Neighbor Oh Neighbor

asking my sister to get married

Life is not about ourselves. There are parents and families to think about. Not only how to give them money and also eat, but also keep the feeling. If in my case, it is still related to my breakup from Satria and the marriage of Satria.

Everyone knew I was dating one long time ago. Ever since we were both sitting on our high school bench we were dating. Satria has been playing in my house and met my family. Not only to meet with me if Satria plays at home. Sometimes he plays with this Maryam kid too. Not even rarely Satria help bpk in the garden.

I also used to play at Satria's house. Make help his mother make cakes and also play with Satria's sister. We know each other inside out. Many are also waiting for us to join in the village and also build a household. Of course it is accompanied by prayer and also a sneer.

A few years ago, we broke up. We bicker? Naw. So far there has never been a fight that was noisy or how. Our fights are normal and we can always solve our problems in calmness. Is there a third person in our relationship? I don't think so, because we trust each other. Well that's not a guarantee, either, but I don't think there's a third person in our relationship.

Why did we finally break up after 4 years of dating?

The answer is because Satria wants our relationship to be formalized soon. He was embarrassed, took me here and there but no hunting was stopped. So because I couldn't give her the same certainty, she finally asked to break up. We broke up well, there was no drama or anything.

When viewed from my glasses, I myself also feel bad about Satria and her family. They asked me if I was serious about Satria. I sincerely want to be serious and marry Satria. But back again, I still have Sinta and Santi's dependents until graduation. We've discussed this before, if I want my sisters to go to college. Only when they go to college will I think about myself. But yes that is.

And now, after two years, I feel normal. Usually in the sense that there is no trauma or heartache. I enjoy everything well. I work, I learn new things now that take up my time. If I have free time, I will use it for quality time with family, or study. My focus is different now than it used to be.

"Mom think, sis." said Sinta.

Yeah how is it? I know that you think about people's words. But yes, people are ordinary. There is also no soul mate. Want to marry equally?

"Tell me Mom, if I'm all right. I didn't die just because I wasn't married." I replied.

Ah, if you talk about neighbors really. Sometimes I don't want to have neighbors. But, if we are in trouble, the neighbor is the first person who will help us. Plus blasphemy we of course. on the one hand Sinta and Santi always persuaded me to get married. but I have not found a suitable man.in the past if anyone asked about married mother like now. but at the end of this mother is like irritable if anyone asks when I got married.

maybe it's because I'm 25 and this year I'm going to be 26.

3 Days passed, Apparently the youngest had to return to the city.