Trapped in Conflict Girl Love

Thinking of Jasmine

The atmosphere of the family also feels so warm because it is interspersed with jokes that are so carefree, but even though only joking Dadang continues to give advice to his sister who will soon direct the application event.

"Kang Kang's second season exam is coming up?" abduh asked as he looked at Dadang so closely as if he did not want any talk to be missed.

"The second season's presentation is when after marriage.because we who are used to living alone must adapt to a partner, and the good and bad attitude of the couple will be clear after marriage, because we have lived together. and not only that it is usually a financial problem, especially if married before having income problems, it will be a frightening specter for newly married couples" Dadang explained.

"There again?"

"Many of the previous will mention is one of them. the ordeal can come from outside such as financial problems there is also a dark in the problem of the couple itself, namely the problem of the couple, Even the family of each spouse who meddles in the household affairs of his son."

"Keep the test like what?" abduh asked as if he wanted to know the story of his brother's household.

"Akang who decided not to live in Sagaranten village, Merantau akang out of town.There Akang was not immediately happy, because you have to struggle to find a job. moving from one company to another, moving from one contract to another. Despite living here we are very prosperous, we are very wealthy, but when we live outside we are nothing, we must keep fighting in order to stay alive like everyone else."

"How will the next season go?"

"It's usually between 5 years or 10 years after marriage.because if the person who is blessed with the trust of God is a child, it may be part of the gift of marriage, but not a few people who consider it a disaster, because having children must have more costs, must be given food in school, must be given lessons, both religious lessons and general knowledge. And when educating children are not a few people who disagree between husband and wife.there are also trials that come from the family, especially people who always depend on their lives for parents, and parents, then 5 or 10 years they will leave this world, because that is the nature of humans who must die, this will provide sadness for the family."

"That marriage is hard?"

"Indeed very heavy, so the Prophet advocated for anyone who wants to marry should be able. both in financial, mental, moral or material problems, but even so we should not be afraid to get married, but even so we should not be afraid to get married, because there is no trial that has no way out, there is no disease that does not have a cure. trials, exams will continue to come, both when we are married or not. now we just have to choose, we just choose, we want to try or be tested alone or with family, because the reward of the household is very large.even explained in one statement of prayer of people who have married, because the house is very large, the reward is 70 degrees different from unmarried people, so if you are able and ready to make a household then make a household! because the household law will be mandatory, when we are able to carry it out." explained Dadang at length make people who listen look like mangosteen understand what is being said.

"That means if it is obligatory when we do not perform marriage, then we will sin?"

"True, especially if with the state of not getting married we even sin, we often snack out there, or do chocolate to satisfy human desires that the law is very mandatory. But getting married can be haram if the goal isn't good."

"How do you mean Kang?" abduh asked who did not understand because he only found out that marriage was illegal.

"Look, marriage can be illegal if the intention is not good, because every action depends on the intention." replied Dadang explained.

"It's not good how?"

"What good intentions? So that the marriage that should be a worship does not turn into a sin." asked Nathan who was increasingly interested in the discussion.

"So the best marriage intention is the intention to worship because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. You see, we as human beings are required to marry as I explained."

"Oh so, thanks for the knowledge. continues approximately after Abduh's proposal when will be married?" nathan asked as he glanced at his best friend.

"Later when the application event will definitely be determined when the two of them will get married.so Akang can not decide, because there must be agreement from both sides both from Abduh's side or Yanti's side." Answer Dadang wisely.

"But if in my opinion, Jasmine should also be married immediately, because it is not good if it precedes a woman. let alone Abduh and Jasmine are not too different in terms of age" Nathan said.

Hearing such an explanation Dadang was silent as if recalling that he did not have one sister, but had two younger siblings who were in his responsibility, which must be considered with his partner.

"Lacking to know that Jasmine, it seems that for now she is not too interested in marriage because she still wants to go to college, plus after college she always wants to work in famous companies in the world. replied Dadang who seemed to be sighing deeply, it is true what Nathan said he must think of his little sister.

"Yes as soon as possible if Jasmine should be married so that when we are busy with their respective families, she also has a family that pays attention to her. Akang will be busy with the Akang family with the residents of Sagaranten Village, Abduh will be busy with his new family, so later he is afraid Jasmine feels no one loves." said Sarah confirmed Nathan's words.

"Well, it should be like that, but I'm confused who he's being betrothed to."

"Had Kang Don't think about anything else, we think about it one-on-one.we think about my application later, when I've got certainty and married we together think of our sister." abduh's suggestion that he might not want his family's attention to be diverted, his attention split in two with the thought of his little sister.

"Well sure, but what's wrong if we think about it now?"

"Well, it's true what Abduh said later we think about Jasmine after Abduh married Yanti, let our thoughts be a little calm" replied Sarah chimed in.

The chat continued to discuss the preparations about his first sister's application event, the chatter was interspersed with jokes that made the room fulfilled by the sound of laughter happiness, because one of them will let go of his bachelor.

In the afternoon, Abduh was called by Dadang to chat with Sarah.The three of them seemed to want to convey something very serious because Dadang asked to chat only three, just three, while Nathan He was exercising accompanied Jasmine running around the village to fill the afternoon so very beautiful. the sun from the western horizon looks not too trick radiating light shining white clouds that clump, making the clouds look turned golden yellow.Birds from the direction of the garden sound gurgling, gurgling, followed by the sound of a float that does not want to miss to enliven the atmosphere of a beautiful afternoon.

"What's Kang doing, like being so serious about talking to him in a room like this?" abduh asked who was looking in wonder at his brother