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Taaruf and khitbah

"So this Dinda boy turned out to be Nayla's friend huh! he has many stories about Nak Dinda, I am amazed by Nak Dinda who is young but has become a motivator. The world is narrow, son!" said Ratna's mother was very enthusiastic after knowing that Dinda was a friend of her sister's child.

"Iya Bu, it also happened that Dinda had seen Mother, Father, Mas Yusuf and Zahra before during a ceremony at Nayla's house a year ago" said Dinda.

"Oh, don't you know if the world is so narrow, sorry if you ask about the personal affairs of Nak Dinda, are you married? " ask Ratna's mother in curiosity.

"Yet Mom, I'm still single, no one has proposed to Me Mom, maybe I'm less attractive to men, because usually men only look at women in terms of physical, Mom, not from her ethics," replied Dinda who made Mother Ratna more amazed by Dinda's intelligence.

"How about Nak Dinda I'll marry a mother's son named Joseph? how...want you to be Mom's daughter-in-law?" haggard Mother Ratna a little forcing Dinda.

"Maybe ma'am, do we never know with whom We will mate later , We as humans can only strive Bu, "reply Dinda that makes Mother Ratna like getting a green light from Dinda. In fact, Dinda had already taken a heart out for Joseph. Dinda first saw Joseph while she was in Nayla's house. The day that Joseph wanted to propose to Nilam, and that day Dinda fell in love with Joseph at first sight.

Finally Bu Ratna tells about Joseph's person and love story in his past.

Ms. Ratna was able to get to know Dinda on the recommendation of her business partner, who happened to be the son of her friend who was also a student of Dinda.

It was from her friend that she knew who Dinda was, almost a week ago, Ms. Ratna found out about Dinda's persona and how shocked she was when she found out that Dinda was a motivator at a very young age.

"Insha Allah Bu if We are fooled, Allah SWT will facilitate and always bring Us closer to each other towards the divine Ridho, " said Dinda who again made Mother Ratna's heart happy.

While being cool chatting, the object that had been discussed had finally passed, Yusuf deliberately came out of his room to sit on the front porch of his house. Suddenly he was called by his mother.

"Yusuf here for a minute, son!" call Ratna's mother, Joseph who heard the call from the Mother and approached her mother.

"Mas introduce this Dinda, his private teacher of Arabic Zahra and Nak Dinda's Yusuf's eldest son Mother, "said mother Ratna introduced Dinda to Joseph.

Joseph smiled at Dinda, but instead of returning Joseph's smile, Dinda looked down.

Then the atmosphere became silent for a moment. Ratna's mother sought the idea that Joseph and Dinda could talk to each other.

"The mother's son is still single, Nak Dinda,

even though He has been successful in terms of financial, but still not sell well, even though I have been close! " joked Ratna's mother who made Joseph's mood worse.

"What the hell is this mother, how to open her own child's disgrace in front of a new person known, after all the law of marriage is sunnah Bu, not mandatory," yusuf's protest was very unacceptable with the words of Mother Ratna.

"The law of marriage itself there are five namely, sunnah, obligatory, makruh, mubah and the last is haram!" dinda tried to tell her what she knew to Ratna and Joseph.

Joseph fell silent and looked hard at Dinda.

"The law of marriage becomes a sunnah if he is able to build a household but he can keep it from adultery.

It becomes mandatory if feared fall in zina and already financially able. Become mubah if only to fulfill his orgasm only and not intended to build a household.

Become makruh if someone who has no income at all and is not perfect ability to have sex. And it becomes haram if a person who does not have the ability to pay a living marriage and believes there will be persecution if he gets married. So which law was Joseph in? "

dinda asked after explaining about the law of marriage to Ratna and Joseph's mother.

Joseph was shocked to hear a statement coming out of Dinda's mouth.

"Yes it is true, the law of marriage that falls on me is obligatory, not sunnah. But all this time I didn't have a wife let alone a boyfriend!" reply of Joseph

again defending himself.

Ratna's mother was still watching the debate between Dinda and Joseph.

"A true Muslim is not allowed to date, in Islam only allow bertaaruf who if there is no match can retreat and if both are suitable can directly apply and get married immediately," dinda's explanation was again very touching the heart of Joseph.

Joseph who was getting hotter to hear the Sharia Science that Dinda conveyed was finally cornered, and he unconsciously challenged Dinda.

"What if we run the taaruf process ?"

yusuf said to Dinda which made Dinda and Ibu Ratna shocked. But Ratna's mother is also happy if until Joseph match with Dinda.

"Please, if Joseph wants us to be righteous, I have not been preached by any man by chance, but Mas Yusuf must know the terms of the taaruf whatever," said Dinda accepted Yusuf's taaruf invitation.

"Well, when can we begin the process of taaruf? " ask Joseph in curiosity.

"Tomorrow can do it too, though, Mas can come directly to My house and be accompanied by someone who knows the ins and outs of mas Yusuf and I will also be accompanied by people who really understand about Me ." obviously Dinda to Joseph and Ratna's mother.

After finishing talking about the impromptu taaruf problem, Dinda also said goodbye to Ratna and Joseph's mother.

Ratna's mother offers Dinda to be escorted by Joseph, but Dinda refuses on the grounds of avoiding slander.

After Dinda's death, Ratna's mother deliberately invited Joseph to speak four eyes to discuss the seriousness of Joseph who was determined to invite Dinda taaruf.

"You're sure of your decision, Suf? " ask Mother Ratna who is worried that Joseph is not really serious about her words.

"Yes how else?, it seems like I really like Dinda is not it!, what's wrong if Mas tries to taaruf with Dinda! who knows, We are the soul mate of the Hereafter" answered Joseph.

"Alhamdulillah then, so you have completely forgotten Nilam huh Mas? " ask mom back.

"If you have to forget Nilam, you can't Mom. Nilam was Mas Bu's first love, "Joseph replied which made Ratna's mother again afraid.

"Mother is afraid that in the middle of your marriage journey Nilam comes back Suf, Mother is afraid that your marriage is destroyed, especially if you get divorced, I do not want it to happen , "my mother was full of worries.

"Mas Bu's promise, whatever happens Mas will never divorce Dinda, if Nilam comes back later, Mas will make Nilam the second wife Mas, is not in Islam polygamy is lawful!" yusuf said that suddenly made Ratna's mother reflect on Yusuf's ears.

"As far as you are! " said mother Ratna who then left Joseph alone in the guest room.

Finally the process of taaruf between Joseph and Dinda was running for one week and when the last taaruf finally Joseph also preached Dinda.

their marriage took place a month after the preaching.

Joseph and Dinda lived in the house that Joseph would build for his wife. Joseph and Dinda had two twins named Farhan and Farrah.

Slowly love grew so tight between them, and the shadow of Nilam began to depart from Joseph's mind and heart, for now there was Dinda who reigned in Joseph's heart. Dinda was so perfect in Joseph's eyes, the tenderness that Dinda had always melted Joseph's heart. But all that changed that night, the night that reunited Joseph and Nilam. The night that brought the memories of Joseph and Nilam back.