
..."Your presence and the grace of the Lord in your jaws, is surely the complement to my life, Mother."...
...-Keevan'ar Radityan Az-zzioi...
...BSJ 62: 4 Monthly Bumu...
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"Well, whose milk pie is this? It's delicious." Said the beautiful girl in loose dusty pink hijab.
"What the hell, it's got a brother. Napain you ate without permission?" Said the handsome guy who just came out of the pantry.
"Request a little bang, finished his pie really cute. Egotistical to enjoy." Said the beautiful girl who works as a Muslim fashion designer and fashion observer.
"It's got a brother." Ketus handsome man was flat, while pulling a pie in the box to his face.
"Mighty spy, kayak made by a prospective wife. Peel it." Upset Lunar while enjoying her last piece of pie.
"The leg fits in the mouth, delicious bang. Ask again dong bang, just take."
"Son, this is a brother!" Annoyed Anzar while closing the box of someone's gift pie.
He won't let his sister eat that special pie again. In just five minutes, his pie lost four pieces. Moreover, left on the table even longer, raip already his pie.
"Bang, how stingy is that? God doesn't like stingy people." Lunar said seducing the brother.
"No, you bought it at the cake shop. This one don't!"
"Mother, stingy brother."
"So there, it's big too."
"Mother, brother Anzar pelitt."
The middle-aged woman who was carrying some kind of fresh flowers was walking hastily. While carrying his luggage, he headed to the origin of the sound of the two hearts' bickering.
"This is what the hell, already in adults who still like the storm. Why Lunar?" Ask the sibungsu.
"Abang stingy bun, Lunarkan just ask for a little pie." Lunar Adu.
The handsome man did not want to budge, he still handled the complaint of the sister flatly.
"Why don't you want to share Lunar? It's the same with my own sister."
Anzar looked at his sister fiercely. The girl smiled triumphantly from beside the mother. "Yes, my brother is very stingy with the Lunar. Like a pie made by a future wife!"
He said while choking small.
"The lunar!" Seru the mother lirih.
"Yes, sorry mother."
Arkia looked back at the elder, asking through his shady bead.
"Made-made wife bun, so haram in eating anyone, including Lunar." The handsome man's stark answer certainly made the two women in front of him stupefied.
Wife candidate, hellow. Does Keevanzar Radityan Al-Faruq have a new wife?
"Whose wife is she?" Ask the ngebass voice, which came from the direction of the stairs.
"Yes, my future wife." Answer Anzar quickly.
"Which one?" Asked the handsome man full of probing.
"Don't ask, we'll know we're married." His words were short as he passed carrying a box of pie made by Airra.
"Abang actually has a future wife bun?" Lunar asked slightly whispering.
Arkia shook her head in response. "Then the brother, endless failed to move one from the ex-wife people." Little Lunar Kikik.
"Astagfirullah, it can't be Lunar." Lerai the mother.
While the handsome man standing in the doorway was just winking his shoulders indifferently, while re-reading the note he was carrying.
"Mother, tomorrow's the thanksgiving from the morning, right?" Ask to open the conversation.
The middle-aged woman nodded with a smile. Tomorrow is a ceremony held for the four months of Aurra's birth. The event, tomorrow will be held in irumah Dimas. In exchange, the seven-month event will be held at Radityan residence, to be fair he said.
The four-monthly event, or in Javanese this 4-monthly selamatan event is usually called mapati. The term is taken from the word papat which means four. There are also those who call it ngupati or ngeba papat monthly.
According to the Hadith History (HR) of Muslim Imams, at the age of 4 months, the baby in the womb already has complete body parts like a human being.
إِنَّ أَحَدَكُمْ يُجْمَعُ خَلْقُهُ فِي بَطْنِ أُمِّهِ أَرْبَعِينَ يَوْمًا، ثُمَّ يَكُونُ فِي ذَلِكَ عَلَقَةً مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ، ثُمَّ يَكُونُ فِي ذَلِكَ مُضْغَةً مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ، ثُمَّ يُرْسَلُ الْمَلَكُ فَيَنْفُخُ فِيهِ الرُّوحَ، وَيُؤْمَرُ بِأَرْبَعِ كَلِمَاتٍ: بِكَتْبِ رِزْقِهِ، وَأَجَلِهِ، وَعَمَلِهِ، وَشَقِيٌّ أَوْ سَعِيدٌ
It means: “Truly every one of you gathered his creation in his mother's stomach for forty days (in the form of sp*rma), then became a lump of blood in forty days anyway, then it became a lump of meat within forty days as well. Then an angel blew a soul into it and was commanded to write down four things; his fortune, his death, his charity, and whether he became a wretched or happy man.” (Muslim bin Hajjaj An-Naisaburi, Shahi Muslim).
From the above hadith it is known that the process of human creation when in the content originally in the form of ****** (nuthfah) which process for 40 days. After that it becomes a blood clot for 40 days, and then a lump of meat within 40 days as well. That way, it can be concluded, the process of forming a fetus in the womb to perfection takes 3 x 40 days, which means 120 days or equal to 4 months.
According to the hadith, at the age of 4 months, God also ordered one angel to do two things. First blow the soul into the fetus. Second, the angel is ordered to record four things related to sustenance, death, charity, and the happiness or woe of the fetus when he lives and ends his life in the world later.
Faculty Lecturer Ushuluddin UIN Syarif Hidayatullah, Jakarta, Ustaz Dr. Arrazy Hasyim MA explained, that the law of holding a 4-month subscription depends on the content of the show.
"Tradition of salvation, we do not punish him as his name implies, but according to his content. In this case we first define, what is a monthly 4 salvation. After we look carefully, then the tradition of the 4 or 7 monthly salvation only contains prayer and prayer so that the mother and the baby get salvation, become a godly or godly child,"
The four-month celebration of Aurra that will be carried out does include a variety of positive activities, such as reading the Quran, sharing remembrance, also supporting orphans. As long as the activity is positive, it can be done for four-month pickles.
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A bright morning, welcoming the entourage of mothers and invited guests who came, filled the living room of the Dimas family which was used as a place to hold a study. Relatives from both sides were also present. The event was deliberately done from the morning, because it was according to planning. There are also some Radityan family members who have been present, with matching color clothing that is white with silver alloy. Same with the Dimas family clothes. Ezka and his wife and daughter, Renata and Erick, and their daughter's sons were also present.
Ustad who was invited to be a pickle filler has been present. Now it is just waiting for the pregnant mother to join.
"Why deck, why don't you come down?" The man in white shop with a subordinate silver-colored sarong had been made dizzy seven circumference since this morning.
How not, the four-monthly event held with the aim of praying for the safety of his wife and prospective baby must be delayed, because his wife does not want to go down. He had persuaded repeatedly, but the white-colored lady with a brocade ornament on the tip of her arm did not comply.
"What do you want hm? Tell me the same, let me not be confused." He tries as hard as possible.
Fortunately, today he is still on leave. So he can attend the four-monthly thanksgiving of his baby. But now, the wife is on strike in her own little room.
"What do you want, I'll do it if possible." Lirih Van'ar convinced his wife.
"But I have to promise?" The veiled woman spoke up.
"Yes, wife. My promise!" Said Van'ar steady.
Because he was sure, this request of his wife would be a little beyond reason if he had asked for a promise like this.
"I want a mas....."
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The voice of an ustad opening the event began to sound. He was invited to fill the event from start to finish later. Finished with the steam of the Ustad sir as the opening, the melodious sound from the other direction immediately connected. Envy the women who hear also see it. Not only looks beautiful, although impressed flat and cold. Now his flat voice, which is usually bossy, is now chanting one by one holy verse of the Qur'an for the sake of his nephew candidate.
سم الله الرحمن الرحيم
bismi-lahi ar-ra imi
"By the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Merciful"
كٓهٰيٰـعٓـصٓ
1. Kaf Ha Ya Ain Shad's
ذِكۡرُ رَحۡمَتِ رَبِّكَ عَـبۡدَهٗ زَكَرِيَّا
2. (This is read) the explanation of the mercy of your Lord to His servant Zechariah,
اِذۡ نَادٰى رَبَّهٗ نِدَآءً خَفِيًّا
3. (i.e.) when he prays to his Lord in a soft voice.
قَالَ رَبِّ اِنِّىۡ وَهَنَ الۡعَظۡمُ مِنِّىۡ وَاشۡتَعَلَ الرَّاۡسُ شَيۡبًا وَّلَمۡ اَكُنۡۢ بِدُعَآٮِٕكَ رَبِّ شَقِيًّا
وَاِنِّىۡ خِفۡتُ الۡمَوَالِىَ مِنۡ وَّرَآءِىۡ وَكَانَتِ امۡرَاَتِىۡ عَاقِرًا فَهَبۡ لِىۡ مِنۡ لَّدُنۡكَ وَلِيًّا ۙ
And behold, I fear for my relatives after my death, when my wife is barren, grant me a child from Your side,
Her kissable lips moved in unison with her beautiful voice. At first he-Keevanzar hesitated to recite the first 10 verses of Maryam's letter as a reading leader. He has not read the Qur'an for a long time with the rhythm that was once memorized beyond reason. But, for the sake of the wishes of his future nephew, Anzar would do it willingly and sincerely.
يَّرِثُنِىۡ وَيَرِثُ مِنۡ اٰلِ يَعۡقُوۡبَ ۖ وَاجۡعَلۡهُ رَبِّ رَضِيًّا
who shall inherit me and inherit from the house of Jacob; and make him, O my Lord, a man of diridhai.”
يٰزَكَرِيَّاۤ اِنَّا نُبَشِّرُكَ بِغُلٰمِ اۨسۡمُهٗ يَحۡيٰى ۙ لَمۡ نَجۡعَلْ لَّهٗ مِنۡ قَبۡلُ سَمِيًّا
(God says), “Wahai Zakaria! We give glad tidings to you with a boy named Yahya, whom We have never given such a name before.”
قَالَ رَبِّ اَنّٰى يَكُوۡنُ لِىۡ غُلٰمٌ وَّكَانَتِ امۡرَاَتِىۡ عَاقِرًا وَّقَدۡ بَلَـغۡتُ مِنَ الۡـكِبَرِ عِتِيًّا
He (Zakaria) said, “Yes my Lord, how will I have children, but my wife is a barren and I (himself) have actually reached a very old age?”
قَالَ كَذٰلِكَۚ قَالَ رَبُّكَ هُوَ عَلَىَّ هَيِّنٌ وَّقَدۡ خَلَقۡتُكَ مِنۡ قَبۡلُ وَلَمۡ تَكُ شَيۡـًٔـا
(God) says, “Thus.” Your Lord said, “It was easy for Me; indeed, you have I created before that, whereas (at that time) you have not come into being at all.”
قَالَ رَبِّ اجۡعَلْ لِّىۡۤ اٰيَةً ؕ قَالَ اٰيَتُكَ اَلَّا تُكَلِّمَ النَّاسَ ثَلٰثَ لَيَالٍ سَوِيًّا
He (Zakaria) said, “Yes my Lord, give me a sign.” (God) said, “Your servant is that you cannot converse with man for three nights, when you are well.”
Many women there are fascinated by the charm of the eldest Anzar. Not to mention the status that is still single, making them race the race steal the attention towards him.
A beautiful woman who sat beside him just got caught off guard with the gaze full of adoration.
"They were very flirtatious to see the bang Anzarnya." Small grunt.
"Maclum, the suffering is still single." Whisperer Ezkanah - daughter of Ezka and Ana.
"Yes, too, but not that time. The eyes of that bitch!" Ketus Lunar's.
"Hust, it's ah. Can't give it a shit." Ezkanah said meralat, which was immediately embraced by Lunar.
This is also what initially made Van'ar not like. His wife asked her brother to read Maryam's initial 10 verses because of their baby's wishes. Van'ar is not upset, it's just that he is less able to accept the desire.
"Mas, let's read. This is the baby's grandpa's been waiting." The little rebuke stopped by his ear, making himself jump a little.
He turned his head, looking at the wife who was also looking at him while stroking her distended stomach. His dislike immediately fell throughout the sect, he remembered if the desire of pregnant women was there. Therefore, as a husband on standby he must be ready with all situations and conditions.
"Let's Ayamu, the baby's grandpa will listen to Ayamu recite the holy sentence of the Qur'an." Van'ar smiled slightly as he nodded.
He slowly reached for the Qur'an before him. Take a deep breath before starting reading.
سم الله الرحمن الرحيم
الٓرٰ ۚ تِلۡكَ اٰيٰتُ الۡكِتٰبِ الۡمُبِيۡن
Alif Lam Ra's. These are the clear verses of the Book (Qur'an).
Now, with a free voice he chanted Joseph's letter. With the aim that later if the baby is born as a boy, will go down the torment and the prophet Joseph at least.
His sweet voice echoed, a beautiful voice that flowed beautifully in every listener. Alluring heart and soul, yet dear a thousand dear. The women must be heartbroken considering the second son of Radityan's extended family is taken, eyebrows already have a partner.
اِنَّاۤ اَنۡزَلۡنٰهُ قُرۡءٰنًا عَرَبِيًّا لَّعَلَّكُمۡ تَعۡقِلُوۡنَ
Verily, We have sent it down as the Qur'an in Arabic, that you may understand.
نَحۡنُ نَقُصُّ عَلَيۡكَ اَحۡسَنَ الۡقَصَصِ بِمَاۤ اَوۡحَيۡنَاۤ اِلَيۡكَ هٰذَا الۡقُرۡاٰنَ ۖ وَاِنۡ كُنۡتَ مِنۡ قَبۡلِهٖ لَمِنَ الۡغٰفِلِيۡنَ
We tell you (Muhammad) the best story by revealing this Qur'an to you, and indeed you were before that one who did not know.
اِذۡ قَالَ يُوۡسُفُ لِاَبِيۡهِ يٰۤاَبَتِ اِنِّىۡ رَاَيۡتُ اَحَدَ عَشَرَ كَوۡكَبًا وَّالشَّمۡسَ وَالۡقَمَرَ رَاَيۡتُهُمۡ لِىۡ سٰجِدِيۡنَ
(Remember), when Joseph said to his father, “Oh my father! Truly, I (dreamed) saw eleven stars, sun and moon; I saw all bowed down to me.”
قَالَ يٰبُنَىَّ لَا تَقۡصُصۡ رُءۡيَاكَ عَلٰٓى اِخۡوَتِكَ فَيَكِيۡدُوۡا لَـكَ كَيۡدًا ؕ اِنَّ الشَّيۡطٰنَ لِلۡاِنۡسَانِ عَدُوٌّ مُّبِيۡنٌ
He (his father) said, “Oh my son! Do not tell your dreams to your brothers, they will deceive (to destroy) you. Truly, the devil is a clear enemy to man.”
وَكَذٰلِكَ يَجۡتَبِيۡكَ رَبُّكَ وَيُعَلِّمُكَ مِنۡ تَاۡوِيۡلِ الۡاَحَادِيۡثِ وَيُتِمُّ نِعۡمَتَهٗ عَلَيۡكَ وَعَلٰٓى اٰلِ يَعۡقُوۡبَ كَمَاۤ اَتَمَّهَا عَلٰٓى اَبَوَيۡكَ مِنۡ قَبۡلُ اِبۡرٰهِيۡمَ وَاِسۡحٰقَ ؕ اِنَّ رَبَّكَ عَلِيۡمٌ حَكِيۡمٌ
After opening the first few verses, the rest of the congregation began flocking to the second letter read today.
Today, in the four-monthly event Aurra is indeed filled with a variety of positive activities. Like reading the Qur'an, dhikr together, also help orphans. Through this activity, the big family also expects prayer for the health and safety of the mother and the future baby she is carrying until delivery later.
They hope that future new members of their families will always be endowed with safety and always be in their protection. Being a child with a personality. Can practice the teachings of religion well later, and can be useful for the family, community environment, and nation.
They are hoping for that, considering that the baby in their daughter's birth is proof of the journey of love full of twists and turns of two children Adam so far.
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To Be Continue
Good morning guys😊😊
Not strong yes, pregnant already 4 months aja.VanRa was happy, stay AnRa. After this part for AnRa yoo, try anyone can guess?
Kira thinks Anzar bang wants to choose which, Airra girl simple but tough. Or Nata de Coco - a girl who was a former person but could not escape. Wait aja next in the chart ya😊😉
Sukabumi June 17, 2020
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