
Surya:"So how's Naira? What's your answer, dear?"
Naira:"Naira really wants to marry Nabil, but given our age is still underage, can not if delayed first? It's not possible also our marriage submission agreed, right?"
Surya:"What do you say, son, so what about Nabil? Are you still getting married to Naira?"
Nabil:"Nabil is still with the decision of Nabil pa, Nabil will not be caliph later. Nabil is Baligh... Naira too."
Rizal: "Can't you lust until you're 17?"
Nabil:"But Well..."
Naira:"Bil, don't you trust me? I'm not going to turn away from you, anyways we're going to meet every day at school,"
Nabil:"I know it was Nai, but in terms and conditions of marriage there is no stating age as a condition or marriage harmony. Nabil knows that papa and dad are also more aware of the problem?"
Surya and Rizal are fixated on the deepening of a Nabil's religion, so he should marry Naira, he memorized the pillars and terms of marriage. It was incredible that Nabil's heart and desire to propose Naira.
To know Rukun and the conditions for doing a marriage is actually something that is interrelated and cannot be separated. When these two things are separated, it will result in a marriage will not be able to run smoothly. As for some things in the pillars and conditions this becomes unity in the achievement of a good marriage.
Marriage plan :
The groom's
The existence of a groom when carrying out a marriage contract, of course, is one of the things that must be. How is it possible when having a wedding, but the groom is not there. When there is a marriage without the groom or the groom is represented, it will not be valid or invalid.
The bride
There is a groom and there is a bride. It is very unlikely to happen if there is only one groom. If there is a wedding with only one bride, then it is not justified because it is already sharia Islam if the existence between the groom and the bride must be the same – either.
The Marriage of a Woman
A woman always has a guardian, which this guardian has the full right to marry the bride. This guardian comes from the nuclear family of the father family. It could be our own father, uncle, or grandfather of our father. Even if indeed no one can be a guardian because suppose it is gone, then it can be multiplied by our own – brother.
There are 2 male witnesses
At a wedding that will be done for a groom and bride, then there must be 2 witnesses from a man. Because with this witness, it will further strengthen the relationship of a sacred promise that is always uttered by someone who is carrying out a marriage.
Ijab Qabul
The groom and the woman and the guardian and witness have gathered, it will be legal and in accordance with the provisions of the marriage pillar. When read about the amount and provisions of the dowry then enough after that, the responsibility of a father or guardian for the bride passes to the man as the stakeholder, then to the bride.
Religious Islam
Marriage is based on Islamic Sharia ties, it requires both the groom and the bride to be Muslim. It is not legal and permissible when a Muslim marries a non-Muslim using Islamic ijab and qabul. This will cause a real mistake.
Not a Mahram for Women
Enough we know that the marriage that still exists flow of mahrom with parents, especially the father is very wary for the demands. Because when it is not careful to marry a man from the father's family, it will go to the prohibition of marrying a mahrom which is certainly not allowed to be able to make a marriage contract.
Knowing the Wali Akad Mikah
When you know the life of a bride, then the next thing is to know about the guardian for a woman. If the guardian of a woman is experiencing obstacles and or difficult to understand, it means that the first thing happened that is not good in the woman. Therefore, making a choice based on the offspring is very important.
Not performing the Hajj
In Islam there is a certain month and the appropriate way there is sharia which is not allowed to hold a marriage. One of them is when performing Hajj. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to those of us who will carry out the Hajj should delay marriage.
Not because of coercion
This marriage requirement becomes a unity with the marriage pillar, which must exist and must enter into the heart of a bride and groom. This condition of marriage is the inability to have a marriage. You can imagine that a bride in the past had to follow the request of parents, but now has been given flexibility to the bride and groom.
But even so, it must still be made clear to the bride and groom so that when the word has been spoken, the lawful word has been spoken, so all responsibilities and burdens become joint responsibilities and try as hard as possible to maintain the integrity of the household, starting with the qabul ijab. When it has been able to maintain the integrity of the household, it will be lasting and in accordance with Islamic law.
Nabil:"Well, Nabil promised Nabil wouldn't do it before we finished school, but if Naira had to marry Nabil, Nabil couldn't make it either, because after Naira's marriage it will be Nabil's responsibility."
Naira:"Please, can you be patient until we're 17? let us also get a marriage book, I will not be forced to marry you when we are old enough to marry bill, we can really remind each other. Today I did not reject your proposal, but we also have to follow the rules of our country bill, do not be until later so our parents have problems because of marrying minors."
Nabil:"Well, when we go up in second grade we get married."
Naira:"Are you sure of your decision? You must also continue the ideals of bil, that's also with me."
Nabil:"If we always pray and try, God willing, God will help us anyway, I have also collected funds for your marriage, purely all this I seek, he said, I'm sure God will approve of my good intentions."
⁇ ️ Wuiiihhh,, Nabil Gercep yes sis...ngerih us, Pray that the Goodwill Nabil achieved yes sis,,,😁😁
We'll wait until they're old enough to get married under state law...😆😂