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84 Sundanese procession before the wedding

after the semester exam has been completed, the lecture was released, and,

now is the time where tiwi and aditya will be busy with performing the traditional sunda ritual procession that begins with

Keep promises

The first sundanese wedding procession is called keeping a promise or greeting.

This procession is done to ensure the bride has not received a proposal from others.

Both parents from the male side will approach the two parents from the female side to ask some things about the marriage that will be carried out, which will be carried out,

after completing the procession of saving the appointment,

next is procession

Proposal

the application was formally repeated and witnessed by family and relatives to both parties, as a sign of attachment, as a sign of,

To prove the storage of speech, the application procession was carried out. In this sunda custom procession, the family of the groom-to-be hand over the complete betel along with the wedding money as a support that the groom participates in the financing, as well as other needs for the bride

in addition, the groom-to-be also gives a ring as a binding sign

after you have finished your application, the next one is

Call-up

Before heading to the wedding, the groom will bring a variety of items in the form of the needs of the bride and groom. The purpose of giving the invitation is the man who gives initial supplies to the bride-to-be before undergoing the household ark.

after all the procession is done, now aditya and tiwi have been separated for a moment until the day where their wedding is held can be said pingit bride, pingit bride,

suffering inwardly on the verge of longing is what they feel right now because they did not meet quite long enough, he said,

yes that's the rule in their family the bride will be pingit in forbidden to meet with her partner,

as long as they do not meet they will carry out the next procession

Flush procession network,

Towards the wedding day, the flush procession was carried out. This procession aims to purify the bride-to-be by birth and mind. Usually the event takes place during the day at the residence of the bride-to-be.

The procession of the flush will usually be initiated by the study, it aims to cleanse yourself in a born and inner way.

Review

The study in a sunda customary wedding is usually done separately by the groom and bride. Where the groom conducts a recitation for the male relatives, and the bride for the female relatives.

but it can be done together the most important good intentions for the bride and groom,

but this time the tiwi and aditya did the study separately in their respective homes, they also invited family, friends, and neighbors, they said,

gathered for the purpose of praying for both brides and as a form of our gratitude, but this teaching is not mandatory to be carried out but this is good for the future of the bride to be blessed with happiness,

after a few days of study,

tiwi is quite tired what else tiwi is already so kangen on aditya it feels like to meet namum should tiwi resistant, tiwi resistant,

likewise with aditya who can not wait to meet tiwi

but there are still a few more days for them to meet,

they vent their longing only through video calls when they have free time,

but still can not treat their longing, but they must be patient until that time comes,

today the routine of study is over, too,

they all went back to their rooms to rest,

tiwi who was already in the room immediately laid her body,

tiwi who had just laid down her body immediately grabbed her phone and called aditya

aditya's phone is ringing,

aditya who was laying down on the sofa in his room, heard his phone ringing and immediately grabbed his phone,

when looking at the screen of the phone, "wife "aditya instantly develops a smile and picks up her phone

hello dear aditya

what a shame, tired said Tiwi

in the bed room just finished studying and accompanying guests said Aditya

you just finished your studies said Aditya

yes, I also miss you dear Aditya said

we met for a long time said Tiwi

be patient, dear Aditya said

yes, said tiwi

yes, now you clean up and rest, not tomorrow you still have to do some activities said Aditya

yes, but still miss said spoiled tiwi

I know, but I can still call again later Aditya said

yes, said tiwi

dear, said aditya

yes, if so, baby bay said tiwi

bay said aditya

they hung up the phone too

aditya rested again and the tiwi cleansed his body and rested

the next day, the,

tiwi is back in the wedding procession,

all family members are ready for the next procession,

today tiwi will be doing the procession

Aisan ngecagkeun

The bride-to-be seems to be carried by both parents using a sling side cloth. After that, the father of the bride-to-be will walk in front with a candle to the place of sungkeman, this stage has the meaning that the services of parents are limitless. Next, after arriving at the sungkeman area, the cloth used to hold the bride-to-be will be removed, it is a symbol of the release of parental responsibility and gives a sense of responsibility to the prospective groom.

after completing the procession ngecagkeun aisan, then do the procession, then,

The meuleum palica

Meuleum palica or grilled palica is a procession that is done by burning 7 candles depicting a lamp or lighting. The meaning of the number of candles is the pillar of faith in Islam and the number of days in one

after completing the procession of the palica meuleum, then do the procession,

Grubber

In Sundanese wedding customs, this procession is usually the most moving, where the bride and groom will ask permission to both their parents to wash and wash their feet. This Sundanese traditional wedding procession as an expression of respect from children to parents with the aim of getting blessings after the household later

after completing the procession, the next is to do, the,

Flush

in the Sunda Siraman custom is done separately

Both the groom and the bride, will perform the flush in a 'drenched' way by parents or older relatives who have successfully arranged their married life.

the meaning of the flush is done so that tiwi and aditya remember, how they used to be bathed by their parents, and how they used to be,

This water flush not only contains water, but also consists of a mixture of seven kinds of flowers (seven flowers).

The seven forms of flower in question, namely white and red rose petals, cempaka, white cempaka or cantile, ylang, jasmine, good night and jasmine gambir or ordinary jasmine

after doing the flush procession, then next do the procession

Whittling

The procession of cutting a little hair of the bride is done by both parents. It aims to beautify the born and inner self.

after doing the ngerik procession, then the next is to do the procession

Ngeunyeuk Whole

Ritual Ngeunyeuk Seureuh has the meaning of concocting betel. The bride-to-be will ask for the blessing of both their parents and the parents will also give advice on household life through various objects that are used as symbols.

finally the sunda custom marriage procession has finished tiwi do as long as he is in pingit,

just wait for their wedding day to arrive,

tiwi was already impatiently waiting for that day, as well as the aditya who was already impatiently waiting for their important day,

but they are in a sense of awkward and nervous because they have not met for a long time even though they always chat but still there are other feelings that they feel, but still there is another feeling that they feel,

tiwi and Aditya to relieve their awkwardness and nervousness choose to sleep