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And arrived one day before the wedding day, the family from Bima had come from Jakarta. They were placed in the house of Sri's brother who was abandoned by his owner.
They come before the wedding day, because it follows the process of midodareni or harib-harib.
The event takes place with khitmad even without the tradition of watering.
Many guests were present, from ordinary people to officials, from young children to adults and even the elderly.
The show was over, and the night was getting late. And finally the morning before the atmosphere at the house of Sri's parents has been visited by many people.
Starting from the renwang, to those who come to watch the show kobul ijab.
Not how long the penghulu came and the kobul ijab event began.
"Assalamu'alaikum, good morning, you ladies and gentlemen" said the penghulu greeting.
"Wa'alaikumsalam, morning also pak penghulu!" answer everyone who listens to the word of Penghulu.
The procession of marriage contract is indeed a sacred ritual that must be lived every couple before marriage. This includes the reading of the ijab performed by the groom.
In marriage itself, it should be understood that there are terms and conditions that must be lived by both. In addition, it is necessary to intend to perfect worship when legally married.
There are several prayers or readings before performing the kabul ijab, even this prayer is closed with a reading after the marriage contract.
"In every marriage procession, there are some readings that are never absent to be recited, one of them Khutbatul Hajah" said penghulu before starting the Marriage Certificate.
"In fact, the Prophet of the SAW also read this prayer, both before committing kabul ijab. Let's follow the following do'a,
"Innal hamdalillah Nahmaduhu wanasta'inuhu wa nastaghfireuhu, Wana'udzubillahi min syururi anfusinaa, Wamin sayyi-ati a'malinaa, Man yahdihillahu falaa mudhillalah, Waman yudhlil falaa haadiyalah, Wa asyhadu alla ilaha illallah, Wahdahulaa syariikalah, Wa asyhadu anna muhammadan abduhu wa rasuluh"
Which means:
“All praise be to Allah, we praise Him, ask Him for help and forgiveness, we take refuge in Allah from our own self-evilness and the ugliness of our deeds. Whosoever Allah guides, then none can lead him astray, and whosoever Allah leads astray, none can guide him. I testify that there is no god that has the right to be worshipped properly except Allah alone, there is no ally for Him, and I testify that Prophet Muhammad is His servant and Messenger”.
Then the guy read Qs. Al-Imran verse 102
"Wa qallalahu ta’ala fii kitaabihil kariim, A'udzu billahi minas satanir rajim, Bismillahi rahmanir rahim
Yes ayyuhallazina amanuttaqullaha aaqqa tuqatihi wa la tamutunna illa wa antum muslimun"
Which means:
“O you who believe, fear Allah and fear Him; and never die except in Islam.”
"Okay kobul ijab we start and the father of the bride please say the qobulnya reading" said penghulu and his father Sri, began to recite the ijab qobul.
"I marry you and I marry you brother/ananda Bima bin Hidayat with my son named Sri Sutini with a dowry in the form of a set of prayers and dowry weighing XX grams and money of XX, paid in cash."
"Please want Bima" said penghulu.
And although this is not the first time for Bima, Bima still nervous. He tried to master himself to be able to say the Ijab Qabul smoothly.
"I accept his marriage and the marriage of Sri Sutini bint Hardi with the dowry, paid in cash."
"Huh?" ask penghulu.
"Well!" say all witnesses.
"Well!" say the other one.
"Thank God, you are lawfully husband and wife and ready to sail the ark of the household together. Continue for the bridegroom to put his hands on the crown of the wife while praying. Do the following do'a, yes,
"Allaahumma innii as’aluka khairahaa wa khaa maa jabaltahaa ‘alaihi, wa a’uudzubika min syarriha wa syarrihaa maa jabaltahaa ‘alaihi"
Which means:
“Yes Allah, I ask for his kindness and the goodness of his character which he brings. And I took refuge from his ugliness and the ugliness of the habits he brought.”
Then the ruler said do'a and lafadz Al Fatihah to the two brides.
The two brides pinned each other rings and Sri kissed the back of Bima's right hand. And Bima kissed Sri's forehead.
Then the ruler gave the marriage book to the two brides.
The ijab qobul event is over. And penghulu gave a little encouragement for the two prospective brides. Because the message for the bride is very useful and not a few are entertained when they hear it.
The penghulu who gives the wedding message is well received by all who listen to it.
Many claimed to be touched by the way the ruler carried the wedding message with courtesy and often invited smiles from the audience.
"Rasullullah said four things, one of which was praying before making a child. Have you memorized your prayers yet, son?" ask the ruler to Bima.
"Not yet, at most Bismillah" replied the bridegroom blushing.
Furthermore, the ruler also provides some tips and prayers for the bride and groom.
Prayer asks for blessing
Having a blessed married life becomes everyone's dream and hope. Blessings in a marriage will arise with a variety of positive things, such as abundant sustenance or social life for married couples.
Here is a prayer to ask for blessing for the newlyweds, namely:
Allaahumma baarik lii fii gawiki wa baarik li gawiki fiyya
It means: "O Allah, bless my wife for me and bless me for my wife."
Prayer pleads for the happiness of the world
Every couple would crave a happy household in the world as well as in the afterlife. Here is a prayer to be given a happy married life of the world and the hereafter, namely:
Robbanaa aatinaa milladunka rohmatan wahayyi' lanaa min 'amrinaa rosyada.
It means: “Our Lord, grant us mercy from Your side, and give us ease and leadership for our religious salvation.”
Pray for the household to be harmonious
Problems in marriage will always occur which of course must be passed and enjoyed together as part of the process of life in the household. Well, this is a prayer that you can say so that the household is always harmonious, namely:
Robbanaa hablanaa min azwaajinaa wa zurriyaatinaa qurrota'ayuniw waj'alna lil-muttaqiina imama
It means: "O Allah, grant us our spouses and our descendants (we), and make us leaders for those who fear."
Pray for immediate birth of descendants
For some couples, husband and wife certainly expect the presence of children in the middle of their household life. However, there are those who immediately marry after marriage and some need to wait some time.
Here are two verses in the Quran that you can read to ask for descent by Allah SWT, namely:
Surat Ali Imran verse 38
Robbi hab lii mil ladungka zurriyyatang thoyyibah, innaka samii'ud-du'aaa
It means: "O Allah, grant me good seed from Your side, verily Thou Hearest the prayer."
Surat Al-Anbiya verse 89
Robbi laa tazarnii fardaw wa angha khoirul-waarisiin
It means: "O Allah, do not let me live alone (without descendants) and You are the best heir."
Prayer enhanced compassion
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