The Heart Guard Army

Advice

"Marriage will not stop all Aisha's struggle, even the struggle will be more beautiful when married...". Answer Mother Aisyah.

"meaning Ma?". Short question.

"Yes, there are some more beautiful people facing the test in the struggle after they get married, for example Uncle Mizan and his wife Avizah. Uncle Mizan's wife is more excited about her career as a designer to have a famous boutique today. Mizavi Store is a boutique that is known to have many branches in the Central Java region, even though Avizah's aunt used to be almost wretched and almost slumped when facing tough tests at the beginning of her career after her training. But after marrying Mizan uncle his spirit returned as before even more spirit. Care will also be more trusted parents when there is someone to look after their daughter, especially Aisyah is already trusted in the school that was the place of the MPA...". Said mom advising Aisyah.

"Grandfather did not want Aisyah to be wretched again, still remember the incident of the slandering of Bu Raline at that time.., especially the age of Grandpa was not young anymore, anytime Grandpa could go home..., at least Grandpa's choice can replace Grandpa later and continue Grandpa's military struggle". Grandpa said his face so sincerely revealed it.

"But Aisyah still doubts Kek...". Say Aisyah in a weak tone.

"What does Aisha doubt? Just say it now mumpung We all experienced are here.., come on nduk...". Ask Mom.

"Aisha hesitated, because Aisha did not want to be like Mira who was betrayed and left married by her husband. In addition, Dita, Aisyah's friend who quit college in the 5th semester, She also failed in her marriage.., Her husband does not want to work and her parents forbid Dita to work, the inner pressure makes Dita become depressed and until now still in the mental hospital, and what made Aisha doubt Aisha was as afraid as Brother Halina She could not have children and that was why her husband was so very sorry for her marriage that he hated her so much, and Brother Halina is now gone He considers himself useless, which is why he committed suicide due to his frustration. That was all that was in Aisha's mind and let out the doubt in Aisha's heart". Aisyah said everything with honesty.

"Aisha.., the life stories of all people are not the same! What happened to them has been outlined by the Almighty, trauma can be experienced but that does not mean deciding the desire to marry in him. Stop thinking negatively Aisyah, Grandma does not want to give examples far away deh difficult.., Just look at Early Mother of Grandma's neighbor in Bali, She has no children, she has no children, but that way she did not fall down with her husband.., she instead set up an orphanage to treat the silence in her home. She was so happy to take care of them as their real children. Sapphira's marriage Neighbor Grandma down the road also ended happily, although initially her husband had an affair and married without Sapphira's knowledge but thanks to Safira's fortitude they were both reunited, her husband's marriage was invalid because of polygamy without the wife's permission and was unable to be fair to both his wives. Look now they are happy with the Art School they pioneered together. There are many more stories Aisha.., and the way of life of the person is different.., let you doubt, later tonight try praying istikharah to ask for guidance from God". Grandma said plainly, her words so touched the recesses of Aisyah's heart and made her realize the worry in her heart that was too big.

The father who had been busy enjoying his favorite cake began to speak up, "Aisyah, just look at our family, is everyone having a split problem in marriage?". Ask Dad briefly.

"No. Well...". Aisyah shakes.

"When did you meet them?". Ask Aisyah curiously.

"When Grandpa took Dad two weeks ago". Answer me briefly.

" Grandfather wants to marry you because Grandpa remembers one of the Sahih Hadith Chronicle of al-Bukhari: 4700, From Abu Hurairah RA.

"The woman was married for four things, because of her property, because of her offspring, because of her beauty and because of her religion.

So choose because of his religion, you will be lucky".

Grandpa considered, Asyah had met these criteria, so Insyaallah Grandpa would not be able to choose a candidate who is sekufu (equal degree) with Aisyah, Isnyaallah Hamdan a man of faith, and a man of faith, He's also been able to provide for you, and most importantly He's a soldier despite being educated hard but his heart is soft, Grandpa sure won't do domestic violence to you". Grandpa said with a serious face.

"However, we would like to be happy to see you in the household of Aisyah, with your beautiful beauty, We are afraid to become an adulterous field if no one has it yet, because they're out there going to diminish his view when he finds out a woman has married him". Said Abhimanyu who had been listening but felt greget want to connect.

"Yes, everything is true but Aisyah needs time to think things through, the plan that Aisyah had made before should Aisyah mind again and rearrange from the beginning, give Aisyah time, at least tonight. Aisha was tired, wanted to rest.., Isnyaallah tomorrow after breakfast Aisyah told Aisyah's decision...".