Me, You And Mother-in-Law

Me, You And Mother-in-Law
Decision Making



"Every problem that happens to Riri nak is actually easy when faced with knowledge and also high confidence, it's just that Riri's son is still hesitant and thinks a lot until this problem is protracted.." after listening to Riri's story, Ms. Ratna who is a little often the same case in her built group tries to help convince Riri's heart to take where Riri and Anton's wedding.


"meaning mother how, I really don't know what else to do Mom" said Riri, with a face that looks tired with the problem.


Bu Ratna smiled at Riri's turmoil


"does Riri still love her husband??" ask Miss Riri.


"i don't know Mom" replied Riri as she raised both shoulders and let out a rough breath.


"nak Riri believes that god exists and that's where we ask only of god" Ms Ratna said


"pray and ask God for directions, follow the heart of Riri son, do not focus on the mistakes of the husband but try to remember what kindness the husband has given, so there will be a Riri son feel whether or not riri is still in love with the husband, but if it turns out there is not a single good that has ever given the husband, but if it turns out there is not a single good, so remember what Riri and husband have now is your baby, making that decision must be balanced with knowledge must think about what your life will be like such as deciding to separate, and, and if you still survive to eat it needs to be coupled with the knowledge of how to control yourself from ego and emotions, as well as how to eat food, if you have thought everything with a calm heart then start to enter the belief in yourself so that the heart becomes spacious in the future in living whatever decisions are taken" Bu Ratna took a breath and stroked Riri's back giving her strength.


a few tears suddenly quietly flowed from the corner of Riri's eyes uninvited.


"the broken glass will not be able to be reassembled into one piece as before, but we can choose, whether you want to reassemble the broken glass or buy a new glass until the problem is finished, but what if the new glass is also broken, are we going to keep buying new ones again without us trying to fix the old ones??"


"just like a heart and a fault, a heart can be broken by betrayal as its fault, but we can choose to correct the heart by filling it with a patchwork of faith, faith, sincerity and patience, of course it will not be easy, but can improve the quality of ourselves without us knowing"


"mom can only give advice, think with a calm heart, do not take decisions when the heart and mind are not cold, start to set targets and goals if we have to choose between surviving or separating, not only does Riri have problems, it could be that people out there have more problems than Riri's son, remember not to look from mistakes but from what kindness has been given" said Ms. Ratna with a soothing smile.


Riri bowed his head in order to hear what Ratna's mother said, he felt very dwarfed in both knowledge and problem solutions.


he thought it might be academic, technical in a job he could conquer, but with life's problems he felt very small, as if only he had a severe problem.


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Deciding on something that will have a big impact not only for him but also for Reza.


how his life and his son next, whether if he separated then everything will be finished and there will be no new problems after.


life sometimes does not run like most novel stories that have a happy ending, life is a process of self-search, the process of determining human will become and how in the future.


on a prayer mat with religion that he believes, Riri prayed and asked for guidance on the decision to be made.


learning from the mistakes made to the mistakes that trigger the rift of the household, Riri believes that when you expect changes in others, make changes to yourself that are much better than to you now.


Finally Riri made the decision to defend his household and let go of what he had achieved so far.


Riri believes armed with the knowledge and abilities he has, as well as the desire to be better, then everything will be easier.


drt..drt.


riri's phone rang loud enough when Riri was completing a report and recap work that was running up to the pending to later can be easily learned by his successor.


"Relie!!!! " the man shouted across there.


"yes, Rusli sir ??" answer Riri


"what did your email mean, resign heeh!!?" this is the voice of Mr. Rusli GM who became Riri's superior at the center.


"yes sir.I deliberately send via email, if I come to the center just to submit a letter of resignation, do not eat a fairly high budget, you calm down, just calm down, you know, the project that I handled will be completed,""" Riri replied firmly indeed she really has with a unanimous determination to accept her husband's challenge to focus on taking care of her small family.


"there is a problem what ri, your performance is okay, we will be difficult again to find people" said Riri boss at the end there.


"one moment for sure I will be replaced, it is only a matter of time sir, maybe it is enough time I now serve in this company, time to find a new person as a candidate" Riri replied with certainty.


"Hmm...well, I love the time of one month yes ri, to finish your work, may you succeed in the future" the boss encouraged and supported Riri's decision finally


"i will miss the work atmosphere, but life has to run, hopefully the knowledge that I can apply outside yes" Riri really likes his current job, but he has to walk, but how else he still has to choose, hopefully the right decision.


One by one, Riri's problems settle, the family regretted Riri's decision, they were more happy if Riri separated from Anton because they knew that Riri and Anton's relationship was not okay.


Riri also had time to tell her mother-in-law also about her decision, and her mother-in-law supported, indeed this is what her mother-in-law wants, and her mother-in-law, because if Riri does not work then the time to take care of children and husbands will also be more and more, and more, so roughly the thought of her mother-in-law is almost the same as the conservative thought of the ancients that women are obliged to be at home.


Riri also asks Anton to commit that this decision is his will, so Riri hopes Anton does not waste the decision Riri has taken, he hopes Anton can be fully responsible for what he wants.