbands have several obligations that are the rights of wives in marriage, including
" Give dowry and a living
The first obligation of the husband to the wife in marriage according to Islam is to give dowry and a living. Mahar is a dowry that men should give when marrying women. While living, not only limited to kitchen money, but in the form of clothing, food and boards (giving clothes, food, and home).
" Grooming the wife well
this becomes one of the obligations of the husband to the wife, which is to raise his partner well, should not be rude or to hurt.
" Pregnant of the wife
The husband is obliged to take good care of his wife, maintain his pride, uphold his honor, and protect her from everything that can tarnish his honor. The husband is also required to keep his wife's secret.
". Guiding wife
The duty of the husband is to give religious guidance to his wife and tell her to always obey Allah and His Messenger. The husband is also obliged to keep his wife from sins that can bring harm to the family.
" Give love and affection
In Islam, the husband is obliged to give love and affection to the wife. That is, the husband must speak soft words, give a sense of calm, express his love, and show affection." Said Pak Penghulu, when saying the duty of the husband. Pak Penghulu stared intensely at Arif as if to doctrine the man.
"How about Mr. Arif, do you already know your duty to your wife ?" asked Pak Penghulu, Arif nodded and smiled. This is not her first marriage. He's certainly very mature in that.
"Don't just nod Mr. Arif. Pronounced..!" emphatically.
"Ready, understand Mr. Ustadz." Arif replied quickly and firmly. There was a slow giggle from the guests in the room. Arif was wrong.
Now Pak Penghulu continues his Tausiahan. Arif looks astonished because of his marriage this time, Tausiya as detailed and very long.
"Dek Alana, the obligation of the wife to the husband in marriage according to Islam you must understand. Intentionally this time, I peeled in more detail. Since you guys only come to the office once for guidance, it should be three times." Said Pak Penghulu with passion and firmly. Alana raised her head a little. He nodded back to answer the words of the Pengulu sir.
Mr. KUA continued his Tausiah, Arif also heard it with solemnity.
"the duty of the wife to whom her husband is entitled.
"Obid the husband
The first duty of the wife to the husband is to obey the husband. For example, the wife obeys when the husband tells her to worship, close the aurat, and others. In Islam, a wife's obedience to her husband is equal to male jihad. But, there are times when the wife can discuss something before making a decision, such as discussing work, family, child education, and so on.
"Maintain the property, home, and honor of the husband
When the husband is obliged to give a living in the form of his income to the wife, then the wife is obliged to take care of him. That is, the wife is obliged to take care and maintain the property that her husband gives. Even if possible, the wife is able to develop her property.
How about keeping the house? This means that a wife should not leave the house without her husband's permission, and should not bring another man into the house when the husband is not there.
While maintaining the honor of the husband is not to spread the disgrace of her husband. Just as a husband is obliged to keep a wife's secret, the wife should not spread her husband's secret. Either directly, or indirectly.
" Finding the willingness of the husband and avoiding his wrath
The wife must seek pleasure or pleasure from the husband. Because in Islam, the willingness of the husband is the ticket of a wife to get heaven and happiness afterlife. Therefore, the wife must try to get the willingness of the husband. There are various ways, including doing actions that please the husband, help the husband finish his job, meet the needs of the husband, and so on.
"Understanding the business of making love.
Well Well.. point' this is the most important to be understood by Dek Alana and the Mothers who are here.
If the husband has an obligation to care for his wife, on the other hand the wife must understand the affairs of lovemaking. The wife should not refuse when the husband asks her to make love. For from Abu Hurairah, the Prophet Muhammad once said:
"If a man takes his wife to bed, then the wife is reluctant to fulfill it, then the angel will curse her until dawn.” HR. Bukhari and Muslim.
However, there are conditions where the wife cannot meet the needs of the husband, such as being sick, puerperia, menstruation, and so on. However, try to talk about it carefully with your partner.
How's Dek Alana? you understand this point, right? don't make your husband get a headache, then his head gets bald. Because I'm tired of making a living. Adek Alana doesn't treat the head down." Hahahaha..the audience laughed out loud, heard the unfiltered speech of Mr. KUA. Especially the guests of Adam.
Looks like the guests' mothers of the guests got a twelve-pass kick. Mr. Penghulu spoke on target.
"Origin don't be bald, head up and down." There was a voice coming from the invited guests in the room. The sound of laughter was faintly heard again.
Arif turned his head back, he wanted to see the expression on his face Alana. It turned out that the woman was getting dizzy. Even his face was barely covered in a scarf.
"The 5th. Showing a sweet and pleasant face husband
Showing a sweet face will certainly provide happiness for the husband who sees it, is not it? This is an obligation for a wife to her husband in marriage according to Islam. While pleasing the husband, can do something that can cause happiness in the heart of the couple. No need to be fancy or difficult, can be by cooking his favorite menu, tidying up the house, or just buying him a small gift.
A hadith from Abu Hurairah RA, the Prophet once said:
“The good woman is a woman who when you see her, you feel happy. If you command, he will obey you. And if you are not by his side, he will take care of your treasure and himself.”
That is a summary of the obligations of husband and wife in marriage according to Islam. The duty of the husband becomes the right for the wife, and vice versa. In addition, the two complement each other and compensate. When the husband and wife try to perform their respective duties in marriage, God willing the marriage will be harmonious, as well as happy world and hereafter. Aamiin's." Firmly Mr. Penghulu again.
"Because the terms of marriage are complete and only the fifth condition is ijab kabul. Then we'd better get our ijab kabul started." Said Pak Penghulu firmly and fully authoritatively.
"How is Mr Samsul, you are ready?" Ask Pak Penghulu to his father Alana, who from earlier looks sad. Obviously the man was sad, his wife's grave was still red, and now he was going to marry his only daughter. Her daughter, her husband will take her.
"Ready..!" Her father Alana.
"Dek Arif, are you ready?" the words of Pak Penghulu again shocked Arif. Sepetinya pak penghulu has twice asked his readiness.
"God willing I am ready sir!" said the man who now looks dashing with a black suit stelan with a smile. He changed his body position even more firmly.
"Bismilbornrahmanirrahim," said Mr. Samsul firmly.
"I marry you Arif Dirgantara Bin Akbar Khoir with our daughter Alana Katlovely Binti Samsul with a dowry of 50 million and a set of gold jewelry weighing 50 grams paid, cash!"
"I accept the marriage and marriage of Alana Katlovely Binti Samsul with the dowry paid, cash!"
Everyone in the room listened seriously to the words of the pak pengulu.
"YEAH...!"
The words of the witnesses made Arif and Alana calm down. Finally two lovebirds who were familiar when they were children, have become a married couple. Before Sah, they both had bitter experiences about romance. Where the two are fools. Arif tricked Flo the transgender ex-wife. And Alana tricked her lover who turned out to be a G A Y...
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EXPIRE
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