The Widow of Bahenol

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"Sep, can you come in?" asked Mang Ibing who was standing in front of the door of Asep's room his oldest son.

Asep was lying on the bed. Even Mang Ibing saw Asep looking at the ceiling. And it seemed that Asep's eyes looked blank.

Seeing his father coming, Asep got up and sat on the edge of the bed.

"Yes sir, come in" said Asep.

Mang Ibing walked in and sat down next to Asep.

It was the first time that Mang Ibing entered his son's room. Both of Ibing's eyes twisted, he looked at all angles.

"Your room is nice too, clean, I like Sep," said Mang Ibing in stale.

Asep laughed and said,

"Ah, it's normal sir."

"Where's your school? What are your plans after graduation this year?" ask mang Ibing.

Asep immediately fixed his seat, he sat sideways, and now, mang Ibing was in front of him.

"Tumben Mr. Nanyain about Asep school, this is not a stale base right sir?"

asep answered with a satirical question.

"Maapin Mr. Yes, I was too busy in the fields, until we rarely talked together," said mang Ibing.

Asep was silent. He did not expect his father's attitude to soften.

Holding Asep's shoulder, mang Ibing said,

"From now on, let's just say Mr. this is your friend Sep, so you can be more open to talk with Mr. You are ready to be your friend."

Asep also touched the hand of mang Ibing who was on his shoulder.

While Ratmi peeked out from behind the room door.

He wondered what they were talking about.

When Mang Ibing was about to stand up, Asep prevented him, "Sir, for a moment."

Mang Ibing turned his head, and sat back down.

"What's Sep?" ask mang Ibing.

Mang Ibing looked at Asep's face. In his heart he said, "The son of the handsome Father also, your fondness is nurunin of the Father, Sep."

"There's something Asep wants to talk about, sir" Asep said.

Mang Ibing took a deep breath. He tried to be wise back then in front of Asep.

"About what Sep is, no doubt," said Mang Ibing.

Asep was silent for a moment.

"About Yati, sir," Asep replied.

"Why the same Yati? The order has been sorted out, just wait for an official letter from KUA, it is also Mr. RT who takes care, we just take it right," replied mang Ibing.

"Yes, about that Asep knows, sir. But about the talk of people who make Asep sprain, sebel, want tampol aja it's people! Asep was insulting Yati, making fun of Yati, Asep kesel sir! Because of it, we all get rubber, everyone so look at our family one eye!" Asep explained his feelings by grumbling.

Mang Ibing smiled wryly. Sighing a long sigh, Mang Ibing corrected his sitting position.

As long as Asso was growing up, Ibing never behaved like he does today, looking familiar and caring.

Usually his attitude is indifferent to his children, because mang Ibing thinks, if the child is old, does not need intensive attention anymore, but does not.

The more a child grows up, still requiring intensive attention, there is no child who does not need attention.

As it is today, when the Mang Ibing family gets family problems that are so strange, until the social effects involve the whole family.

Yati who is troubled because of his actions, but the impact of social sanctions is also felt by other family members. And how do they react to it? The role of parents is very important here.

"Sep, I understand your feelings. You're not the only one feeling it, your mother is too. Like there are people who are observing the behavior of Mother, like there are slouchy shoes behind her, every step of her out of the house, like it feels like many eyes are looking," said mang Ibing.

They were silent for a moment. But Asep's heart was still broken.

"But sir, how do we respond to those who insult us? Asep sebel Pak on the lips! Asep wants to shake his face!" asep Grousers.

Mang Ibung also laughed off seeing Asep's face that looked tense with burning anger.

Because Mang Ibing had never seen his son behave like that.

While patting Asep on the shoulder, Mang Ibing said, "Patience or Seeep, be patient. Don't use emotions. Everyone is free to do what they think is good. Maybe they sneer, or make comments about our family, they think it is good, but it hurts our feelings. The important thing is that we are patient with it, let them comment, any problem wants Yati problem, not you. You feel wrong, we also have an impact, it's the act of society alone, so just hairkan, do not swallow."

Asep was confused by his father's explanation.

Then he tried to study, Asep was silent for a moment, he tried to understand what Ibing said.

Looking at Asep who was still looking confused, Mang Ibing again said,

"Gini or Sep, we are family, every family has members. If one of our family members has a problem, let it go, that's the problem. We help as much as we can, we remind him if he's wrong. About the talk of people, justin aja, do not take ati, we also have to keep our hearts so as not to burn emotions. People can only judge what they see, but they don't feel what we suffer, because they're not in our position. And not everyone has empathy."

Asep listened carefully, he nodded his head so that he understood what his father explained.

"Yes, now don't think too much about what people say about us, our job is to take care of Yati, remind her, and you ask you to take care of her, love positive feedbacks for him, upset may, angry may, but do not overdo it, do not be provoked emotions with a whiny Yati attitude. You go out first, you take a break" said Mang Ibing.

Asep nodded, then Mang Ibing came out of Asep's room.

As Mang Ibing walked out of Asep's room, he collided with Ratmi.

Ratmi threw it out from behind the door, listening to her husband's conversation with his first child.

BRAKKK

"Sirrive, Buuuu! My dad's headache!" yell mang ibing.

"Aduuuuh Paaaak, Mom is sick too! You want to get out of the room, don't look!" ratmi Maki.

"Well, you're the one in the wrong! But did you know that she was clumping behind the door?" ask mang Ibing.

"Iiiihhh, who is ngumpet, Mother people want to go to the kitchen, uh Father open the door Asep room just play push, right Mother shocked!" ratmi replied lying.

In fact, from the beginning of the Ibing mange into Asep's room, Ratmi hid behind the door. He listened to the conversation between Mang Ibing and Asep, his eldest son.

Ratmi wants to hear how her carefree husband pays attention to his son. Then suddenly Ratmi said to Mang Ibing,

"It turns out, you can also be wise with his son, I think, it's usually just angry."

Mang Ibing was surprised to hear the confession of his wife, his eyes were round, almost the eyeballs of Ibing mang out of his axis,

"Well, did you haνe???"