
"Honey, come here.listen to daddy" Raka moved her finger gesturing for the boy to bring his face closer.
"Between hate and love is only as thin as a strand of hair, sometimes you don't even realize the limit, love and hate you can't break if it comes together, it comes together, you can't feel one without the other either." Rae's volume was low, almost a whisper.
"Eh, what did daddy mean, anyway?" Rae gawked at the words coming out of her daddy's mouth.
"In one of the daddy lessons back in college in the Netherlands, this ugly daddy once went to S-2 even though daddy dropped out of school because he was more concerned with love than school, for that matter, please do not need to be in the example, acute bucin is not too good either..." Raka chuckled for a moment as if reminiscing about the sweet story when she decided to escape from her college because she could not bear to part with Sarah who was pregnant with Rae, who was pregnant,
"There's a general lecture on neuroscience." Raka continued seriously.
"That's the name of the lesson?"
"Em..Sort of that, it's a kind of seminar a day, not mandatory in fact. But daddy's interested, wants to follow him first."
"Why did Daddy take it? it is not mandatory dad, and again a bit strange and complicated from the name it..." Now Rae looks interested in the topic being talked about by the daddy even though he frowned hearing the name of the foreign subjects in his ear, he even thought his daddy was making up.
"Because..." Raka raised her head and circulated her gaze around with a funny watchful look, as if afraid that someone would hear her.
"Because at that time your handsome daddy was hanging by a clothesline by your pretentious mommy." Raka replied as she blinked her eyes at her son whose eyes grew bigger and bigger to hear the father's answer.
"Mommy rejects daddy's love, does she?" The curious soul of the teenage boy's responsibility was tempestuous.
"Eh, it's not like that. Who the hell, could resist your daddy? Your mommy is dead love with Daddy."Raka pulled the corner of her lips in an arrogant style, making the two people finally like two friends who were discussing about the woman they liked. Rae laughed hearing that.
"Return to the initial topic, According to the lecturer, humans always have two sides.The two sides are always in opposite places but in a balanced place. There is hope, there is anxiety. There is courage, there is fear. There is love, there is hate. Both should be balanced." Raka spoke while raising one of her eyebrows, her unblinking eyes looking at him.
"The feeling of love between a man and a woman activates a part of the reward system in the brain that is rich in hormone receptors, whether the hormone is what the name is, daddy has forgotten his name." Raka seemed to stroke his eel, as if thinking aloud while talking.
"At the same time, the feeling of love disables the part of the brain associated with judgment and reasoning. On the other hand, the feeling of hate also activates the recipient of stimuli that are prone to trigger stress. Well, at a time when we are too dominant feel hate the assessment part of the brain is much deactivated. Em. such as appearing stubborn, selfish excessive. So, sometimes just thinking upset, angry and retaliatory," Raka seems to really try hard to explain this to Rae, even though he elaborates it like a person on a merry-go-round.
"Dad, rae doesn't understand what Daddy's talking about?" Rae blinked her eyes innocently.
"Sduuuh, what's the language of daddy's height, huh? or..indeed his camera nob once about this" Raka scratched his head that does not itch.
"In essence, love and hate are known to activate two equal parts of the brain, the insula and the pitamen. Well, for this part daddy remembers the truth, daddy noted in daddy's brain, because his name is the same as the name of two daddy's friend cats in Leiden." Raka chuckled for a while, feeling funny with the name, as she herself gave the cat nana Willem, her best friend by that name.
"Love and hate, by the insula, are considered the same thing. Meanwhile, pitamen then raises aggressive actions due to love or hate. So sometimes do not be surprised, aggressive presentation, yes can argue for things that are not important, misunderstand and quarrel is unclear. In addition, aggressive actions can appear when there are competitors. Sometimes it is vented with the same gelud people who are considered dominant to be rivals.more or less like fighting with friends just because of fussing about the unclear..."Raka's eyes glanced at Rae in a witty manner as if explaining that her fight with Dandy was an example of what she was talking about.
"Well, dear Rae...The equation shows that love and hate are very close, right? Therefore, people will easily change from hate to love and vice versa. We as human beings always have two sides, there is hope and anxiety. There is courage and there is fear. There is love, there is hate. Both sides should be balanced. Our body and brain have a compensatory mechanism that always positions humans in a balanced condition, in the form of rationality. If this mechanism is not balanced, the effect is that mental illness can make people insane. " Raka laughed, he was happy to make Rae look at his father with admiration, at least he already looks like a lecturer who is lecturing on love.
"Dad, Rae really doesn't understand what daddy's talking about." Rae.
"Okey, daddy simplify, according to daddy's observation you're now in between those feelings,"
"What's daddy mean? what does this have to do with Rae, dad?" The teenage boy who does not understand anything about the feelings of love looks confused himself staring at the face of the daddy.
"I mean daddy, you're now stuck between feelings of love and hate. So daddy suggested, you better express your feelings to this girl, before your problems get bigger and bigger. And before you stabbed your friend." Raka laughed at your own opinion. He had only heard of this theory but never put it into practice, because Sarah first expressed her feelings. That's something that sometimes in regret, because of the slow loading, the moment expressed love for Sarah even the first wife, he missed the sensation of expressing love to Sarah.
"Well, what did daddy mean, anyway?" Rae's face flushed to her ears.
"Jeez, I don't understand, having a little boy, anyway?" raka shook her head looking at her son's face with anxiety.
"You're in love, my boy! So as a man who is experienced in this business, daddy suggested, Just tell me how you feel, shoot directly at the target. If you're not a friend, there's no guarantee you're not heartbroken."
Rae looked at the daddy with her cute round eyes, she was at a loss for words, this daddy is really a pro about feeling!
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