the toughness of the eldest daughter

First child

My name is KARTINI

I'm usually called ANGGI

I am the first child of a mother named SULATIN 23 years My father named ABDUL KADIR 24 years.

My mother has 4 sisters number One older sister (Sunarti) is married ,his second son's only brother (Sunarto) was still a bachelor at that time my mother was the third child and had the youngest sister (Suryati), who was the youngest, and have 2 different half-siblings father with my mother brother (Sugianto) and sister (Sri handayani)

Their parents died, my grandfather died when they were kids, they didn't even know his own father's face, my grandmother died when my mother Smp 2nd grade was bleeding.

since then their lives as orphans began to like the bitterness of life they feel, trying to support themselves and live together because of the newly married brother my mother.

My mom got married at 21 and my dad was 22, they got married in 1995, and I was born after they got married in 1996.

in 1996, I was 1 year old, my brother married my mother, I took her name (pakwo) and had a child a year after getting married in 1997 named wiro bramantyo.

When I was 2.5 years old my mother and father separated because I did not know the problem at that time just that I lived with my mother at her parent's estate in Jaya faithful, my father's house in Tanjung Gedang I was born in Tanjung Gedang 12 FEBRUARY 1996 in Muara bungo city, kecamatan muara bungo market, Bungo district JAMBI province.

When we parted my mother struggled alone working as a washerman in the mistress' place in the Chinese Indonesian complex not just one but there were three different washing and scrub but still fellow mistresses, I was always taken wherever he went to work, selling because no one was looking after me and my mom didn't want to leave me alone.

sometimes if he has capital from a little work he sells near the elementary school in front of the house..

Truly I who is still naive can only enjoy without knowing the difficulty of finding money, sembaru accompanied mom selling I circled the school while looking at the door of the children who are studying and after mom selling I ask mom I want school mom say patient yahh wait 1 year more new may school.I who do not understand always whine for school as soon as possible.

After all this time we were together I also did not need to remember and asked a lot about my father, he said, anyway I was invited by my mother to go see the boat race at Tanjung yah near my father's house and at that time I met him and he put on me his glasses and took pictures at the banks of the river.

And I saw my mom and dad talking about what they were talking about and then when I came home I went to play with my cousin's brother a guy named Wiro we played on the brackish side of the bridge near the elementary school hallway near my house..without thinking long time it caught fish head flashlight using his ill-fated sieve we were both plunged into brackish fortunately my water was not deep and I was not drifting...we both panicked and went back home soaked and we got angry at home.

And the next day I was invited by my mother as usual to go to work and we went home to my father's house and my mother said From today we will return to stay at my father's house but I'm at living in my mother's brother's house, I played with my cousin's sister.

It turned out that my father and mother returned to the meeting and lived together again my mother stopped working and only relied on income from my father as a motorcycle taxi driver at that time my mother was only given 10 thousand per day and again-to my father's possessiveness and jealousy and we're in brackets at home during his work and ami gathers at lunch,,,a week after that my mother invited me to move to a house that is loyal to the house of my late grandmother.