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7) King Silat

the morning arrived

yes, on that day will be carried out the jijab qobul Adam who will justify Najwa to be his halal lover. on the side of Adam accompanied by Faris and other ustadz-ustadz who prepared many things from the advice given and others, Adam also practiced to say the Kabul ijab. on the other hand, Najwa, accompanied by Umi and Pak Kyai, is being given advice to be a good wife and be a good housewife

"son if you are married to Adam you be a godly wife is he who follows the words of the husband. The husband is the priest and leader of married women.

In An-Nisaa verse 34, God says, "The man is the leader of the women. For Allah has overstated some of them (men) for others (women) and because they (men) have given up their possessions. So the righteous woman is one who obeys Allah and keeps herself when her husband does not follow what Allah wills."

Of course, what must be followed is the rules or advice related and not deviated from what has been taught and commanded by Allah SWT. Following what the husband says is not just because of the husband, but because it is also mentioned by God.

The second obligation is that the wife must be obedient to the husband. Just like the previous obligation, this obedience is present on the basis of Allah SWT.

In the same verse, Allah says, "Women who are concerned about their nushuuz, so counsel them and set them apart in their beds and beat them. Then if they obey you, then do not look for a way to trouble them. Verily Allah is Most High, Most Great."

The obedience of a wife to her husband is equal to the jihad of men. This is said when a woman came before the Prophet and said, "O Prophet, I represent the women to face the master (to inquire about something). War is obligated by God only for men, if they are wounded, they are rewarded and if killed, they are alive with God. again his provision (with the fruits of Heaven). And we women are always obligated to them (to serve them and to help them), and can we also have the reward of war?"

Hearing this, the Apostle said, "Tell the women whom you meet that obediently obey the husband and his reward is balanced with the war reward for defending the religion of Allah. But very few of you run it."

umi said

"Alhamdulillah neither have you established yourself to be with Adam Abi as Najwa's parents want the best for you hopefully your family will become a family that mawadah warohmah son, he said, may in your family always get along safely and happily, do not forget one more yes Najwa" said mr. Kyai

"moreover Abi?"ask Najwa

"this one must be remembered - remember Najwa Abi and umi are old Abi and Umi want to listen to the cry of a baby at the house of Abi and Umi Najwa, so Najwa must be ready if Najwa is married Najwa must serve the husband by birth and inwardly yes Najwa" Abi said

"god willing Abi Najwa is ready to do it if mas adam asks him for tonight or take care of him God willing from today Najwa will be a good wife for Mas Adam and God willing as soon as Najwa will being a good mother to the children of Najwa and the masses and later" Najwa replied

"Alhamdulillah ah let's now get ready Najwa if the event will start again" he said

"iya umi bismilbornrohmanirrohim pray ya umi" Najwa said

"always Najwa you've calmed down, don't strain" Umi said

"iya umi" replied najwa