
The assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarokatu
Lubuklinggau, March 18, 2022
21.43 wib
Note \= Later the review process is often slow and complicated, update today sometimes tomorrow night just passed the review of NT, somehow not like usual ๐คง. therefore, the author is a bit difficult to get crazy up.
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Responding to the rife of novel infidelity, broken household, baby sitter story, marriage ruined because of the third person, actor, and, the absence of happiness in marriage and the lack of romantic treatment of the husband to his wife.
Not to mention sometimes the average across the novels on all author pages from the lowest and highest levels if they meet the best male actors they will comment "Is there a man like A or B on this earth?"
Or even the grievance of the husband who said my wife was so, look, don't understand me, don't understand my intentions.
Not to mention married couples who continue to demand each other about the perfection of their partners but they forget to look and learn introspection of each other in their marriage.
InshaAllah author will release a novel with the title.
This novel is based on several true stories that will be mixed into one of several couples to be made a living learning how when we are at the lowest and hardest point to see our partner.
How we deal with situations and how we learn from them about marriage is not just me loving you or you loving me.
But we can create a household that is not just fine if we know the knowledge. More harmonious, happier.
And before this story the author created, author continues to survey for the past +-2 years to see how the lives of various married couples in various generations around the author are also out there.
This story is not just a story, there will be a lot of learning that can be obtained from here later to be used as an afterthought for those whose households are at the most difficult point.
Indeed Yes, because a marriage involves a noble unity in the household. It is not just the union of two hearts, two individuals, but the purpose of marriage that must be understood by all.ย Marriage is not a trivial thing, because in a marriage there are benefits of marriage and the purpose of marriage itself.
And believe me for women WAGE and APPRECIATION are two of the most complicated problems that are often debated in a marriage relationship.
And DEMANDing that couples should be versatile is the most thorny issue on the part of men, as if they had forgotten that they were priests in the household, they were supposed to be poles inside the house but they sometimes demanded the wife to be able to stand on her own with their own two feet.
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A woman walks quickly out of a company xxxxxxxx, she darted quickly towards the parking lot without saying much.
"Back Neng?"
Security is usually in charge of asking kindly to the 29-year-old woman.
"Yes sir"
The woman replied while forcing her smile.
A smile full of anxiety was clearly visible from behind his face.
He got into his car quickly, then without thinking twice immediately took his car away from the company.
"How's bik?"
He let out his voice after connecting his call to someone across the street, using his bluetooth headset he stared anxiously at the street.
"I arrive in 20 minutes, don't tell Mama Papa, I don't want them to worry about Ila"
Say it again.
After saying as soon as the woman instantly turned off her call, she kept her car darting towards the hospital xxxxxxx
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"Let's just get divorced"
The woman spoke while looking at the face of the man in front of her.
Whether this was the right moment or not he did not understand, but this was the day that the limit of his patience had disappeared.
6 Years is not a short time he accompanies the man, the dream marriage that he considers will change his life and make him a good and right wife has run aground from the beginning.
He saw no hope in their marriage.
The man she spoke to turned to her, staring at her face for some time.
"Why?"
"I just feel unhappy"
In a line of words he feels enough to refer to all the problems that continue to hit their household life.
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The woman looked at the man in front of her with teary eyes.
As if mocking him asking.
"You never ask your heart what you're looking for for money for?"
Ask her while trying to smile when her heart feels so bitter.
"Of course for you, for Ila"
Said the man quickly.
"really?"
Ask her to the man she almost forgot it was her husband.
"For me? for Ila?then why don't I feel it? the money you're looking for even just goes in how much into my wallet each month? never count how much we need each month? funny once I hear Han"
Say it later.
"Go home in the morning, the big salary is for the child and wife, as if sure all the needs have been met, if enough for what I work Han? what's for?"
"Your reasons are too funny, for us, buy a car and a luxury house, no quality time and lose togetherness, me and you look for each other to buy rupiah, he said, letting children live with people who are not their mothers, then what kind of marriage do we have?"
The crying of the woman broke.
"I'm tired Han, I'm tired, this marriage doesn't make me happy"
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On one side of her
The woman momentarily sighed softly as she heard her husband say.
"Can't it not be wasteful? I'm tired of looking for money but you can never manage your finances well"
She clutched tightly onto the money given by her husband since earlier.
Wasteful? can't manage money? wife is not becus?
The words were always thrown at the husband just like that, the man did not know how he managed all the finances in their home.
If not really and clever, what money can do.
The wife is a force capable of doing anything and arranging anything for her child and husband, but if what is done is not appreciated that there is as if tucked away a sense of disappointment behind a smile and the word is okay.
Sometimes tucked away in her heart desire to get divorced, but the kids obviously became heavy consideration for her to say "It's all fine"
But until when?.
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"I was tired and tired of our household, when I was looking for money, my wife couldn't understand my feelings at all"
The man spoke while closing his eyeballs, letting the woman beside him continue to listen to complaints about him.
"What is the difficulty of making the house comfortable? make me feel more at home than on the outside?"
The woman beside him was still silent, trying to hear one by one the sigh of the man who was sleeping on the chair Relax beside him.
"Are you sure you have reciprocal communication? or even remember the question of changing yourself before demanding that your partner be in accordance with what we want?"
Ask the girl suddenly.
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2 Years of marriage makes him prefer a lot of silence than talk, complaining to family or others clearly makes him afraid to be the subject of ridicule.
Her mistake in the past, her parents had already warned her that even that person looked bad for her.
But can love defeat everything?!
Even out of love, the words of parents are only considered wind and useless.
Then why do regrets always come later?!.