The Father's Choice

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My husband is always patient and calm in the face of all the scorn about him even he doesn't care as bad as anyone judges him.

Though out there now people compete with each other to be considered richer even they are willing to do anything to achieve a more luxurious lifestyle than others.

I must also always be patient in dealing with the behavior of my brothers who always say the money I get is the result of mengepet lah, the result of mengihara tuyul lah, so mugger, so robbing, how could there be a brother who would accuse his own brother like that.

"You are Sin the result of night work cok in buying a motorcycle not very elite, mbok ya bought the house to look waow have his own house not hitchhiking at home people, mbok, offered a cheap house do not want," said my brother.

"What kind of night job does Sis have?" ask my second brother.

"That's keep the candle, wait for her husband to come home for money so the pig is mopping," he said giggling.

Every time I hear my brother say the no - no about my husband, I must be innate emotions and strangely so that the impingement of my own husband.

Like today when I took the time to come to my father's house to clean the house, it turns out there were both my brothers who cleaned the house and as usual they always made fun of me and my husband.

"I sprained" I said when I got home and saw Bang Parlin sitting in front of the television.

"What's up, Dude? why?" ask bang Parlin.

"I'm a bosen in despicable Bang, even my own brother insulted us, I want to tell them all that my husband is not unemployed even my husband can afford to buy the house without selling the paddy field of the house is only equivalent to the sale of three crops, " pissed me.

"Wait a minute Dik hold his anger, take a breath slowly let the little sister calm down," said bang Parlin calmed me.

I followed what Bang Parlin said and a few minutes later I was already feeling a little calm.

"Who insulted my sister? Kan Abang has said never mind what others say who want to damage our mentality, they want to make us tormented inner Dik," said Bang Parlin.

"That was my brother at their father's house saying something that wasn't about us" I said.

"Leave Dik not to listen to, please, let's just say the wind then as long as they don't hit us already let's just say that wong is not only not anyway they don't know what the truth is," said bang Parlin.

"Ah bodo is very Bang! you insensitive husband! I'm tired of Bang being the subject of insults and ridicule people, occasionally showing off is okay Bang anyway human nature show off it," said I upset.

Though my husband does not know about the insults that make me upset should I be angry instead of angry at my husband, your fate Bang I was upset at my brother brother but you are the impingement.

"Yes, don't be sad! tomorrow we go to the Bank we pour money, we buy a house and we buy a car if we need to sell a cow if later the money in the Bank is less," replied my husband lightly.

I also gaping to see my husband's answer turned out that what he said yesterday was really sincere and he proved, he was willing to people insult him but he did not accept if his wife was insulted, he said, Bang your attitude like that makes my heart melt Bang.

In my heart I cheered happily, finally the mouths of my neighbors and brothers would be silenced, I would buy a luxurious house and their new car would definitely be even more surprised to see that.

I was silent for a moment while smiling to myself imagining that but suddenly it crossed my mind said Bang Parlin yesterday.

"Buy as needed not as you wish."

I also think again if I buy a large luxury house I think it is not necessary because we just live alone there are no children and do not need a large house for children to live in we, all I need for this moment is a house that can be shelter and enough for us to stay together, if at this time I buy a luxury house I think not including the needs, I think, if I buy a car for whatever I can't bring a car and I think so is my husband, all we need is a means of transportation that can take us anywhere there is already a motor that we can use.

"Bang has not given up on that intention" I said in the end.

"Are you sure you don't want to buy a new house and a new car?" ask my husband to make sure.

Maybe he was surprised by my sudden change.

"Yes Bang really, anyway all we need is a shelter and this house is more than enough while the car I can not drive and Brother was the same then what we buy if we can not use it and all we need is a means of transportation that can take us to go where we want and it has a motor beat that we are ready to use at any time," I said again.

"real? yes already if it's the decision of Brother Sister is not willing if Sister is always insulted," said Bang Parlin.

"Father Bang let it go later if they are tired of stopping by themselves, too" I replied.

Suddenly I heard a notification sound from my phone and as I thought this from the WA family group again.

"Choose a mate turned out to now even be able to admire, oops but unemployment is a lot of money but somehow from grandong out of the little boy," he sounded.

I'm sure this writing is also aimed at me because all this time I did look like choose a mate and the end broke before going to the melaminan and ended with a mate choice of father.

My face looks gloomy again and it did not escape the attention of bang Parlin.

"Dik do not fly because it is praised and do not fall down just because it is a humiliation, insulted will not make us praised trash will not make us stars in the sky" said bang Parlin.

I smiled, it is true that what my husband said we will not succeed only with someone's praise and we will not be destroyed just by someone else's ridicule.

"Yes Bang Adik understands," I said with a smile towards the Parlin bang.

I also reply to chats in my family WA group.

"Will not fly because of praise and will not fall down just because of insults.in praise will not be a star in contempt will not be trash,"

"Good! that's my brother." my sister replied.

I smiled with satisfaction as my brothers and sisters stopped commenting on me.

"Who taught you this kind of thinking Bang?" I asked Bang Parlin.

"Someone from my past, Dik," he replied with a smile.

For some reason suddenly in my heart tucked uncomfortable with the answer bang Parlin this time, Parlin, I felt a sense of jealousy and pain growing in my heart as bang Parlin told people from my past.

"Who's that Bang seems like someone special?" I hide the pain in my heart.

"It's not important, I say it's not familiar, too" replied bang Parlin as if to divert the conversation.

Parlin is hiding something from me.