My Stepfather
Ijab qobul
I marry and marry you Dewantara Trisoedibjo with my son Melinda Cokrodiningrat bint Raden Darma Cokrodiningrat with a dowry of a set of prayer tools and money of seven million seventy seven thousand paid in cash
I accepted the marriage and marriage of Melinda Cokrodiningrat bint Raden Darma Cokrodiningrat with the dowry paid in cash.
is legitimate? ask pengulu
Sahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh................
The legitimate shout of the invited guest made goosebumps. The prayer together is immediately offered as gratitude after the groom smoothly recites the ijab qobul.
Jesica smilingly looked at the God who had now become her eternal lover. With trembling hands he paired a gold ring with an engraving of the letter M in the center. As a sign of respect, Melinda immediately bent over and kissed the husband's palm with reverence. The same thing is done by the gods, pairing a fastening ring to the sweet fingers of the wife. And immediately landed a friendly kiss on Melinda's forehead. It managed to make the singles thrashed to their fate that never met their soul mate.
After the ijab qobul event and the exchange of rings was completed, the two brides left the place to go to the room to change clothes. Because the next event will soon begin is the ceremony of the grill or temu manten, which means meeting the bride in Javanese, where the two brides who have been officially married finally meet as a husband and wife. The series of ceremonies contains various events that will strengthen the two brides in fostering their households.
In the process of meeting this manten, there is a procession called balangan gantal and betel tied by white threads will be thrown at each other by both partners. The groom throws a gantal to the bride's chest as a sign that he has taken the lover's heart, and my bride will aim an itch at the man's knee as a sign of filial devotion to the husband.
after the gantal balangan completed the next procession is .No tagan/nincak endog. The ritual of stepping on a raw chicken egg by the groom is carried out as a hope that he will get offspring because the two have united. Then, the wife will wash her husband's feet as a sign of his affection.
The next event is Sinduran.
The red and white fabric is expected to give courage for both brides to live their marriage with passion and passion. In this ritual, both will be wrapped by a sindur cloth while being escorted to the pelaminan by the bride's father.
After the two brides sit in the seat of the guarantee, will be held a weighing weight ritual, weighing their own children and daughters-in-law by the bride's father by holding the bride's two. Then, the mother of the bride will go up on stage to ask the father, who is heavier among them. Then, father will answer if both are equally heavy. With this conversation, it is expected that the two children know that there is no difference in affection for them.
The next event is Drinking Rujak
Literally, rujak degan is a drink made from young coconut shavings. The tradition of drinking coconut water is done in turns in one glass for one family. Starting from the father to be passed on to the mother so that it is given to both pairs of brides. This coconut water is symbolized as holy water that can cleanse the spiritual whole family.
Eits there are still three more processions that must be passed by the bride
Bawdy
Tray
The ritual of feeding each other three times as a symbol that both partners will always help each other and also combine love until old age.
The entire ceremony procession in Javanese customs will be ended with a sungkeman event, kneeling in front of the parents of each bride as a form of respect for having raised them until finally able to live a new life with a partner.
All Javanese traditional wedding processions were finally completed in approximately three hours. The tired face of the couple. But a happy smile can repel fatigue that since the middle of the event has begun to interfere.
Melinda sighed softly squeezing the edge of her danger. It turns out that it is very complicated to want to be the wife of people. Must be it's ah boring. hemm fortunately he was married to his girlfriend try if the same person he never loved or maybe married to an old man bangka maybe today there is the worst day of his life.
He glanced at the handsome face of the man beside him who a few hours ago officially became his whole. She was fascinated by her husband's good looks . Ah her chest arrived to beat fast . He took a breath of calm and calmed his increasingly agitated self.
The god felt the unease Melinda felt. The burly hand grabbed Melinda's tiny fingers, grasping to try to calm down through a warm touch from her. Melinda is being treated with kindness from the gods. His heart was not normal and even more racing as if ready to jump from its place.
You why? The whispers of the god right in Melinda's ears made her goosebumps amused.
Melinda just looked down she looked so nervous. Didn't know her husband was nervous about her. Huh this is a bitch. Norak lu Mel's. Udah Lo must relax do not have to think like that. All will be fine.
Melinda's anxiety finally goes away when the show is over. Stay one more event that is mandatory is a photbar session with friends and extended family from both parties of the bride and groom.
Finally finished also muttered Melinda in the heart. Now that I and the god are legal husband and wife it means later tonight😴 oh no he does not want to imagine, it is too scary for him, but on the one hand he is also curious. Ah, just look at Melinda tonight with a happy tone mixed with fear.
Melinda smiled looking at her mother's two in-laws in turn. He looked at his extended family one by one. He felt something was lacking but who? he re-examined the people nearby, yes there is really less . He also repeated his actions but still there is less. Ah Melinda presses her head trying to guess, but her brain is currently unwilling to cooperate.
Moreover, the people around him stared in wonder because of his behavior that looked ridiculous. But Melinda keeps her focus on guessing who's missing.
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