Masalalu Story
chapter 9
words for you when you are in a relationship with a new one or a new partner ?
boyfriend always bring up your past that has been in love with his friend. He does tend to often bring up things that have happened, mostly, the hell, which is not good, not only to you, but also others. Can that nature change?
everyone has a past, but we need to realize that we cannot change anything we have experienced. Your past is part of your personal life, and this is your business, not the affair of the lover. The relationship you build now is both your business and this is what needs your attention, not your past. If you want to nurture and enjoy a loving relationship with you now, it must come out of the past, and you no longer let your lover bring up your personal problems in the past.
A person who has a good sense of self-confidence will usually not be disturbed by his lover's past and choose to build a loving relationship as well as possible. If your lover is a less confident person, he will continue to compare himself with those around him, especially your ex-lover. Maybe the lover feels himself stronger by bringing up your shortcomings, without realizing that this actually has a bad impact on himself or his loving relationship. Now it's up to you, do you feel like this kind of relationship is worth maintaining.
no one can guarantee that someone else will change or settle down. The individual himself is willing to change or defend his actions. The other person can only give advice and direct, if he wants to change.
The habit of remembering past events is natural to man. The habit of bringing up past events is a result of learning. He learned to remember the life events of others in the past with the aim of ridiculing others. He does it to show the weakness of others, and wants to show his superiority over others.
Before you two officially get into a relationship, she's got a grim past. Maybe because you're drunk with love, you say it doesn't matter with the past. But that happens when the relationship is still sweet. “But now, he's a great hobby discussing my past. I am tired of having to explain it over and over again. His curiosity was never satisfied. Couples often say, why I got involved in the problem, how does he know it will not happen again when we are in a serious relationship with a partner who is currently in a relationship remain honest and always support each other so as not to it will be repeated and then it comes back that causes our future to be destroyed when we bite or bite into the complicated past and can not be guessed itu stay focused on your future so that you can happy and unshadowed by the shadow of that gloomy past 😊😇😇
