
The child is a gift and trust from God that must be accounted for by every parent in caring for, nurturing and educating his children. Parents should be grateful for the infinite blessings, because it is believed to raise their children. To be grateful, it is mandatory to maintain its growth and development with compassion and patience. With the hope that children can enjoy the journey of their lives as sholeh or sholehah children and achieve independence, which eventually becomes the pride of parents, religion, nation and mankind.
Parents are entrusted by God with the presence of children, not only for the life of the world, but also for the life of the hereafter. Remember that not all parents are given children, except those they trust. Once the wife is pregnant, at that time the wife and husband, as prospective parents must prepare themselves to keep from the womb until birth continues until the child is ready to build his own family. Even afdhalal if already married is very possible still be able to escort the continuation of his life, so that his son remains awake in a good life, spared from the threat of hell. As Allah reminds us, in QS. At-Tahrim:6, which means βHi believers, keep yourselves and your family from the fires of hell β¦β In this context we deserve respect for parents who from the beginning have a commitment and concern for the cultivation of religion to their children from an early age.
In addition to taking care of children by educating them as well as possible, in order to live happily in the afterlife, we are also responsible for equipping children with adequate life skills so that children become capable children, competent and strong. Not vice versa, letting the child, so that it becomes the opposite, incompetent, incompetent, and weak. Such conditions receive a stern warning from Allah
QS. an-Nisa`: 9, which means βAnd let us fear God those who would have left behind them weak children, whom they fear for their (well-being). Therefore they shall fear Allah, and they shall speak the truth That way we parents, must educate children with the best, with attention to their talents and interests, so that they can develop optimally (source from google).
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"Bani according to Umi you better move to the lower room, because if Syifa has to circle back up the stairs it is not good for the health of your prospective children" explained Umi.
"If it's the best, Syifa and Bani are not papa, tomorrow we will move to the lower floor" said Bani.
"Oh yeah bang, our groceries are still in the car !"Syifa just remembered it.
"Let's ask Fariz to help takein" replied Bani relaxed, he did not want his wife too much motion.
Fariz was the one who got the direct order without protest.
"Syifa wants to contact Abi and Ummah" she exclaimed Syifa and stood up to go to her room because her phone was in the room.
"Let Abang contact Abi and Ummah, you sit here alone" Bani said to his wife.
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In the morning Syifa had awakened to perform dawn prayers, but when entering the bathroom Syifa even spewed out his entrails it made Bani wake up and immediately approached the wife.
"Why are you ?"
"I'm just nauseous, maybe it's normal for pregnant women" Syifa replied.
"Hmm, Brother new inget, means yesterday you were nauseous and vomiting that you were pregnant not because of colds" said Bani.
"Yes maybe" replied Syifa limp.
Bani brought his wife back to bed, when the Adhan roared Syifa immediately took ablution water and performed the dawn prayer itself. Because Bani performed the morning prayer in the pesantren because there is a teaching schedule after dawn prayer.
After the morning prayers Syifa again laid his body that felt weak and also his head felt dizzy, until Syifa again fell asleep.
The study ended at six o'clock in the morning, Bani returned to his house, usually there was his wife who greeted him with a cup of coffee, Bani, but for today there is no welcome even the figure of his wife was not seen in the kitchen.
"Where is syifa ?" ask Bani to Umi.
"From this morning Syifa has not come down, Umi thought Syifa is in the room with you" replied Umi.
Bani immediately ran up his stepson he was really - really worried about the condition of his wife.when opening the door of the room looks his wife is sleeping soundly on the bed.
"Honey" said Bani woke up his wife.
Syifa slowly opened her eyes, her hands continuing to hold her head which was still in pain.
"I'm sorry that Syifa's dawn was up to bed, Syifa's coconut was sick" Syifa said.
"Sir papa, you just take a break, today my brother did not go to the office because Abi, Ummah, Abian and sister Shela want to come here. and all you want to be a few in the lower room" said Bani.
"Shifa should not be Abang" Syifa said.
"Sir papa, we do it together" said Bani.
after breakfast, Bani gets a call from Tama, that Malik is allowed to be taken, Bani did not waste the opportunity, Tama will pick up Bani later at ten. it makes Bani immediately clean up the lower room so that it can be occupied directly.
Syifa is already in the lower room, because she is bored, Syifa is now sitting in the television room with Bani and Umi.
"Later Bani titip Syifa, Bani no business with Tama briefly, if Abi and Ummah have reached contact Bani yes" Bani told Umi.
"Where are you going ?" ask Umi curious.
"There are things that Bani must finish" Bani replied, he did not want his family to worry if he knew he would meet with Malik.
As promised, Tama came to pick up Bani at exactly ten, before leaving Bani advised his wife not to do so much activity. Tama and Bani set out to meet Malik.
"Malik has been transferred to the BNN office, all the files are complete, they will be in court next week" explained Tama.
"Kira - guess how long the punishment they will get ?" ask Bani.
"if according to the article about drugs he as a user and also a dealer, it could be a death sentence or life imprisonment" explained Bani.
"Can anyone ease their punishment ?" ask Bani again.
"Let's see the outcome of the trial" Tama replied.
Arriving at Bnn's office, Bani and Tama directly in between the special room visit.
"Why did you come here, to laugh at my life" Malik said emotionally because it turns out that the people who visited him were friends when they were in college.
"Malik I came here because I was concerned about what happened to you, I did not expect you to do something like this" said Bani remained calm.
"I don't need any mercy from anyone, this is my life, so I am free to determine my own way of life" Malik explained with a haughty look.
"It should be before you do something you have to think about the risk first" said Bani.
"I don't need a lecture from you" Malik said.
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Kira - think Malik will apologize and realize his mistake is not yahh ??
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