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Marrying

The next day, Ghina and Oom Yasin left for Pakde's house.

Arriving at home pakde greeted with his wife while pakde still in the field has not returned home.

They waited for a while before finally pakde home before dhuhur.

"Assalamualaikum ... pakde" said Oom and Ghina when he returned from the field.

"Waalaikum salam... have you been waiting for a long time?" ask pakde

"We have also just arrived" replied Ghina.

"Where is your budhe... ?" ask pakde.

"There is a pakde. Ghina in the kitchen for a while" replied Ghina as she passed following the budhe.

"Just like Sin. pakde to the water first, hot and gatel from the field during the day, hot like this" said pakde

"O yes. monggo pakde" replied Oom Yasin.

After finishing the bath, he returned to meet Oom Yasin while Ghina and Budhe prepared a drink and lunch.

After finishing Ghina immediately called pakde and Oom to eat together then continued with their purpose to come.

After Oom spoke about the annulment of Ghina and Satria budhe's arranged marriage, he seemed a little disappointed.

"Ghin. do you want to try to know Satria first" asked budhe expectantly.

"No need for Budhe... Ghina believes Satria is a good person, so it is better not to meet because Ghina knows that Ghina's heart has a choice, although Ghina meeting Satria will not change Ghina's choice of heart, even Ghina thought it would add more heartache to Satria, Send Ghina an apology if budhe meets her" Ghina replied trying to explain.

" I beg the blessing of Ghina mas's choice.I believe her choice is also good.

""To be honest, this pact only wants him to be happy, if his Buddhist choice is not in accordance with Ghina's will, yes, as parents we can only pray, bless.

"O yes Mas. tomorrow the plan is for Ghina's choice to come home to propose. I really hope pakde and budhe come as parents from Ghina ... all tomorrow mas and mbak can get to know the choice of Ghina and her family" pinta Oom.

"Ooo... I see... great, tomorrow we will come yes bu'e... noon to?" pakde jawah.

"Then we wait for tomorrow at Pakde's house, budhe." replied Ghina.

"We want to say goodbye.Our business is in order, tomorrow I really hope that pakde really comes as Ghina's parents." said Oom.

"Assalamualaikum pakde, budhe we say goodbye" said Ghina.

"Yo yooo. ngati-ati. waaalaikumsalam" said pekde and budhe.

Oom and Ghina then returned home on their motorbikes. There was relief in Ghina's heart because her pakde was not angry anymore.

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2 Days later

By noon, the Ghina family had gathered at home, there was a pakde and budhe was also seen there.

We are waiting for the arrival of the Al family. A few minutes later the wait finally came, there was Heni's mother, Al, sister Dila, husbandami and two children (Herman, Leo & Lea).

After shaking hands with each other and being invited to sit the application event began immediately.

From the mutual introduction of the Ghina family there is anyone and how it relates to Ghina, then it continues from the Al family.

After the introduction is completed then to the core of the purpose and purpose they gathered that is their next proposal to negotiate about the day and date, after all the families agreed then the event closed with a friendly meeting or lunch.

After the completion of the Al family was ready to go home.

They agreed that the wedding would be held in Ghina's house for 2 weeks.

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When High School Satria often pay attention to Ghina, only then He already has a girlfriend Ita classmate with him.

When his relationship with Ita ended he did not have a lover anymore, so when the parents offered to find a mate he would accept the origin with Ghina.

"It turns out I'm late, he already has a heart patch" Satria muttered.

Could it be that I have a girl in this village who can sincerely like me" Satria said.

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For almost 2 weeks Ghina was busy going back and forth from the village to the city to prepare for all her wedding needs. Although only accommodated and held in a simple but Ghina wants the moment of her wedding to be prepared nicely.

Two hearts again the event will be held, Ghina and Al only connect via mobile phone but already 5 days they agreed not to be interconnected first. Ghina fasts before the wedding, there is no suggestion because there is no hadith, but Ghina just wants to get closer to the Khaliq more than before so that the event is smooth.

Today Ghina wants to eat her mother's father.

In the afternoon after the prayer Ashar get ready with his motorcycle do not forget to buy flowers to be sprinkled on the grave of his mother's father.

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In the morning Ghina had taken a shower and was getting ready because starting this morning in the yard of her house will be posted a sign.

The neighboring relatives have gathered to prepare for the afternoon of the ba'dha dhuhur. They cook in Oom Yasin's kitchen because Ghina's house is in particular for the groom's family break.

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The event that was on the wait came the family of the bridegroom had come and prepared to sit in the chair that had been prepared.

And the Ghina family is also neat and fill the chairs facing the table that will be used kabul ijab event.

A moment later the pengupulu also came and prepared at the place provided then Al and Pakde as the marriage guardian of Ghina were also in the same place.

Ghina who is ready in the room with a long white kebaya combined with a batik array of sido mukti motifs and hijab of color in line with the kebaya is ready to hear the marriage pledge that Al uttered with a heart pounding in his lips look to continue to recite the asthma of Allah to be launched.

After faintly heard from inside the room the voice of Al uttering the ijab and then there was a legitimate answer that several witnesses answered and then a boisterous sound of Alhamdulillah from everyone who was on the show, Ghina in the room accompanied by her best friend Nena also immediately said Alhamdulillah also with the roar of tears haru, but little did she hold so as not to flood her cheeks and damage her makeup.

budhe and Al's mother knocked on the door to pick up Ghina.

Ghina came out of the room flanked by Bu Heni and Budhe slowly towards the place where the ruler and Al who saw Ghina walking closer to him was amazed at the beauty of the village girl who had now become his wife.

All eyes looked towards Ghina who looked extremely dazzling.

After arriving beside Al, then they faced each other, Ghina kissed Al's hand, then Al put Al's hand on Ghina's head by reciting prayers and blowing on Ghina's crown.

Allahumma inni as’aluka min khoirihaa wa khoirimaa jabaltaha ‘alaih. Wa a’udzubika min syarriha wa syarrimaa jabaltaha ‘alaih.”

It means:" O Allah, I ask You for the good of him and the good that you have set upon him, and I take refuge in You from his ugliness and the ugliness that you have set upon him.

After that then signed the marriage book and other files.then take pictures to capture the historic moment in their lives both.

All those present then congratulated and prayed these two brides.

"Baarakallahu laka wa baarakaa alaika wa jamaa bainakumaa fii khoir.”

It means: may Allah bless you, both in joy and sorrow and always gather you both in good.

tbc

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