Best Mate at 25 Years Old

bella's still thinking about it

It was a beautiful day in the town where Bella lived. She had just finished shopping at the supermarket and was heading home when she suddenly saw someone she knew on the street. He is shocked and realizes that it is one of his High School friends, Dinda.

“Bella, how are you?” dinda said with a smile.

Bella is shocked to see Dinda who is married and has a child. “Wow, you are married and have a child, Dinda. I can't imagine it yet,” Bella said with a slight nervousness.

“Yes, I am married and have a 2-year-old son. You alone, Bella? Already have a child ?” ask Dinda.

Bella shook her head. “Numbered, Dinda. Still waiting for the right time,” he replied.

“Maybe you and Ryan can have children soon,” said Dinda.

Hearing Ryan's name makes Bella a little stiff. “Ryan hasn't thought of that yet, Dinda. He is still focused on his career,” replied Bella.

“Ah, that's just a mere excuse. You have to convince her, Bella. Every couple would want to have children,” said Dinda.

Bella was a little offended. “You don't understand, Dinda. Having children is not easy. There are many things to consider, such as finances and emotional readiness,” Bella said.

Dinda nodded in understanding. “Sorry, Bella. I didn't mean to offend you. I just want you to be as happy as I am,”.

Bella smiled and felt relieved. “It's okay, Dinda. Thank you for reminding me of this,” said Bella.

Dinda smiled and said goodbye. Bella continues on her way home, but her mind is still filled by their conversation. She felt compelled to think about having children and how to talk about it with Ryan.

Bella keeps pondering her thoughts about having children, and she feels confused and unsure if she is ready to become a mother. Although she and Ryan have been married for several years, Bella still feels there is a lot to do before she can think about having children.

Ryan has a successful and busy career, so having a child will require major changes in their lifestyle. Bella does not know if she is ready to give enough time and attention to the child, in household life.

However, on the other hand, Bella feels pressure from her environment to immediately have children. Her friends and even her mother-in-law often ask when they will have children. Bella feels trapped between her own desires and the expectations of others.

One day, while Bella was talking to her mother on the phone, her mother again asked about Bella's desire to have children. "You know, mother, I don't know if I'm ready to have a child" Bella said honestly. "I still feel confused and unsure."

Bella's mother responded wisely, "That's natural, dear. No one can fully prepare to be a mother. But when the time is right, you will feel ready. You don't have to listen to the pressure of others. What matters is that you three feel ready, you, Ryan and your son."

Bella is relieved to hear her mother's words of wisdom and feels more confident to take the time to reconsider her desire to have children.

One night, while they were relaxing on the couch, Bella took a deep breath and finally asked the question again. "Ryan, have you ever thought about having a child?"

Ryan looked at his wife, and Bella could see the confusion in his eyes. "Of course I've thought about it" he replied at last. "But I feel it's too early. We still have time."

Bella was a little disappointed by Ryan's reply. He felt that Ryan always put off talking about having children. "But, Ryan, I want us to start thinking about it now" Bella said. "I don't want us to wait too long. We can't keep procrastinating on this."

Ryan looked at his wife seriously. "I understand," he said. "But, I just want us to be fully prepared before we start. Being a parent is a big responsibility, and we have to make sure that we're ready for it."

Bella nodded. He also feels that being a parent is a big responsibility, and he does not want to rush. However, he felt sad because he had waited a long time to have a child. Whenever he saw his friends who already had children, he felt jealous and sad.

"Maybe we can find out more about what we have to do to prepare ourselves to be parents" Ryan suggested. "We can read a book or take a parenting class."

Bella nodded. He was delighted that Ryan finally spoke of this seriously. They talk longer about preparation for parenthood and what they should do to prepare themselves.

Bella was relieved that they ended up talking about this honestly. Although she still felt sad about not having children, she felt that they were on the right track. They will continue to talk about this and prepare themselves until they are ready to have children.

Ryan and Bella were sitting quietly in the living room after dinner, when suddenly the bell rang. Ryan immediately picked up his cell phone and saw a message from one of his friends, Dawn, who was visiting the city and wanted to stop by Ryan's house. Ryan gladly agreed and told Bella about the arrival of Dawn.

“Honey, my friend Dawn will come here. He wanted to stop by for a moment before returning to the city,” Ryan said.

“Friends from where?” ask Bella.

“He was my High School friend first. We haven't seen each other since graduation, ” Ryan replied.

Bella nodded in understanding, then tidied up the sofa and coffee table in the living room. Moments later, the bell rang again and Ryan went to the front door to open. Bella wrapped up the chocolate cake she had made for Dawn and greeted her with a warm smile.

After shaking hands and hugging, the three of them returned to the living room and sat down on the sofa. A warm and familiar atmosphere is immediately created, with Fajar telling the story of his life in the city and Ryan and Bella sharing their experiences of working and living in the city.

“How about your current busyness, Fajar” asked ryan

“I just started a culinary business. I opened a small restaurant in the city. You should try it someday,” replied Dawn with her wide smile.

They continue the conversation about the culinary business and Bella tells about Ryan's mother's favorite pasture cuisine they ate together. Ryan laughed and stated that he also liked the pasture cuisine.

“Nah, tomorrow we have dinner at the restaurant Dawn yes,” take Ryan.

“Good, I will make you some typical dishes we have in my restaurant,” said Fajar with enthusiasm.

The night passed with great fun. They laughed, told stories, and enjoyed Bella's chocolate dish. When Dawn returns home, Ryan and Bella drive him to the door and promise to meet again someday. And don't forget Fajar gave gifts for ryan and bella.

Bella sat on the sofa with a gift box on her lap. Ryan stood in front of him with a big smile on his face. "Open the box, baby," she asked.

Bella opened the gift box and looked at the contents. She was surprised to see the pink lingerie with the beautiful lace. "Wow, this is so pretty," she said, still surprised by the gift.

Ryan laughed and sat down next to his wife.

Ryan and Bella looked at each other with shy smiles, Ryan could only laugh and pat her on the shoulder.

“Already, Dawn is always like that. You don't have to wear it if you don't like it,” Ryan said as he calmed Bella down.

“No, no. I like it, but I am ashamed to wear it,” replied Bella with a smile.

Bella held onto the lingerie and felt her soft cloth. "It must be very expensive" he said.

Ryan shook his head, it looks expensive.

Bella looked at the lingerie again and smiled. "Maybe I'll wear it for you someday," he said with a mischievous smile.

Ryan smiled and kissed his wife's cheek. "I was waiting for that day" she said, hugging Bella.

That night, they slept with smiles on their faces, waiting for the days to come. Bella is lucky to have a caring husband.