Not my intention

1. Not my intention (BN)

"I beg well, I want to marry Adit" said Nisa Lirih. In a sad tone Nisa still asks her father to bless her marriage with Aditya who is her lover now.

"No Nisa! I won't let my only daughter marry a man who's ever married!" pekik Reuben Kusnadi is the father of Anisa Khairunisa.

"But yeah, he's divorced with his wife well," said Nisa, who still tries to convince her father.

As a parent, which father would have his son married a man who had been baristri. As a father, Ruben also wanted his son to be able to marry a single and well-established man.

However, Ruben wanted his son to live happily. That is why Reuben did not give his blessing to the relationship of Nisa and Aditya. Aditya Hendrawiguna is the son of a successful businessman.

Aditya himself once married and had a child from his marriage. They are already divorced, but the presence of a separated child will definitely give a problem.

As a father Reuben did not want if someday Nisa would be dragged into their problems.

Ruben did not want if later Adit's ex-wife would interfere with the survival of his son. Plus there was a child in their midst. We often hear of ex-wives, but no ex-children.

Until whenever the child will be the son of Adit who can not be separated from his responsibilities as a father. It was also at this consideration that Reuben disapproved of his son's marriage to Adit.

"Dad knows what they're getting divorced now, but I'm afraid your life will be like in the future" Ruben said, taking a rough breath.

Ruben himself felt confused about what else to say so that his son could understand. But Nisa still remains in her stance to stay married to Adit.

At the age of 20 years, Nisa can not use her thoughts carefully. He thought for a moment without being able to think about what the consequences would be like.

"Well, Nisa was sure that Nisa would not be wrong to choose because she loved and loved Nisa well. She is also older so Nisa is sure if she is able to guide Nisa well," added Nisa who felt so confident about her choice.

But as an experienced parent, Ruben was sure that one day their marriage would not run smoothly. Ruben was very sure if later after marriage there will be new problems.

Nisa still remained in her stance. Likewise with his father who still does not want to give blessing to them because Ruben wants Nisa to marry another man who he thinks is more appropriate.

Their discussions did not stop there either. Nisa, who still wants to continue their debate, finally has to give up because her father went to avoid Nisa.

"Had you been confused what else to say. Now I want to rest" cried Ruben as he rushed to his room.

While Nisa is still glued. He still doesn't think about his father. Nisa must find a way for her father to marry her to the man of her choice.

A few months after getting to know Adit, Nisa feels confident that he is a good man and deserves him. It was caused by the attention and affection he always showed to Nisa.

A mother is always full of love, care and also affection. But it is very different from a father who is so cool and cold. A father never shows his affection.

As a man, just providing for his son is more than enough. But for a child, they are in desperate need of attention and affection.

Although she still has a father, Nisa always thinks she has no one. That's because his father was always so clumsy. Moreover, the brother from the father who was so far away did not make Nisa like having a brother.

As brothers, we should visit each other and pay attention to each other. But Nisa never felt it all. In her life, Nisa always felt that she had no one.

"How can I give my blessing to us" murmured Nisa. In her room Nisa lay on the bed with her mind still floating.

His memory seemed unwilling to stop thinking about his feelings for Adit. He felt he had found a suitable person to be his companion despite his very young age.

Nisa thinks maybe by getting married she won't be a burden to her father anymore. For a while Nisa thought and before long she remembered her mother's brother who was in the village.

"Am I trying to ask aunts and grandmothers a favor?" he said in his heart.

In her daydream, Nisa suddenly remembered her aunt and grandmother. Maybe by talking to them, Nisa will get a way out of her problem.

Fatimah's grandmother was the mother of her late mother. Fatimah lives with her son Bi Asih in the village. Bi Asih has always taken care of her mother there.

A few days later, Nisa tries to go to her grandmother and aunt in the village. He immediately explained the problems that had happened to them. After hearing the story from Nisa, Fatimah felt that her father was wrong.

"His daughter wants to get married is even forbidden," said Fatimah's grandmother who also felt upset when she learned the story from Nisa.

"If the grandmother is about the status of yes ga papa, the most important thing is that she is love and affection for you Nis," added Fatimah's grandmother.

"Yes nek, thank God that Adit love and love Nisa. So Nisa feels sure if this choice of Nisa is not wrong," said Nisa.

"If aunt's opinion is the same, the most important thing is that she loves us. The matter of a soul mate is in the hands of God, now you better pray a lot. Istikhoroh prayer to be given the right answer," said Bi Asih.

After talking with her grandmother and aunt, Nisa felt relieved. Finally he got support and input on his issues. Hopefully after performing the prayer Istikhoroh Nisa will get the right answer so that he does not choose the wrong.

"Thank you a lot, bi. Nisa became calmer after talking to the two of you," Nisa said.

"Then Nisa said she had to go home first, grandma," said Nisa who had to hurry home because tomorrow she had to work.