SANUM The Unnourished Wife
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after the guests came all and were invited to sit down, Rendi asked his wife to call Airin to leave the room...
"doesn't know if it's ready" asked Jamin to Airin
"yes ma'am ready, her real mother is this application event or invitation to the marriage contract.,"
"look at all that brought the mas bagas family, we also did not ask what ya ma'am"
bangtung airin even though Jamilah was the same thing made tangent to it all...
"mother also does not know nak.ibu is also the same as you actually this is a proposal event or a commitment"
"later we will hear all the explanations from the nak dagas what the intention to come to the family nakgas besides the proposal and bring it all" replied guarantee
"Alhamdulilah be grateful that rin.it has become your reward only we hear all the explanations later" said Dr. Zaira who was influenced by Jamilah and Airin
Airin walked out of his room accompanied by doctors Zaira and Jamilah...
after all his gathering including Airin.kyai ahmad began to lead the opening prayer of the application event that will be started...
kyai ahmad also gave a few postulate law lectures on Khitbah(Inangan)
"Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh" salam kyai ahmad
"Waallaikumsalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh" they answered
Alhamdulillahi rabbil alamin wassholatuwassalamu ala asrafil anbiyai walmursalin wa alihi wa ashabii ajmain, p,,
Allahummasholli ala syaidina Muhammad wa ala alai ali syaidina Muhammad.
"First of all, let us offer praise and thanksgiving to the presence of Allah SWT.Thank you only to Allah SWT who has given so many favors to us all that we may meet, get together and be friendly on this happy day in good health wal’afiat."
Sholawat and greetings, we always flatter our great Prophet, Muhammad SAW, who with his struggle brought us from the days of jahiliyah to a world full of light. May we all be the chosen ones for intercession at the end."
"Khitbah (pinangan) is one of the processes carried out before marriage in Islam. The sermon does not signify impiety for men and women,"
" unless it becomes the opening door to receive the request of the future husband or wife. Therefore, those who have done the sermon procession are still not allowed alone."
" the sermon is the process of requesting consent from the male side to the female side to be made a wife."
" This procession is usually carried out in a way that applies in the society where we live today and does not violate religious law" explained kyai ahmad who is considered all
"The Khitbah in Islam is carried out on the basis of the word of Allah SWT in the following letter of Al Baqarah verse 235."
وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُم بِهِۦ مِنْ خِطْبَةِ ٱلنِّسَآءِ أَوْ أَكْنَنتُمْ فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ ۚ عَلِمَ ٱللَّهُ أَنَّكُمْ سَتَذْكُرُونَهُنَّ وَلَٰكِن لَّا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا إِلَّآ أَن تَقُولُوا۟ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوفًا ۚ وَلَا تَعْزِمُوا۟ عُقْدَةَ ٱلنِّكَاحِ حَتَّىٰ يَبْلُغَ ٱلْكِتَٰبُ أَجَلَهُۥ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ فَٱحْذَرُوهُ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَفُورٌ حَلِيمٌ
“And there is no sin for you to ask those women with insinuations or you to hide (the desire to marry them) in your heart. Allah knows that you will mention them, in that you shall not keep the marriage vows with them in secret, except to speak (to them) the words of the ma'ruf. And do not be determined (fixed heart) to pray marriage, before the middle is over. And know that Allah knows what is in your heart; then fear Him, and know that Allah is Forgiving, Most Merciful.”
"Before doing the sermon, a person is encouraged to read prayers in order to get a good partner according to the point of view of Allah SWT. Here is one of the prayer readings "
"Allahummaj’al haadzihil khitbah khitbatan mubaarokatan mushsiran daaimatan abadan zhoohiran wa baathinan awwalan wa aakhiron bi rohmatika ya arhamar roohimiin. Robbanaa taqobbal minnaa innaka antas samii’ul ‘aliim wa tub ‘alainaa innaka antat tawwaabur rohiim. Da’waahum fiihaa subhaanakalloohumma wa tahiyyatuhum fiihaa salaam wa aakhiru da’waahum anil hamdu lillaahi robbil ‘aalamiin."
“Yes Allah, make this waiting a fruitful, blessed, which brings good and lasting (lasting good) forever, born and inward, at the beginning and at the end, and at the end, by Your grace, O Lord most merciful among the merciful. O Allah, accept our prayer, You are All-Hearing, All-Knowing. Accept our repentance, You are Most Received, Most Merciful. Their prayer in heaven is sub-haanakalloohumma (Holy Thou, O our Lord), their salutation is peace (mercy from all disasters), and the conclusion of their prayer is alhamdu lillaahi robbil ‘alamiin (all praise be to Allah, Lord of the universe).”
" we must know that the tradition of ring exchange, in origin, is a legacy of Christians. They were the first to make this tradition. When doing the wedding, the man put the ring on the thumb of the woman's left hand, saying, “In the name of the father god,” is then moved to the index finger, while saying, “God son, ,” then moved to the middle finger, saying, “Ruh holy,” next moved to the ring finger, while saying, “Amin.” The story of this tradition is mentioned by Shaykh Al-Albani in Adab Az-Zifaf.
"In the meantime we as Muslims are forbidden to follow the customs and traditions of the infidels. Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Whosoever imitates the custom of one people then he is part of that people.” (CHR. Abu Daud, Baihaqi, and Ibn Abi Shaybah" clearly kyai ahmad returned
"it's just right to forbid me to prepare the engagement ring"batin Bagas still seriously hear every delivery of kyai ahmad and so many others
" This tradition will open the door of the maksiat, which is the number of men who wear rings of gold. In fact, the Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam expressly forbade this. Among the proofs that show this is:"
"Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam forbid (men) to wear gold rings."
"From Ibn Abbas, “Something when the Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam saw a gold ring on the finger of a friend. Then he took it off and threw it away, saying, ‘You deliberately took the embers of hell fire then you put them in your hands?’ After the Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam left, someone said to the wearer of the ring, ‘Take your ring and use it for something else.’ This friend says, ‘No! By Allah, I will not take it forever because the Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam has thrown it away.'”
". From Abdullah bin Amr, that the Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam had seen a friend wearing a gold ring, then he turned away from him (not to greet him). Then, this person took off his gold ring and replaced it with an iron ring. Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam advised, “This is uglier. This is the jewelry of the inhabitants of hell.” Then, he took it off, and replaced it with a silver ring, and the Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam silenced it,"
"The details described above apply if it is not believed that the exchange of rings can perpetuate conjugal relations.However, if it is believed that the exchange of rings can perpetuate conjugal relations, the exchange of rings can, so that each tried to maintain the ring, not to be lost, even if entering the well must be taken, although it can take lives, if this ring is lost can threaten the integrity of the relationship between the two, and so on, his condition grew worse and his sin was greater. By adding such a belief, one has taken a cause that was not originally a cause. There is not a single postulate to suggest that ring exchange could be the cause of household wholeness. This, nothing else, is just a myth spread in society."
"Allahu a’lam here from the family nak bagas has prepared 2 rings for the first wedding mas purely for nak Airin"
"the second is not made of mas, this ring can be used on the day of akad later not in use now for fastener"
"both are the same but different from one pure mas which one is not made of mas even though the carvings are the same" Kyai ahmad shows 2 wedding rings for Airin and bagas
from the side of the family Airin nodded with an explanation from kyai Ahmad...
in addition, Kyai ahmad explained all the gifts brought by the Bagas family...
among them besides the proposal as well as bringing a presentation to Airin, where after the application/session event was held that day...
two weeks later will be in the live wedding event more precisely his akad event...
sooner better that is the explanation of kyai ahmad so that later it does not lead to sin /adultery or other things that are not wanted even though the two of them do not do things outside the limits ..
"Adab After the Khitbah.,"kyai ahmad continued his advice to the two brides-to-be..
"After the sermon was held, men and women were not yet officially halal. Therefore, both need to pay attention to adab after the sermon in accordance with Islamic law in order to always be protected from the temptations of Satan. Here is the adab after the sermon is excerpted from the book SAH Already or Halalkan."
"Not both-duaan (spirited), unless accompanied by a mahram"
"Cannot touch the woman who has been worshiped, even if only shaking hands, therefore abah forbid exchanging rings before the event will be held later after the legal action" kyai ahmad stared at the bagas which was conceived
"Aisha once said, “For the sake of Allah, the hand of the Prophet never touched the hand of a woman (foreign), at all.”
"Avoiding satanic temptations, such as joking and overly intense communication"
“Not one of you two (khalwat) with women, actually the third demon.”
"and it needs to be remembered to play as the priest of the family later" asserted kyai ahmad again bagas just nodded
"it is important for newlyweds to know and understand things related to marriage for the realization of a harmonious household, sakinah mawaddah warahmah and desired by Allah SWT."
"There is no beautiful courage in a man, except the courage to ask a woman."
"Home with religion, science, and the nature of mutual trust as its pillars. Stay away from jealousy and mutual suspicion because it will be a termite for even a solid building."
"Marriage is a process of accepting the shortcomings of a partner you did not meet when ta'aruf with him."
"Marriage is a young man's best solution because with him it completes half the religion and the journey of life."
"There is no way to unite two people who are in love unless they are married."
"Truly marriage requires a long and long struggle, but it feels beautiful."
"The man who wastes his wife and children is the bad man of his life."
"A husband can be a door of heaven for his wife just as he can be a door of hell for his wife."
"There is no beautiful communication except communication and greeting each other between husband and wife."
"A woman can turn a household into heaven as she can turn it into an unimaginable hell."
"Marriage is half the journey of piety to Allah and part of the sunnah of the Prophet."
"The wife is your rib, she is not the woman you can tell. Treat her with tenderness, and she will be softer than you."
"There is no loveliest promise heard by women from the oral male, except the promise of a marriage contract."
"Marriage is the longest worship in the journey of one's life. Do not waste the husband or wife whom God has entrusted to you."
"Be kind to your wife and never get tired of advising her with tenderness because she is made of crooked ribs."
"Behold the wife's secret, she will keep all your secrets, and Airin will keep the husband's secret, and she will glorify you."
"Do you want to understand what you mean" Kyai ahmad stared back at the bagas
"insyaallah understand abah, insyaallah bagas will hang a message from abah" replied the bagas sunguh sunguh
"if you don't understand, then you're a fool if you still make a mistake twice"
"may your demonic nature really have disappeared and changed and no longer stupid"in tian
"Alhamdulilah from abah only so long ago and to the next line is Aryan Wassalamallaikum Wr. Wg."
"Waallaikumsalam Wr.Wb. well bah" replied Aryan son of kyai ahmad
"Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh" said Aryan greeting which they all answered..
"Thank God only to Allah SWT who has given so many favors to all of us that we can meet, gather and befriend each other on this happy day in good health wal’afiat."
"Good night Father/Mother and all the families we respect. Thank you for accepting our family so well."
"Let me convey the words representing Bagas's parents, Mr. Wanto and Rahma's mother, to officially convey the purpose and purpose of our arrival."
"On this night, we are present in the midst of the Father/Mother's family, nothing else in order to get to know each other more closely with each other."
"Next, we also want to convey the wishes of our sister, namely bagas,"
"Bagas has also known for a long time the daughter of Father/Mother named Airin"
"Short story, let me represent the first son of the father wono/mother rahma, conveying the sincere intention to propose and bring a gift for the daughter of the Father/Mother."
"That is the purpose and purpose of our arrival tonight"
"Hopefully Father and Mother would like to meridho’i good intentions, by accepting this proposal."
"This is all we can say to Father and Mother, who also explained everything,"
"while waiting for a welcome from Bpk/Mother whether our application is accepted or may be rejected,"
"not to forget we and our family apologize if in conveying this purpose and purpose there is a word that is less pleasing to the heart. Similarly, today's delivery that is perfunctory as a manifestation of the seriousness of Bagas' heart."Smiles Aryan
on the basis of all the delivery is actually not only the style of the rate but Aryan is not likely to mention the luxury delivery...
all that is just a stale form of the male family....
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