SANUM The Unnourished Wife
IJAB
Getting married is a special and exciting moment for everyone. From preparation to the wedding day,
everything is done carefully and calculated. All of that is done so that the wedding can run smoothly and minimize mistakes that may occur.
Marriage is the key to a marriage. Arguably, the marriage contract is a religious ceremony to unite the two brides into a couple legally before God. In general, the marriage contract is held with a sacred, often even draining tears.
the happy day has arrived which is very much awaited by both parties of the Bagas and Airin extended families...
after the return of the bagas two days ago, both families agreed to carry out a marriage contract at the residence of Bagas and Airin's new home...
the entire extended family from Bagas.Airin and Sanum were also present on the happy Day of Bagas and Airin...
It's just that the twins Sanum and Alex were not invited to stay at the mansion at the request of the jenab and mira...
Jenab and Mira are coming at Bagas and Airin's wedding reception in a month...
From the bridal room Very clear in the living room Bagas said his kabul ijab
"I married and I marry you Ananda Bagas Baskoro bin Wanto Baskoro with my son named Airin Ambarwati,AM, Keb. with dowry a set of prayer tools in pay Cash.”
"I accept her marriage and the marriage of Airin Ambarwati, AM, Keb. binti Rendi Jayadi with her dowry, cash.”
After the sentence of kyab kabul was spoken, the ruler who led the marriage process exclaimed in a question to kyai ahmad, “Sah?”
And the presenters in the room simultaneously replied, “Sah!”
But in the middle of the statement kyai ahmad voiced “Ulangi!”.
“Why does Abah Kyai repeat? What's reason?” ask one of the witnesses and question mark..
according to him the words of the bagas and Rendi smoothly and well there is nothing wrong...
while the penghulu knows the reason for kyai Ahmad asked to repeat
" that the kabul ijab is invalid because there is still a distance between the ijab spoken by the guardian and the kabul delivered by the groom." answer kyai Ahmad who was anguki the ruler confirmed the speech of kyai Ahmad
"one of the conditions of kabul marriage is the continuity of the sentence of ijab and kabul without any separation in the form of silence of the groom before pronouncing the sentence of his ijab, even if only for a moment."
"Event like this is very common in society when the procession is called ijab kabul a marriage."
"There are some people who understand that the connected sentences of ijab and kabul must be really connected without any spare time for a second."
"However, some can still accept that the short time gap between ijab and kabul does not result in the invalidity of a marriage contract."
"Not infrequently the demand to repeat the marriage contract for reasons of kabul ijab that is less continuous makes the groom to be groggy and lose confidence so that when he repeats his marriage contract it is precisely the word of the ijab he uttered the more poorly organized."
" The true jurisprudence is valid for the first time, thus losing its validity when the second pronunciation and so on, because of grogginess and loss of confidence."
"In the fiqh has been determined some requirements that make a marriage contract legitimate."
" Among its requirements is the conjunction of the kabul sentence uttered by the bride's guardian or which represents the words of the ijab expressed by the bridegroom representing."
" This connection becomes mandatory because the words ijab and kabul are an inseparable unity."
"The problem then is what is the limit of a kabul ijab said to be continuous or not? How long is the time lag that can still be tolerated to say that the kabul ijab is connected? In this case the community is different in understanding and applying it to the procession of the marriage contract."
"There are some who can still accept the silence of the bridegroom in a relatively short time and some are strictly forbidding the time lag between the ijab and kabul even if only one second."
"For this second group the last letter of the ijab sentence must be completely connected with the first letter of the kabul sentence."
...ومن شروط الصيغة أيضا أن يتصل الإيجاب من الولي بالقبول من الزوج، فلو قال ولي الزوجة: زوّجتك ابنتي، فسكت الزوج مدة طويلة، ثم قال: قبلت زواجها، لم يصح العقد، لوجود الفاصل الطويل بين الإيجاب والقبول، مما يجعل أمر رجوع الوليّ في هذه المدة عن الزواج أمراً محتملاً، أما السكوت اليسير: كتنفس، وعطاس، فإنه لا يضرّ في صحة العقد...
...Meaning “Also including the condition shighat is the conjunction of the ijab from the guardian with kabul from the husband. So if the guardian of the wife says “I marry you to my daughter”, then the husband is silent for a long time and then answers “I accept marriage”, so the marriage contract is not valid because of the long separation between the ijab and kabul where in this time frame allows the guardian to withdraw the marriage certificate. As for a short silence such as breathing and sneezing is okay in the validity of the marriage contract.”...
...اذا تخلل بين الايجاب والقبول زمان طويل لم يصح. وان تخلل بينهما زمان يسير يجري مجري بلع الريق وقطع النفس صح لأن ذلك لا يمكن الاحتراز منه...
...: “If between ijab and kabul is sold for a long time then it is not legal marriage contract. And if between the two is interspersed a short time equivalent to the time to swallow and stop breathing then the validity of the contract, because it is impossible to avoid it.” ...
Kyai ahmad explained the question from the witness, the witness nodded in understanding and apologized to kyai Ahmad.
bagas is aware of what is said kyai Ahmad indeed has a point because it is too nervous so that he had to pause his ijab speech...
"Bismillah nak jagan nervous" wanto patted the shoulder bagas as well as tian gave encouragement to his friend
" Bismilbornrahmanirrahim Bagas Baskoro is ready" said penghulu asked bagas
"Bismilbornrahmanirrahim.bagas ready sir" replied firmly bagas full of confidence.
kyai Ahmad nodded to start again to continue his ijab back to the ruler
"Allah gives smoothness to Bagas.easily it is easy Bagas said Ijab" said Airin not calm
"bismillah the deck kept praying" Sanum rubbed Airin's hands which were getting hot cold from nervousness
"Jagan nervous dear mother.mas bagas certainly can this time.bismillah keep calm" timpal Jamilah hugged the mere princess of his puppet
"Amiiinnn thank you mbak.ibu deck serly and Zaira" soft smile Airin tried to calm down a little to eliminate the heartbeat that increasingly spur
"Saaaaaaahhhhhh" The voices of the witnesses were heard boisterously saying Alhamdulilah when Kyai Ahmad declared it legitimate
"Thank God" smiled at the four women who accompanied Airin in the bridal chamber..
say congratulations to Airin who has become a wife, they shed tears and happy
Airin walked slowly at the sanum and Jamilah who was beside him, while behind Airin there was the friend and sister-in-law of Airin..
"God is so beautiful" praise Bagas unconsciously said the word in front of many people who made Airin blush shyly kissed the bagas hand...
"Ehem"Rian cleared his throat from his charms staring at Airin unblinking
"Son Airin has legitimately been your wife for good, son Airin will not go out of your sight" the penghulu's smile made kyai ahmad shrug his head along with a happy smile
After being declared legal as husband and wife in the eyes of religion, then the two brides are asked to sign the marriage document, one of which is a marriage book. In this way both are declared legally married in the eyes of law and religion...
Kyai Ahmad continued the prayer after Bagas and Airin signed the marriage documents...
الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِى بِنِعْمَتِهِ تَتِمُّ الصَّالِحَاتُ
“Alhamdulillah alladzi bi ni’mati tatimmus shalihat”
Barakallahu laka wa braka ‘alaika wa jama bainakum - fi khairin
“May God bless you in joy and sorrow and may God gather you both in kindness.”
اَللّٰهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَهُمَا كَمَا وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَ اٰدَمَ وَحَوَّاءَ وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَهُمَا كَمَا وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَ سَيِّدِنَا إِبْرَاهِيْمَ وَسَارَةَ وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَهُمَا كَمَا وَأَلِّفْ سَيِّدِنَا يُوْسُفَ وَزُلَيْخَاءَ وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَهُمَا كَمَا وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَسَيِّدَتِنَا خَدِيْجَةَ الْكُبْرَى وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَهُمَا كَمَا وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَ سَيِّدِنَا عَلِيِّ وَسَيِّدَتِنَا فَاطِمَةَ الزَّهْرَاءَ
Allhumma allif bainahum kam' allafta baina Adam wa Hawwa, wa allif bainahum kam' allafta baina sayyidina Ibrahm wa Srah, wa allif bainahuma kama allafta baina sayyidina Ysuf wa Zulaikha, wa allif bainahum kama' allafta baina sayyidina Muhammadin shallalhu ‘alaihi wa sallama wa sayyidatina Khadjatal kubra, wa allif bainahum kam' allafta baina sayyidin ‘Aly wa sayyidatina Fathimah az-Zahra
: “Yes Allah, recompense them both as You recompense the Prophets Adama and Eve, recompense them both as You recite the Prophets Abraham and Sarah, as You reconcile the Prophets Yusuf and Zulaikha, respectively, get along with both as You concretize His Majesty Prophet Muhammad shallalhu ‘alaihi wa sallama and Khadijah Al-Kubra, and get along with both as You get along with Ali and Fatima Az-Zahra.”
اَللّٰهُمَّ اجْعَلْ هٰذَا الْعَقْدَ عَقْدًا مُبَارَكًا مَعْصُوْمًا وَأَلْقِ بَيْنَهُمَا أُلْفَةً وَقَرَارًا دَائِمًا وَلَا تَجْعَلْ بَيْنَهُمَا فِرْقَةً وَفِرَارًا وَخِصَامًا وَاكْفِهِمَا مُؤْنَةَ الدُّنْيَا وَالْاٰخِرَةِ
Allhummaj’al hadzal ‘aqda ‘aqdan mubarakan ma’shuman wa alqi bainahuma ulfatan wa qaran wa laiman wa taj’al bainahum firqatan wa firqan wa khishman wakfihima munatad dunya walkhirah
“Yes Allah, make this contract a blessed and protected bond, instill in them a lasting harmony and resolve, do not make between them division, separation and enmity, and suffice both of them to live in the world and the hereafter.”
"follow abah ya"pinta kyai Ahmad to the bagas
"yes bah" replied Bagas following the words of Kyai Ahmad
اًللَّهُمَّ بِأَمَانَتِكَ أَخَذْتُهَا وَبِكَلِمَاتِكَ اِسْتَحْلَلْتُ فَرْجَهَا، فَإِنْ قَضَيْتَ لِي مِنْهَا وَلَدًا فَاجْعَلْهُ مُبَارَكًا سَوِيًّا وَلاَتَجْعَلْ لِلشَّيْطَانِ فِيْهِ شَرِيْكًا وَلاَنَصِيْبًا
Allaalhumma biamanatika akhattuhaa, wa bikalimaatika istahlaltu farjaha, fain qadhayta lii minhaa waladan faj'alhu mubarakan shawiyyaa, walaa taj'al lissyaithanani fihi syarikan wallaa nashib.
O God, I have made her my wife, and with Your words my honor be forgiven. If you decree for me to have offspring from him, make my descendants blessed and glory, and do not make Satan partake of him".
اَللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي اَلْفَهَا وَوُدَّهَا وَرِضَاهَا بِي، وَاَرْضِنِي بِهَا، وَاجْمَعْ بَيْنَنَا بِأَحْسَنِ اِجْتِمَاعٍ وَاَيْسَرِ ائْتِلاَفٍ فَإِنَّكَ تُحِبُّ الْحَلاَلَ وَتُكْرِهُ الْحَرَامَ
Allaummarzuqnii alfaha wa wuddaha wa ridhaa bii, wa ardhinii bihaa, wajma' baynanajjjtim'in wa aysari’ tilafin, fainnaka tuhibbul hala wa tukrihul haram.
O Allah, grant me the tenderness of my wife, her affection and sincerity, please welcome me with her. Bring us together in the best of households, full of love and happiness, for You love the lawful and hate the unclean".
اَللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي وَلَدًا وَاجْعَلْهُ تَقِيًّا ذَكِيًّا لَيْسَ فِي خَلْقِهِ زِيَادَةٌ وَلاَنُقْصَانُ وَاجْعَلْ عَاقِبَتَهُ اِلَى خَيْر
Allahummarzuqnii walladan, waj'alhu taqiyyan dzakiyyan laysa fii khalqihii ziyadatun nuqshan, waj'al 'qibatahu ila khairin."
"Alhamdulilah Barakallahu lakuma wa jama’a baina kuma fii khair. May happiness be given to you both, son, May God always lead you and your wife and children to the love of God. May be given a godly and godly child who can make both parents happy and lead to heaven.”
"thank you very much bah.thank you very much for patiently guiding the bagas to the path in ridhoi god"
"it feels just saying thank you will not be enough what you have given to the concept of science that is very meaningful in life bagas, thank you bah"lirih bagas kissed the hands of rich ahmad who followed Airin
bagas walked up to Rahma to greet her mother after greeting her parents and got congratulation from her in-laws with full day and happiness...
"Alhamdulillah o Allah.today you have taken my son's new life with the companion whom God has chosen for you."
" May Allah's grace and mercy always be with you, always be a good person, always be grateful and may the door of sustenance always open smoothly."
"mother's prayers are always with you both congratulations yes son may be a sadinah family, mawaddah and warahmah.” Rahma tears happily kissed Bagas and Airin's forehead alternately
"thank you mother the prayer of the parents is a prayer that we look forward to and very barokah.may the mother is always healthy always.we love the mother as well as the father"
bagas and Airin hugged Rahma together.after her Bagas and Airin lined up towards the willo,,,
"Goodbye to my son's new life. You are now a priest who has a great trust and responsibility for your wife and children. Keep the spirit to always make your family happy. May Allah always take care of you and give you blessings in your marriage"
"keep your daughter well, don't make her sad or let her tear,"
"keep every word you say, son, guard his heart always lest you say a word that makes him sick even if it is just a joke make him a queen and angel in your life "
"your mass life is a lesson when you make amends in the past through the nak Airin"
"the color of the other father's daughter has found her true happiness, getting the good-looking Imam full of attention and tenderness"
"father's prayers will also always accompany the three nymphs of the father's beautiful daughter"
wanto rubbed the head of Airin and Sanum who were beside him as well as Serly smiled to see the softness of Wanto to Airin and Sanum..
"thank you for the love you gave us, our prayers will also always accompany you and your mother in every prayer and our prostration" answer the sanum full of haru with the attention of the willo to his or her Airin and Serly
Bagas and Airin hugged the saint like to Rahma sungkem and said many words of thanks for all the affection he would give...
there is a sense of shame in the bagas when the bagas walk up to Sanum and Alex.although the past was long buried but the sense of regret and guilt Bagas always haunts his mind to sanum...
whereas sanum itself has long forgotten it never brought up in the slightest, the color for its future sanum is Alex is not his past...
what else is the life of sanum really has perfect priest as good as alex in the grace of beautiful and handsome twins...
not to mention the sanum in bestow many treasures into the wealth that he has .parents of the sultan.kak pwoman sultan's husband and his in-laws were sultans
sanum life is really perfect surrounded by people who love him full of sincerity without any end...
but all that does not make the sanum arrogant or haughty instead behind it makes the persona sanum become inferior..
"Barakallahu lakuma wa jama’a baina kuma fii khair. May the blessings of God be bestowed upon you, Dek Airin and gather you both in a happy good state. “
"May be a true partner to the afterlife, may be blessed with godly and godly descendants, may be a sakinah family, mawaddah and warahmah.”
"May Allah be poured out for you. May Allah gather you both in good. Blessings of God may be bestowed upon each of you both upon his spouse, and may Allah gather you both in kindness. “
"Hopefully this marriage can be and can bring the happiness of the family and the people around. May Allah SWT always bless and cherish you with the peace and happiness of the world and the hereafter.” sincerely said Sanum embrace Airin and congratulate you on the bagas
"Congratulations to your wedding. Straighten the intention in marriage, do not let you consider marriage just for fun. There's a lot of things you have to do after this. May your marriage always get the pleasure of Allah SWT and be facilitated in all matters"
"With this marriage, perfect your life. Color marriage with mutual respect, love, and help each other in obedience to each other. May Allah always bestow upon you the guidance, mercy, and blessings of life, as well as the lawful sustenance and the righteous and pious offspring.” alex patted the shoulder as well as feel happiness there is no hatred or revenge in alex...
"Welcome through my best friend's new life, finally the moment that you will arrive, the time when you are no longer alone, hopefully through this marriage your family becomes a sakinah family, mawaddah and warahmah.” connect tian join congratulate on following with wife tian bik holis and Serly...
Salaman event continues to the entire family present Be it big family Airin or Bagas....
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