Married to a Rich Doctor

Season 2 #First Approach

•withdrawing from social and family environments

Feeling sad, empty, or hopeless most of the day and almost every day.

Loss of spirit, motivation, energy, and stamina as if there was no hope anymore

It's hard to make a decision

Eat less or more than usual

Weight loss or drastic weight gain

Sleeping longer or less than usual

Unable/losing interest in moving

Difficulty concentrating and thinking clearly

Difficult to remember

Feeling guilty, failing, and alone

Persistent negative thinking (feeling inferior and worthless).

Easily disappointed, angry, and offended

Excessive anxiety.

Difficult to carry out daily activities

Loss of interest in things that are usually enjoyed

Suicidal thoughts and/or attempted suicide

Arya: "they are all symptoms of depression due to heartbreak as shown in this book."

Dito: "It means it's clear this is the disease. Now how to cure it?"

Cika: "Wait a minute, continue reading.. "

Arya: "this condition can last continuously for six months or more."

Bella: "a week has passed, meaning the chances of her recovery are still great. because we know the disease faster right?"

Dito: "Yes we must act immediately."

Arya: "The depression of a broken heart can be prevented. It is okay to take time alone after being left behind by a loved one. Hiding emotions can actually have a negative impact on physical health, as well as mental."

Arya: "Slowly make him accept the reality, this will make it easier through the ordeal, rather than trying to resist or reject it outright."

Bella: "True too, so far the doctor has refused all drugs and food given by the nurses."

Cika: "Not that.he means until now the doctor kemal still do not accept the fact that his wife is married again."

Dito: "Yes I agree with Cika."

Aryan:

"denial

The process of depression begins the process of denial (denial). Questions like “Why is this so, why isn't it? It should be like this, it shouldn't be. Dst.” is an example of a form of denial. If this process is not immediately realized, people with depression will arrive at the next process.

Anger

Dissolved denial can drag people with depression to an unstoppable condition, namely anger. If it continues to be swept away in denial and anger, it will protest against “si depression”, even against itself. This condition often corner sufferers of depression in the condition alone ‘n lonely (alone and lonely), he feels the most suffering in the world.

Deals

Deals. This is the next child process if the depressed person is unable to understand and overcome his depression. If the depressed individual feels “why did this happen to me? (why not in other individuals)”, a sign that he is already in the process of pre-process occurrence of depression.

the occurrence of depression, the ability to cope with the process of depression is not determined by the small size or mild weight of depression, because this is subjective. Weight for the individual, not necessarily weight for the other. And it turns out that the key is self-perception. Individuals who have good self-perception (positive), more easily separated from the trap of the process of depression. Conversely, individuals with bad (negative) self-perception, prefer to roll in depression.

Admissions

This is the process of release aka the process of bulking depression. When the individual is aware of his depression, and then takes the initiative to take a solution, usually he has arrived at the acceptance process. An individual's understanding of depression becomes a stopper to his depression.

Understanding fosters sincerity, different from resignation, which seems fatalistic (surrender and do nothing else). Sincerity makes room for people with depression to understand their depression and dare to take steps. Indeed, the process of Acceptance is not the 5th child process that must be achieved after the individual with depression through the first 4 children of the previous process.

Because, anyone with depression can immediately arrive at this process, so he does not need to arrive at the process of the process of depression. Thus, it could be that once depression arises, the individual immediately self-conscious to be in the position of Acceptance, so there is no need for Denial or Anger or Bargaining."

Cika: "Alright I understand, at this time the doctor is still in the early stages of denial.I think a week is a long time for the doctor to grieve. Now it's time for work!"

Dito: "Yep! I'm impatient .. What should we do?"

Bella: "Well, what are we going to do?"

Cika: "Stories. Make him want to tell stories with you, so one by one you must also build closeness with patients so that he wants to tell stories. essentially do not make him feel more lonely and alone."

Arya: "i understand."

Dito: "all right I'll try."

Bella: "but I'm confused what topic will I cover later?"

Cika: "Avoid talking about marriage or household. Try to arouse his passion in this job or experience while being a doctor, for you like his big fans who see him as the perfect figure as a model doctor.can you?"

Bella, Arya, Dito: "Yes!"

Cika: "For our value!"

Bella, Arya, Dito: "For our value!"

Arya: "Tunggi first, you still really want to eat beef steak for a month full of doctors cika?"

Dito: "Hahaha how could it have been yesterday just kidding, right doc?"

Cika: "Have I ever joked?”

Arya and Dito bowed in embarrassment and bella laughed amusedly at the behavior of the two colleagues.

Cika: "Today it's your turn to take care of the night.me and bella will start tomorrow morning."

Arya & Dito: "Ready dock."

Cika: "If your approach works, it will be faster for the patient to adapt to a new person, I mean with me and bella tomorrow. All right, I'll go home first. "

Arya, Dito & Bella: "Be careful on the docks.."

Cika just waved her hand.

Arya: "Why are you still here?"

Bella: "Why? can't I wait for an invitation here?"

Dito: "What are you referring to?"

Bella: "Oh my goodness, take care of your business! why are you two playing for my personal life."

Arya: "i'm back first, I have something to do. Dit, you should come too."

Dito: "when I want to accompany bella.."

Bella: "its ok, you go there. I'm accompanied by the handsome bartender. "

Dito: "Aiih stop your bad habits.."

Bella: "hahaha.it's gone.."