Meet a Mate in Pesantren

Chapter 101

When Syifa, Bani, Salwa and Robby were chatting, Aunt Erni came to them.

"Syifa survived her pregnancy yes" said Mamah Erni but her eyes glanced at Salwa and suppressed the intonation in the word pregnant.

Is Syifa pregnant ? ko I don't know yes. surely mamah will ask me to get pregnant soon too. Salwa murmured in his heart.

"Thank you aunt" Syifa said with a smile.

"You are great, unlike those who are beside you" said Mamah Erni.

"You don't talk like that, you should be able to keep the feelings of Salwa" said Robby who was furious with the behavior of his parents who always humbled the wife because they never gave birth to children

"Defend me" said Mamah Erni and left the four of them.

Syifa and Bani can only stroke their chests, said Aunty Erni like a bullet that penetrates directly into the heart. If Syifa had not been pregnant, she would have felt how hurt when asked about heredity.

Bani and Robby are called Abi Umar to join together, with Salwa and Syifa still silent in their respective places.

"Ustazah let's join sister Shela" Syifa asked Salwa.

"Don't call me that again" Salwa protested.

"Sorry, I call Salwa's sister okay ?" ask Syifa.

"Byeah" said Salwa happily.

Salwa and Syifa approached Sister Shela who was sitting alone in the garden behind her house.

They sat three while watching the flowers growing in bloom.

"Sister Shela when was his birth prediction ?" salwa asked, bracing herself to ask.

"If the doctor is two weeks away" Shela replied enthusiastically.

"I can't wait to see my first niece" Syifa said happily.

"Sister is also the same, can't wait for your child" said Shela. Salwa fell silent again, her head lowered, desperate and envious of the two women nearby, because they were at ease in getting offspring, very different from her.

"Don't be sad, forgive if there are words we say that offend you" said Shela who became unwell to see the sadness on Salwa's face.

"I'm good - fine, I just feel jealous, why until now I have not been given offspring, even though I have many times checks and consultations, and the doctor said we were both fine" Salwa said.

"It seems you are too much of a burden on the mind, it could be a factor you become difficult to get pregnant" said Shela who felt rarely see a cheerful face on Salwa's face.

"What stress can bring bad factors to pregnant women ?" ask Syifa.

"If we cannot control our emotions then it could be bad for the baby, and the more patal can cause miscarriage, she said, why when pregnant we can easily be provoked by emotions and stress, because when pregnant the hormones in our bodies will increase" explained Shela.

"Well for couples who are struggling to get a line two also should not experience stress, because it can affect the process of pregnancy, stress can actually interfere with the fertility level of women. High stress levels can disrupt ovulation. Because when stressed, the body will send signals to the hypothalamus, which is the part of the brain that is responsible for controlling ovulation" explained Shela.

"A study found that ‘maintaining’ stress can lower a pregnant woman's chances by 30 percent. And one thing that looks ordinary, but in fact can be stressful is trying too hard to be able to get pregnant.To get pregnant immediately, may decide to do a series of activities and consume drinks or pregnancy support drugs, such as, sometimes without realizing it is too excessive. Finally, the effort even makes more hopeful and ends with a sense of disappointment and stress" explained Shela.

Syifa took it well, Syifa was happy to share the story with her sister-in-law so that she could get new knowledge, as well as Salwa who listened to every word that came out of Shela's mouth. he is now aware that indirectly bring Salwa is in a state of stress or stress.

Why Salwa did not go pregnant, but the doctor said it was fine, the main factor was because Salwa was stressed and was also under pressure. at the beginning of marriage Salwa felt stressed because he married not with the person he loved, until slowly the love grew in Salwa's heart, but when the love was already growing, it was not until the love was growing,Salwa again came under pressure from the in-laws who demanded her to get pregnant immediately, even her in-laws would come to their apartment just to deliver a potion that could nourish the womb, but it has not been able to make Salwa pregnant and lead to disappointment.

"Not many thoughts are brought happy" said Shela who saw Salwa was daydreaming.

"Thank you for all the advice, I will try to enjoy more, and will not think about things that are less important" said Salwa.

"I believe Salwa's brother is a great and strong man" Syifa said, wiping Salwa's back. Salwa replied with a smile.

From a distance Robby notices his wife chatting with his brother, Robby is happy to see the familiarity between them, but on the other hand Robby worried about the condition of Salwa who was afraid of feeling inferior because his two brothers were pregnant, but it was disputed when he saw Salwa seen laughing in between their chatter.

"I'm sorry, permission to go to the toilet" Salwa said and passed to the toilet in the television room, Salwa could hear clearly if her in-laws and other siblings were talking about grandchildren.

All brothers who are the same age as Mamah Erni almost all already have grandchildren, only stay mamah Erni who has not, it makes mamah Erni who always urges Salwa to get pregnant immediately.

Aib mantu has not been pregnant continuously anywhere - where, indirectly he is opening his own disgrace.

Bener what shela said, I was too stressed and a lot of thoughts because of this problem.Salwa murmured while tidying up his hood in front of the mirror.

After that Salwa returned to the park, where Syifa and Shela were located, according to him joining Syifa and Shela more makes it feel calm than having to always be near her in-laws makes her more in the pressure.

They talked again about pregnancy, making Salwa so enthusiastic to listen to every explanation Shela. I should have read - read about the article about the preparation to pregnancy. Salwa murmured in his heart.

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"You've been married for months but you're not pregnant ?" ask Aunt Lusi who is known by her mouth in the family Syifa and Robby. for other families they are not willing to mengubris every talk that comes out of the mouth of aunt Lusi, unlike the case with Salwa who just knew him according to him it is enough to make Salwa feel insulted "Don't - don't you barren ya" guess aunty Lusi who makes Salwa unable to contain his emotions, the words made Salwa who initially felt challenged to silence every mouth who asked when she was pregnant, why not pregnant - pregnant.

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