LOVE YOU BECAUSE OF GOD

TICKLES

Regino is now working out early in the morning to stretch his muscles because some days he has to spend twenty hours working every day and only has four hours left to sleep.

It feels stiff, if not brought relaxed this morning, let alone the weather was supportive.

"As'salamualaikum, Mr. Regino." greet the couple who now cross paths with Regino. Dr. Anita and her husband Pak Tora were also running in the morning.

"Wa'alaikumsalam, Mr. Tora, Doctor Anita." replied Regino.

"Mr alone? Rafania's mother.where?" asked Mr. Tora, but Regino responded with a smile. He was lazy to talk about the woman.

"Pak Tora's the same wife again sports too?" ask Regino, despite knowing exactly that this couple is indeed exercising. However, because he wanted to avoid Mr. Tora's question, Regino also had a pleasant conversation.

"Yes, sir." replied Mr. Tora.

"Sir Regino, I'm very lucky to get a wife as good and as shaleha as Ibu Rafania, despite his age is very young, he is very diligent in religion." Doctor Anita gives a pause. "He has brought a lot of change in our complex, although I am a doctor with a busy serving patients who are mounting, but I always try to be present on time because I just want to listen to my mother Rafania."

"Well, you know, same Rafania's mother?" doctor Anita asked her husband.

"Yes, Ma. Papa certainly knows him, who does not know him, this one complex of ours is talking about Mr. Regino's wife. How is the attitude and beautiful face." replied Mr. Tora.

"He also not only took time to the mosque to give us the teachings of Islam, but he was also a successful entrepreneur, Pa. His cafe business is already three." exclaimed Doctor Anita, while Regino only be a good listener, because others only know the life of his wife while he just heard if his wife is an entrepreneur.

"You know, Ma. All the people in our complex are talking about it. Papa also watched the broadcast that aired the taaziah of Rafania's mother. Very deep, very impressive. It turns out there are still young women who know religion as deep and broad as that." praise Mr. Tora.

"Sir Regino why stay quiet?" ask Dr. Anita.

"I—"

"Of course Mr. Regino is amazed to not be able to speak, has a shaleha wife, beautiful, charming, kind and a successful entrepreneur" said Mr. Tora.

Doctor Anita elbowing her husband. "Isa. This papa, praise Rafania's mother, her husband is here, Pa."

Mr. Tora laughed a little. "Sorry, Mr. Regino, I got carried away."

Regino nodded. "Yes, sir, it's okay. Then I'll run off in the morning, sir."

"Well, Mr. Regino, greetings to your wife" replied Dr. Anita.

Regino nodded his head. "As'salamualaikum."

"Wa'alaikumssalam." answered the couple.

"When Ibu Rafania lived in our compound, mothers spent more time in the mosque than gossiping, Pa." said Dr. Anita.

Mr. Tora nodded in admiration. "Because of that, it feels like Mama has also changed."

"Changed for the better, didn't you, Pa?"

"Yes, Ma. Papa likes." praise Mr. Tora to his wife.

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Regino walked home, since the words of Doctor Anita and Mr. Tora disturbed him. There was a feeling of pleasure when the neighbor greeted him and praised him as a husband who had managed to guide his wife to the right path and managed to become a priest for his wife. Even if it's just a lie.

Regino got home after a morning run, many neighbors who also do the same activity every day, Regino opened the refrigerator and took a bottle of mineral water for a sip.

Regino looked carefully, really stirring his taste.

Regino approached the dining table and looked at the memo beside the table.

—Mas, I have prepared breakfast, may you eat, yes, even though I know you will refuse it. I've left for work, again there's a sudden job. Wassalam—

Regino never knew what his wife's activities were and how his wife went about her day. However, Regino must have thought that his wife was just spending time at home and relaxing to enjoy the time that Tania should have.

Regino walked out of the kitchen and ignored the food that had been arranged neatly on the table, Regino was too hard on Rafania who had now been his wife for a year. She never once gave Rafania a chance to be a good wife to her. His heart seemed closed to accepting others, including his wife.

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After returning from the cafe, Rafania again attended lectures held three times a week, from Wednesday, Friday and Sunday.

"Rafania, can you give me tauziah?" tanya Ustadzah Hana's.

"Yes, Ustadzah, with pleasure." replied Rafania and closed the Koran.

"Can I ask, Miss Rafania?" ask Pomegranate Mother who is a neighbor of the next complex.

"Please, Mom."

"Before I apologize for having to say this, which I would like to ask about a husband's living obligations, whether he should put his wife or his mother first when giving a living. My husband gives money to his mother very regularly, I do not forbid my husband to give a living to his mother because I agree to this before we get married. However, at this time we are in short supply, especially in recent months I have not been given money and my husband prefers his mother, I also work and have a salary, he said, but is it not obligatory for the husband to give his wife a living from the results of his prison?"

"What should a son give his life to his mother or his wife if he is unable to provide for both?" Rafania gave a few seconds.

Then proceed. "It should be known, Mothers, that the scholars have agreed unanimously or with wisdom as stated by Ibnul Munzir, that the living for both parents who are poor and unable to meet the basic needs of both, then the living of both parents becomes the obligation of their children. Both boys and girls."

"Then, if this boy is married and has children, then he has two obligations: he: the obligation to provide for his poor parents who were unable to provide for his basic needs and to provide for his own wife and children. If a boy is able to perform these two obligations, then this is what is obligatory upon him. But if he is not able to combine the two obligations, because of his mediocre income for example, then what must come first is to support his wife and children."

Rosulululloh shalallohu ‘alaihi wasalam said:

“If Allah ta’ala gives to one of you kindness – favors or sustenance, then he should start with himself first and his family” (HR. Muslim)

“The greatest reward is the living that a person gives to his family” (HR. Muslim)

"In Islam, it is obligatory for the husband to support his wife and children. Although the condition of the wife is able, wealthy, even rich, the obligation to provide a family living remains the responsibility of the husband, unless the wife is ridho with the existing circumstances. But if not, and the husband still does not want to give a living to the wife and children, then the husband sins.

The apostle saw said, “Enough a man is to sin if he abandons the one who is his dependant.”

Furthermore, a husband is required to provide a living to his wife and children, as well as to both parents if they are in a condition of need and lack. If the husband can meet all their needs, then it is mandatory for him to meet. However, if his income or property is not enough to meet the needs of all, then there must be a priority. That is what must come first is the wife and child who is in his main responsibility as a husband.

This is based on the word of the Apostle saw, “Start from yourself by giving alms (giving a living) to him. Then if there's anything left then for your family (wife and son). If there is still anything left, then for the family of your relatives (parents, siblings etc.), and so on.”

"Do mothers understand now? Especially Miss Pomegranate?" ask Rafania.

"Now I understand, Mom." replied Mother Pomegranate.

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