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It has been almost a week since the Caliph was in the main house, since the end of his service at the border. The Caliph really took advantage of his rest time before the Caliph returned to serve in PUSKESAD (the army health center) in an area commonly called KESDAM (military regional health).
The Caliph prefers to spend his time by locking himself in the room, his self is like a bear that is hibernating at this time.even just to eat only the Caliph must remind, but he will not, and fortunately to carry out his duties as a Muslim, the Caliph never had to be reminded because with his own Caliph always carried out his obligations.
" Tok .. tok .. " heard the sound of the room door in the ketok.
" Neng ... Mommy can enter?." the voice of the mother who asked permission to enter her daughter's room.
" En in aja bun, the door is also in the key kok." said the Caliph from the room.
" Cklek .. "the door of the room opened, and the mother appeared from behind the door.
" What else ? does the mother disturb sleep cool?." said the mother who saw her daughter was hanging out on the bed, and herself immediately positioned herself to sit in front of the princess
" Cock bun, this is just waking up. What is it ? kok tumben, usually also right, the eneng who was told to go down the same mother if there is anything - what. because the mother is the most lazy to go up the stairs." said the Caliph, when she saw her mother enter her room.
" There is something you want to talk about as good as." said the mother while gently stroking her daughter's hand, and looked at the princess's face with an affectionate look.
" What's bun talking, how serious is it ? dad's just as good - all right ?." The Caliph who heard the tone of the mother's speech began to seriously become very worried, himself afraid of something happening to his father and mother.
Hearing the worried tone of her daughter Mother immediately smiled.
" Mommy is the same father - fine, precisely the father and mother are worrying sweet at this time" said the mother while stroking the cheek of the princess.
" Lho .. kok so worried eneng sich, cheng is good - well aja bun, why so fretin eneng ? did you not see this mother's daughter healthy wal'afiat still beautiful anyway ? still cute also kok he .. he .." while showing his grin to the mother.not wrong what the princess said, the princess, because the Caliph is a beautiful and cute girl for girls his age.
Mother also smiled again to see the behavior and attractiveness of the princess who was packing even though she was aged, however, for a Caliph who has a baby face, no one will believe that the Caliph has entered the age of three heads. even his childish behavior and spoiled attitude towards the family never changed.
" Yes mother knows, because the mother is also beautiful because she is cool to get a rich face that.must be nice thanks to mother dong, dong, it's the mother who has lowered the beautiful face of the mother to be cool. "said the mother who does not want to lose narcissistic with her daughter.
Because what is said by the mother is true there is, the mother who is currently fifty-six years old still looks beautiful for the size of a middle-aged mother in general.
" Yes - yes the main beauty of the mother cetar membenggana already rich angel he .. he. his intention is angel for the father." said Caliph cengengesan while hugging the mother.
" Thank you mother has become the best mother to ceng. sorryin eneng, if so far many wrong mother, sorry also because it can not be happy mother and father." while continuing to hug the body tightly.
" Yes neng, mother also apologized if all this time there was wrong as cool." mother also broke her embrace. while looking at the face of her daughter.
" Neng , uwa (brother mother in Sundanese) there was a phone call mom a few months ago, and uwa asked about the cheng ?." mother paused her speech while looking at her daughter's reaction.
Seeing the confusion of the mother's daughter began to explain.
" Uwa asks if there is already a whimper, or if you are berta'aruf with a man ? and if not, are you willing to carry out the mandate of the deceased battery, to be in a match with the grandchild of the battery friend ?."
Mother was silent again to see the response of her daughter, because this is the first time her mother talked about arranged marriage, because all this time the father and mother did free their children to choose their respective soul mate.as long as the child is happy and does not come out of Islamic law, the law of Islam, so the father and mother will approve without frills - the appendage of arranged marriage.
The Caliph was only able to bow down, at this time the Caliph was really confused, whether you should accept or reject the matchmaking offered by the uwa. saw the princess bowed quietly, he said, mother immediately hugged her daughter again.
" Mother and uwa do not force neng, if you are not willing or not okay - what, there is still Arum tea that may later run the mandate of Aki. because here the mother and uwa only carry out the mandate of the deceased battery. "
" Not his tea Arum still in cairo right bun?" said the Caliph opened his voice to ask.
" Yes Arum tea is still in cairo, most likely next month has returned to the homeland. because his education has been completed. therefore, before the return of Arum tea, Arum tea, uwa wants to talk about this matchmaking.what if eneng is ready, then Arum tea will uwa match with uwa's best friend's child." said mother explained about the matchmaking.
" Iiss, uwa why sich is still playing a mate - a soul mate aja. how if tea Arum already has his own choice, pity bun. that's his name violates the law - judangan girls." upset the Caliph immediately protested his dislike of the uwa's decision.
Hearing the protection of her daughter Mother was chuckling amusedly.
" He . he. neng .. neng, there are - anyways.anywhere there is a law - invitation girls.emang eneng can from where the rich law is like that ." with an amused chuckle hearing the words of his daughter.
" Lagian eneng kelas equally uwa, still rich era siti nurbayah, play mate - soul mate all. if in the generation of battery may still be okay, still acceptable if in soul mate - mate. but if it has been the Uwa generation, the rich have been less ethical for children today.what else is now flat - the average child - his children have become millennials.
indeed sich, parents want their children to be happy by getting a good soul mate, but that does not mean good according to parents as well. the soul mate is a secret of God, God, so without having to be in a mate also if it is already Allah willing to surely meet with his way that we do not expect." said the Caliph expressed his opinion.
" Yes mother knows neng, but the thought of each parent is different.maybe for some people, by way of arranged marriage is an effort or effort to get a mate.not his God said : ' I will not change the fate of my people unless the people themselves change it. 'not that it is clear, if we are told to try and pray'a. Consider it with this matchmaking, it is our effort to get a soul mate, and the rest let God will.'' at length the mother explained to her daughter.
" bun . what you say is true, but not necessarily in accordance with the thinking mindset of children today, what if there are parents who say they want to match their children.with the words matchmaking only, the child would have thought that the decision to get married was in the hands of his parents. so the child must only be able to obey the opinions of his parents, without being able to express his own opinion.is not the same as the parent forcing the will on the child.but will be different, but will be different, if his parents say they will introduce the usual ta'aruf is more effective. Because with this process, it certainly helps us know anything about prospective husbands and prospective wives. if the same - the same fit it will be continued to the next stage.but, if it does not match it will be canceled.for sure, it will be, the way his ta'aruf must be true - true in accordance with Islamic sharia, and do not violate the adapt and rules of ta'aruf itself." The Caliph also expressed his opinion at length.
" Aahh . good mother gave up if you have to argue with millennials.but not her mother kolot you know, during this time the same mother father never mate - jodohin. aa ilham, teteh fatimah, same brother rizky, they all get their own soul mate without having a mother mate. Besides this, also, the first time the mother talked arranged marriage right ? mother will also engage maksa eneng for nerima, because the mother only offers it. so, the decision is still equally delicious.just message the mother thinks well - well, and do not forget to pray istiqoroh first. involve God in making decisions, let's notify the mother's intentions? ." while stroking her daughter's long hair.
" God willing bun, please give time to think.later, what if you have already got a decision, you immediately tell uwa, ready or not." with a still doubtful feeling the Caliph asked for time to think to the mother.
" Well neng, whatever the decision will be cool, mother will accept her. mother fully supports the decision of the cool, mother is only able to pray for happiness and goodness to be cool. " said the mother by giving her embrace.
" Thank you bun, mother is a lampu eneng, which is able to illuminate her dark life eneng. mother water for eneng, which is able to eliminate thirst eneng. mother your are everything to me." while hugging tightly the beloved mother.
A soul mate is a provision or destiny that God has set.when will it come ? with who ? and how will he come ? no one knows it because it is the secret of God, just pray and surrender all of it to God.
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