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The soul mate is not how long you are with him, but how sure you are with him.
The match may not come on time, but the match will come at the right time.
Perhaps the two proverbs are the ones that at this time the Caliph feels right. The request of uwa Asep who asked him to come to his uwa residence is to discuss the issue of arranged marriage. the petition to this day itself is not yet convinced, and is it possible that this is really the soul mate that God has prepared for himself.
The Caliph recalled his self-talk with uwa Asep a few days ago.
" Uwa, can you not have an introduction process or ta'aruf first ? mean at least so we know each other first. " The Caliph is still trying to do the process of ta' aruf first not directly with the process of preaching as he wants the family.
" Neng uwa understood the intent of eneng, uwa not his do not want to do the ta'aruf process first, but this is not the desire uwa. this desire of gus Fahmi himself, but this is not the desire of gus Fahmi himself, himself wants the process of Khitbah not the process of ta'aruf. Before eneng who asked for the process of ta'aruf, uwa had proposed his on gus Fahmi, but his self refused. " uwa Asep also explained that he also wanted the ta'aruf process first.
Oh ... so the man's name was Fahmi, uh but uwa told me that he was a descendant of a kiayi. The Caliph also made up because he only knew the name of the man who wanted to preach it.
" I'm sorry uwa, but how do we get to know each other if there's no ta'aruf process ?now you just know what the name of the man who will menghitbah eneng, and what about his family ? and surely the man did not know the cuddly right?, "
The Caliph also immediately protested, really his self is still so confused by the situation he is facing at this time. a Caliph whose incident is an officer and a doctor never feels in need with exams or physical exercise either in his field of medicine or in the field to his pre-estimates, but his sense is not for the problem of his soul mate.self must even be frustrated, frustrating, even if her self has the ability to disappear at this time then her self prefers to disappear from the matchmaking event.
" Abah sorry, according to A'a what he said was true.it would be better if the ta'aruf process is done first.at least let them know each other, each other, what if it is suitable, continue to the next stage, and what if it does not fit, yes inevitably it must be canceled. " as the eldest son of A'a Ahmad also confirmed the opinion of his cousin's sister.
Medengar Khalifah and his eldest son who protested the abah was just smiling. " Ahmad, abah has already explained to gus Fahmi not agree abah. Do you know who Gus Fahmi is ?his self must also understand about this.even if you agree, gus Fahmi is ready to directly marry you, without any process of Khitbah.but abah immediately refused, gus Fahmi, and that's why they asked for two weeks for the sermon process, and you couldn't refuse their request. "abah tried to explain to get his firstborn to understand.
Hearing the explanation of the abah then A'a Ahmad just nodded his head sign that he understood the explanation of the abah. in fact, Ahmad believes that the abah cannot decide something without thinking about it first, because Ahmad knows what the abah looks like. what else this concerns the mandate of the deceased battery and also the princesses who are very dear to his brother.
" Neng, what sizzle has not tried praying istiqoroh ? notya eneng had asked for time on the mother cheng, to decide this problem ?. "see the Caliph who was silent, Uwa Asep was back to speak because this problem must be broken, right.
The Caliph only bowed his head, in fact, the Caliph had performed several times praying Istiqoroh asking for guidance from Allah, it's just that the instructions he got actually made him unsure and confused in making a decision at this time.
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Seeing the nephew who pleaded with her while looking down on his head made Uwa Asep become unbearable. "neng, if you hesitate with this matchmaking then you should be able to refuse him. uwa won't force the cuddly to accept."
Hearing Uwa Asep talk like that the Caliph immediately glanced at Arum, not only did the Caliph look towards Arum, but all the inhabitants of the house looked at the girl, making her head lower. after seeing the reaction of Arum the Caliph was convinced that Arum strongly objected to his self-replacement.it's just that the girl was unable to issue her opinion what else until she rejected the desire of the abah, but she was unable to do so, and the Caliph understood exactly what his cousin Arum was like.
" No uwa, please just give time to eneng. "the caliph said to uwa Asep to ask for time after seeing the reaction of the teteh. uwa Asep agreed to give the Caliph time to reassure himself.
Days changed and times changed, days were where the Caliph had to give answers to his decisions regarding the trust of arranged marriages.For some days the Caliph always asked for God's guidance, and for many years he always asked for God's guidance, and at this time with full confidence the Caliph contacted Uwa Asep.
After performing the prayer isya Khalifah reached for his mobile phone to contact the uwa . " Tut .. tut .. tut .. "the tone of the phone is connected, and not how long.
" Assalamualikum neng .." The voice on the phone gave him a greeting.
" walaikumus sallam uwa, what about uwa ? is it better ? and sorry if you haven't been able to visit." The Caliph immediately asked the health of the uwa because two days ago the Caliph got news from Arum if his uwa was sick.
Actually two days ago the Caliph did have time to contact Arum just to hear his opinion about the trust of the matchmaking and what kind of answer the teteh, just like the answer, actually it will not help him because the answer itself can be guessed Caliph.
Surely the teteh just says whatever decision the Caliph he will accept.be it rejects or accepts the matchmaking.true cliche answer what is different with whatever, whatever, and like that is a creature called a woman really cannot be understood.
" Allhamdulilah, uwa already healthy neng, it's okay - what uwa ngerti neng. eneng healthy also right?. "uwa know that the Caliph is currently out of town. the day after his visit to the uwa's house, the Caliph got a task from the superior.
" Allhamdulilah if uwa is healthy, ceneng is also healthy uwa. uwa eneng wants to keep the promise of ceneng to give a cool answer about the mandate of the deceased battery. " The Caliph was silent for a while to breathe the air soberly to calm himself before continuing his words.
" Bissmillah, eneng received this matchmaking, as well as the trust of the deceased battery sincerely.and eneng also received the Khitbah gus Fahmi to eneng. " finally the burden on the Caliph's shoulders was lifted, fear , fear , a sense of confusion, like melting just like that. Currently only a feeling of relief in his felt.
Hearing the answer from the Caliph the uwa was pleased. "allhamdulilah .. good if so. what's cool to have told both parents ?. " said uwa asked Khalifa if the nephew had told his two parents.
" Not yet uwa, but can you please ask for help uwa ? please do not tell anything first with the parents.later after the preaching process, then we talk to the father and mother, then, and Insha Allah is content with the effort will be present in the preaching process later.uwa keep health continue and sorry eneng can not linger - long because eneng will be back on duty. sorry yes ... eneng died first his phone , assalamualikum .. " after hearing the answer greetings from the caliph's uwa in haste - gesa turned off his phone and immediately prepared - ready to go.
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