Towards the Way of Marriage
Sophisticated Ceremony
" I accept Anin Fitri Ani's marriage with the dowry paid in cash. "Rifa'i chat with one attraction
" How the witnesses sahh.... " Say, and the witnesses answered
"Sahhhh.... "
"Alhamdulillah, Baarakallaahu Laka Wa Baaraka Alaika Wa Jama’a Bainakuma Fii Khoir
الْحَمْدُ لِلّه رَبّ الْعلمِيْن وَلصَّلاَةُ وَالسّلاَم عَلى اَشْرَفِ اْلاَنْبِياَءِ وَالْمُرْسَلِيْن وَعَلى الِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ اَجْمَعِيْن اَمّا بَعْد
” Do'a from the penguhulu and now the time has come to be happy for both partners
" Happy, may you be a family of Sakinah mawaddah warohmah. Ammiin and robal alamin. Please for the groom to pin the ring and crucify the bride's hand! And for the bride also pinned the ring. " Say penghulu
Rifa'i pinned the ring and crucified Anin's hand. By reading the letters he had memorized before and Anin pinned the ring to Rifa'i's hand.
"Yes, well the kabul ijab event has been done well and like this the bride does not have any talk at all. Funny, just a smile. " Say the host
"OK, now will rest first and later will be held the grill ceremony. " Say the host.
After a few minutes later
Now is the time for the grill ceremony and the first event is the ceremony of the handing over of the bun.
Anin was sitting in a beautiful decorated wedding chair in front of the petanen or called krobongan. Then Rifa'i arrived, flanked by male elders and performed a ceremony of handing over the bun.
The presumption is given by the groom to the bride's parents as a form of ransom for their daughter. The sapgan consists of one tangkep or two brushes of ripe king bananas on a tree, betel nut, telon flower containing buna rose, jasmine and ylang, as well as lawe yarn.
Balangan means throwing, while gantal means betel leaves filled with betel nut flowers, betel lime, gambier, and tobacco tied using lawe yarn.
The ceremony was conducted from the opposite direction, about two meters away. The groom throws a gantal to the bride's forehead, chest and knees. Then it was answered by the bride who threw a gantal to the chest and knees of the groom. This ritual aims to throw love at each other.
"Next ceremony stepping on eggs, wiji dadi, wijikan or Ranupada. " Say the host
Ranupada ceremony becomes the next stage in the procession of call at traditional Javanese wedding. Ranupada comes from two words, ranu, meaning water and foot.
Equipment used for ranupada consists of dipper, bokor, tray, sritaman flowers and eggs. Pemaes take chicken eggs which are then touched on the groom's forehead first. Then the chicken eggs are also touched on the bride's forehead three times.
After that the chicken egg is broken at the foot of the groom and the bride washes the groom's feet with clean water. This washing reflects the form of devotion of the wife to the husband so that the household is happy and harmonious.
"Kanten Asto (Kanthen Asta) Hand-to-hand Ceremony, next. "
In this procession the two brides stand side by side and join hands while hooking the little finger, the woman on the left and the man on the right. The two brides then walked together to the pelaminan.
" Next the blanket ceremony. "
At this stage the mother of the bride covers both arms of the bride with a syringe. After that the two brides walked slowly towards the bride's seat, followed by both parents.
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Sorry friends yesterday not up at all, so later I will be up 2 more times huh. Thank you for waiting for the next story.Greetings dear author 😘😘😘
