I Just Want to Be Loved (Part II)

The wise advice

In the morning when Nanik came he was once knitted like the night before because he found someone was sleeping in the living room.

" Geez, why is Aden sleeping here? Don't throw away ma non Icha. Wkwkwkwkwkwk, funny thing about the fight." Nanik even laughed happily at the behavior of his master.

" Den, aden!? Let's get up.." Nanik wakes Nelan up.

" 5 minutes to go.."

I thought I was his wife.

Nelan instead of waking up she squirms and flips her body again, then pulls the blanket and goes back to deep sleep.

Shortly afterwards Richa came out, wanted to go to the kitchen, sudup his eyes glanced towards the sofa and saw Nelan still sleeping even though the day was a little afternoon. But Richa did not wake him instead had the kitchen first.

" Morning bi!?" Sapa Richa like a normal day. Not like the morning before.

" Morning is not." Reply Nanik.

Richa sat on the dining table chair while waiting for her to make her milk as usual. After the milk that Nanik made was on the table Richa immediately drank it until it ran out.

" No, why's Aden, why are you telling me to sleep outside?" Tanya Nanik hesitated.

" Oh that. Richa again ngambek bi ma mas. Cook yes yesterday malem in sleeping outside he said again overtime, uh it turns out again partying with his friends outside. Drunk drunk again, until unconscious bi, just imagine if something happens, how do I ma son I bi." Richa.

" Oh, that's non."

" Yes bi, that's why last night I told you to in the kelonan ma gundurwo."

" Ahaahaha.. Can not just. Cook her husband in kasih ma dedemit. If the dedemitnya bunting how non."

" Amaha. Don't dong bi, cook me his rival ma dedemit not very classy. Amit amit deh."

" It's not usulin. Even the non-fear."

" Yes too, I'm horrified to be bi."

" But non. Aunty wants to say according to aunty's experience. Some husbands may not be the same, but most of them when the wife is pregnant or a marriage that has been going on for quite some time. What's more, the mother himil, sometimes difficult to handle, his emotions are not unstable, so likes to be angry. It is not our own will, but it is innate. So the husband starts to prefer the outside, maybe the reason is simple, because it does not want to fuss with the wife, or does not want to make the wife upset or many more reasons."

" Cake it bi."

" Yes non. They prefer nongrong to his friends. Not because they are saturated with us or want to play with other girls. Yes it could be because I feel, waah if I am at home every working day fuss continues ma wife. There's a thought that maybe non."

Richa listened to bi Nanio's explanation patiently. She realized that since she was pregnant, her feelings and emotions liked to overflow.

" Same with non." Nanik came back with his job. Richa took a cell phone and looked for ways to prevent a rift between husband and wife during pregnancy and other bad days.

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Any wife would be happy to realize that her husband makes her the most special woman in his heart. Conversely, if he feels the husband has started to ignore and forget it, the wife will feel worthless again.

This is why women need the attention of the husband more than the material. A woman who is endowed with property by her husband but lacks attention will feel her soul dry. The wife wants her husband to stay the way he was before marriage; she likes to give news even if she is busy, always prioritizes herself, and gives surprises that impress her.

Husbands who reduce attention even completely eliminate it will make women feel like a wife who is not considered. Reality like this makes the heart like sliced so that the manifestation of a paled usually becomes irritable or the wife turns into a beggar of attention for the husband.

The trick, some satirize the husband on social media by tagging quotes about how the wife needs attention, for example.

" You always said you were my soul, you were my breath, you ignored me."

" Wife needs a shower of love, why do you let it wither?"

"If you may choose, women prefer small but persistent attention over one-time great attention."

Those are some of the phenomena that the authors observed on social media or in everyday life. The hope of the wife is solely so that the husband returns to pay attention to himself as before. Effective in that way? In fact, not because it is like a beggar who forces someone to give more money so that the giver instead of feeling sorry is even upset.

How dangerous if this condition continues, the husband does not realize the main needs of his wife and the wife increasingly feel dry relationship when women need warmth husband is not nonsense. When the drought is so pronounced in the heart and suddenly there is another man who gives attention. Maybe you can guess about where it is going and just wait for the next story.

What should I do to make my husband realize that women really need attention? Should I continue to be a beggar? It's time we changed the way the view has been focused on what my needs become what my husband needs. Unlike the main needs of the wife, the husband is very fond of a wife who respects and gives high appreciation for her sacrifice.

Everyday the husband works hard from morning to night for the family, usually the routine is not seen by the wife so sometimes the wife does not give credit. The husband wants all his sacrifices to be appreciated by his wife. If the wife tries with sincerity to get used to the greeting and attitude of gratitude for the struggle of the husband then this will make the husband's self-esteem lifted because it feels appreciated by the wife.

Just as a woman wants her husband to be gentle and romantic, so the husband is very happy if the wife shows an attitude and words that respect her efforts. Especially after coming home from work, the husband is served dinner then he will feel very appreciated.

Unlike when returning home from work and being at the peak of fatigue, the husband is instead terrorized by this and that claim; as if there is no appreciation for his hard work today. Even his self-esteem becomes falling so often becomes indifferent to the needs of the wife who wants to be noticed. Rather, a husband who feels appreciated and respected will certainly pay attention to his wife not to repay for the kindness of the wife but because the heart of the husband who rejoices automatically more easily flow love to his wife from the dry heart of the husband.

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Thank you, hopefully what Icha said this time can be useful for married couples, and for future prospective couples. Author included. This is a special chapter, because Icha affords a lesson that loyal readers will not be disappointed with the presentation this time.