Father of My Son

Not the Wrong Mother Contains

Every child has their own strengths and weaknesses. Not that a mother is insensitive. Living in a big city like Heren, makes Bia more critical in dealing with child development. He was not a good child first, precisely because he wanted to improve the parenting pattern given by his parents so as not to be wrong for his two sons.

Divan's age is almost four years and Diandre has entered the third month. The age of his son is in the golden age of development that is very influential to the future. It's up to people to say that Bia is more likely to take Divan to a psychologist. It's just that he knew something was wrong with his son and it wasn't enough with the science of guessing over the internet.

"Absolutely can't say R?" ask a child development psychologist who has made an appointment with Bia a week before. For this meeting schedule, inevitably Dira must also be involved.

We have changed our paradigm all along. Any child with developmental problems does not necessarily come from the child himself. It could be from parenting that comes from the thoughts and emotional state of parents and social parents. Therefore, problems should be sought down to the root of three causes: the child, the parent and the environment.

"He could say water. The rest of the letter R he could not mention," replied Bia. Of course, the conversation didn't involve Divan. It is being observed in a room that looks like a playground.

Bia knows, something's wrong when Divan always talks slurred. Many say it is a form of attention. In fact, he began to play more often by himself and make his own territory. He often imitates what others do, then he creates his own version. He developed with the stage of play according to his age, associative play.

Bia has done the doctor's message before by bringing Divan to the doctor to check his speech organs. The result is good, Divan there is no damage whatsoever from the talking device. It's just that at almost four years old, he's still lispy.

"Miss substitution in this talk can be many factors. Normal speech and psychological state of the child so far this observation is also good, although he has a history of trauma of losing the figure of the father, so far the situation is not visible. It's just that his IQ test is the cause" explained Sarel, a psychologist who Bia asked for help to find Divan's problem.

"How do you mean?" tanya Dira tried to examine the purpose of the diagnosis of her son.

"Divan's vocabulary is much more than the vocabulary of a child his age. The sentence is also complex, another with a child his age is still simple. It is very fast to memorize and reason. At the age of not even four years he has drawn humans with the right proportions. This signifies his intelligence is way above that of any other normal child."

The point is that Divan's speaking skills are much earlier than the maturity of his speech tools. That makes it hard to talk. "My advice, if he has a speech error again try to ask him to take a breath three times. Then teach him to talk more slowly tempo. We have to be patient because the problem is that his brain processes language faster than his speech."

Dira nodded. "Like us if you've played gas before heating the car. Finally the car suddenly died in the middle of the road even though the engine is good?" guess Dira.

Sarel nodded. "There are treatments that might help. Say 'bbrr' while blowing paper or playing with cars."

The two old men were relieved to hear that Divan had no serious problems with his development. Just knowing he's a superior kid makes Bia and Dira feel proud.

"How else do you want? It's a stage one, it's a rank two. If you are not smart, then no one is sticking one," commented Dira while driving a car.

"Well, there's a pretty one, you know!" yells.

"His doctor?" ask Bia curious.

"No, there's Divan. Erratically but, Divan time pinched," he lamented.

"Keep Divan silent just pinched so?" ask Dira.

Divan. "Well, if there is a bad friend to Divan, you can not run away. Divan pelototin transparent say do not be fierce. That's it!" firmly Divan.

Bia nodded. "Why were you pinched?" ask Bia. He thought there could be no child without a reason.

"Abeautiful. Divan darling. If you love to kiss, so Divan kisses," she replied with a grin.

Bia and Dira shook their heads. "Whoa, you're pinched. Divan also if suddenly kissed people do not like, right?"

"Yes, don't kiss me again. Promise!" Divan raised his middle and index fingers to form the letter V.

"When do you go home, anyway? Diande wait later. Diande Kangen Divan's. Kan Divan ngangenin's sister," added Divan.

Dira chuckles. "Diandre kangennya just the same mom. Where there is the same Divan. Moreover, Divan often said more handsome than Diandre at home."

"Divan nginep in Memeli's brother later, so Diande can be the most handsome at home first," he suggested.

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