THE WORLD OF GHAIB

not allowed to meet his mother part 80

bajan then asked more deeply to the risma.

"have you ever dated before?"

risma answered honestly.

"don't date jan, feel the same love for a man my age has never been. and this is only the first time I've ever felt like and instantly fell in love."

bajan asked risma.

"would we know each other's advantages and disadvantages first? we better get to know each other first before deciding to go to a more serious level.Honestly I also love my sister and I also really want my sister to be my girlfriend. but I know that in Islam it should not be called dating.mangkanya I am now confused to determine what our status is like. in Islam there is also no such thing as sharia courtship. the term just simplifies the language according to me."

now it was the turn of the Risma who asked Bajan.

"now I'm the same you jan. have you ever dated before?"

bajan nodded his head and then said honestly.

"yes I have dated twice.The first was when I was SMK and the second was when I entered semester 3 yesterday. the first was my relationship with the ex long enough we dated for 1 and a half years and our relationship ended because there was no communication between us anymore. because I felt that kind of relationship was all that. I finally broke off our relationship on February 25, 2014. quite a long time I did not have a girlfriend sister. I then dated again for the second time. but our relationship only lasted 3 months."

"so how quickly will your relationship end?" ask the curious risma.

bajan then explains why their relationship ended so quickly.

"at that time just like Eid al-Fitr. My ex asked to go home to meet my parents. Even though his intention was just a friendship, but I am not ready at this time, brother. so I forbade him to come to the house. eventually he did not accept and at that time we had a big storm and he ended our relationship."

curious about the story of Bajan who did not want his girlfriend to meet his parents, Risma asked further.

"why don't you let him play at home? that's a mood of Eid, it's only natural that he wants to be friendly with your parents!"

the real reason is why Bajan did not want to bring his girlfriend home is, he did not want his identity revealed, but he was impossible to tell the truth at this time.

risma felt astonished and strange with the mindset of her mother. he felt that it was an unnatural thing in his mind there would never be a mother who would allow if her child had more than one boyfriend. every parent would want that his child to be a loyal person.it is precisely the child who is the basic playboy and choose to have more than one partner. being astonished by the mindset of bajan's mother, he then asked bajan with a serious facial expression.

"i can't believe that your mother said that jan. Which parent wants her child to be a playboy.this is even her own who wants her child to be a playboy."

bajan while drinking the ice that was already in front of him casually said.

"i also initially felt surprised brother, why my mother had such a mindset.my mother also once told me it was better to be a playboy before marriage, before marriage, instead of being a playboy after marriage, I asked my mother why she has such a mindset."

risma grew curious and then asked.

"keep your mom saying what jan?"

bajan replied with a flat facial expression.

"mother said that in the past she had a friend in her college days, well this friend always brought her boyfriend to the house even almost every day. finally, his girlfriend was very close to my mother's friend's family because they felt bad finally they were married rather than being a neighbor's talk. and finally their marriage ended when her husband saw his wife was having an affair with another man, ever since that incident the mother thought, it is not good if the woman who has not been made a future wife to go home too often, and the mother does not want the incident to happen to me, so I am not allowed to bring my girlfriend home. yes, even though I once brought my girlfriend home, that was before my mother said that to me. when I returned home after driving her home, I was told to tell my mom that I never bring a girlfriend home again before I really become my wife."

"means I can't you please come home?" risma suddenly said like that.

bajan immediately turned his head towards the risma and said.

"don't go to my house first."

"why? because I'm not yet your future wife?" risma asked bajan.

"not so brother. because my mother is very fierce. later brother can be angry with him.not only brother who is angry with him, he was angry, I can also get angry with my mother if I bring my sister." Bajan said that because he did not want the house to go to his house and he continued to explain.

"i'm also now at this time again KKN. surely I can not bring my brother to my house.what else I am the leader of their group brother. if I stay a day can be messed up all of them because no one directs.if we are a match, surely my brother will meet my mother and father directly. but I beg you if you meet my mother I do not feel inferior, because I am not from a family that is. My life is difficult sak."

had a moment of silence to hear Bajan's explanation about his mother.In his heart, he did not mind the background of the Bajan family, he would try to accept all the conditions of the virtues be it his personal condition and family life.