Not the First Love

Hijra (2)

Therefore, sisters should not once we fight the words of our parents.

Alright adalagi who want to ask?" Ask the ustazah.

"My brother!" One of the students.

"Sister please what would you like to ask?"

"Assalamualaikum wr.. Kak what if a Muslim woman who has grown up or menstruated she is a person who diligently worship, alms, fasting in the month of Ramadan along with teraweh but still dating?" Ask the students.

"Waalaikumsalam wr.. The Prophet said, "How many people fast, but all he gets from his fast is hunger and thirst.” (HR Ahmad 8856, Ibn Hibban 3481, Ibn Khuzaimah 1997 and its sanadnya Al-A’zami).

Ramadan is a glorious month.

However, the glory of Ramadan is not balanced with the attitude of Muslims to glorify it.

Many of them are desecrating the sanctity of Ramadan by committing various kinds of sins and deeds.

It is appropriate, if many people fast in the month of Ramadan, but the fast does not produce rewards.

One of the reasons is that they fast, but are still diligent in doing mischief.

The relationship is Zina

Dating is not separated from the zina of the eyes, zina hands, zina feet, and zina of the heart.

From Abu Hurairah, Rasul shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

“Every child of Adam was destined for adultery and this must have happened, inevitably. The zina of both eyes is by looking. Zina both ears by hearing. Oral zina is by speaking. The zina of the hand is by fingering (touching). Zina feet are by stepping. The zina of the heart is by desire and wishful thinking. Then it is the pubic that will later justify or deny such.” (HR Muslim number 6925)

One of the reasons is that they are diligent in fasting but still do worship, fasting without reward.

And we can understand that the month of Ramadan is a month full of blessing again noble while dating is an act that approaches adultery and certainly it is a disgraceful act.

So courtship in the fasting month of course cancels fasting, and even courtship can remove charity from the fasting that is being implemented.

Albaydhowi Rahimahumullah said,

"Where do all the sisters understand?" ask the ustazah.

"Sister!" Excite them all at once.

"Well since our time is up let's go home together but before we go home let's pray, pray at the beginning."

"Praying is over. Come on Brother please go home each one carefully" with a friendly smile.

All the students came home, while Sinta was still pensive in that class.

"Well your sister didn't come home?" Ask the ustazah.

"Emm my sister. I want na. nanya." Say stammering love.

"What do you want?" Ask the ustazah again while sitting in front of the sinta.

"So I feel the most sinful person in the world because everything you explained about the courtship earlier is just like my past is so dark brother and unfortunately I just realized now." Clearly Sinta while looking down.

The ustazah smiled, "Sister, remember that all of us in this world must never escape from sin if it is a small sin or a big sin, but Brother is proud of you because rarely, today there are students like you." Said the ustazah who did not escape from his smile.

Sinta looked up and tried to look into the eyes of the ustazah warm and comfortable, "But what did I do that can be forgiven by God?" Ask him plain.

The ustazah chuckled little, "Sir remember O Allah is all-forgiving in essence This sister in the future must worship more often and follow the orders of Allah SWT. and stay away from the prohibition and another one away from the name of dating a la kids today okay.." Said the ustazah again that made Sinta smile.

"Thank you Brother for his advice Sinta promised to be a better person."

"Well that dong smile hehe. and remember yes Dik, mate problem.. God will bring a good woman closer to a good man, too, Brother, do you understand what you mean?"

"Yes, Sinta, now I understand and it's all thanks to Brother, once again thank you, Brother."

"Ehehe is both sweet child well now you go home ya will be sought again." Patting Sinta's head slowly.

Sinta nodded then greeted the ustazah and immediately left the ustazah in the room with a happy smile.