Grab the Keridhoan with you

Chapter 37 Chat two Women

Preparation for departure to Bandung has been prepared by aunt Aisyah and aunt Melati.

Even aunt Melati advised her daughter-in-law to stay because Asthma must be there to accompany when Andrian went to work.

Two cars leave early in the morning Jakarta-bandung. Asma as usual Andrian took practice after driving the aunts to the door. Baby Amar was playing with Bagas and Vienna. Today was the plan Andrian left a bit unfortunate as well as Bagas. Because it is impossible to leave the wife in this situation.

Asthma conditions begin to improve especially every day their exercise routine. However, Asthma must still use a wheelchair before fully recovering to be able to walk normally.

It's done helping the wife exercise Andrian immediately shower and get ready to go to the office. Before leaving Andrian breakfast first with his wife where it has been prepared by Vienna.

Now the big house looks silent, only Asthma, Vienna and baby Amar live.

Asthma sits on the carpet while the selonjoran accompanies baby Amar to play Lego.

"Win, how's the lestaurant now?"

"Alhamdulillah more advanced, the restaurant in Bogor is also the same."

"God will keep our restaurant safe."

"Yes, even it seems like we are able to open a new branch, even more capable,"

"Was I Komo bang Andrian never used my money?"

"Not at all, even when you need more sophisticated tools he never once asked for our help. Brother Andrian even decided to stop the construction of your branch lestaurant in Bekasi, the rest of the money he bought the tools."

"So much,"

"Yes, Brother Andrian just said, you are his responsibility as much as possible he will fight to keep you. So if you can't afford it then brother Andrian will just ask for our help,"

"You're so lucky to have a husband like Andrian's sister. He's a very responsible, loyal and loving man,"

"Yes, I'm lucky to get it. He is a man who is always full of surprises. What about Bagas?"

"My husband can't be romanticized, he's so stiff and cold!"

"Please, Bagas is like that!"

"But Bagas was a man who was always sensitive in every way. Without me asking her like I know what I want. He understands and understands."

"In every deficiency there must be an advantage, that is how God shows us how to give what we need not what we want. Because I'm sure, you're not a typical woman who wants a romantic man, but she who understands you without you talking,"

"Yes, God is good. I am so grateful to be his wife."

"Fruit noodles.fruit..."

"Am going to get some fruit?"

"Yes fruit,"

"You just sit down, let me get you,"

Prevent Vienna, Vienna immediately went to the kitchen to take a variety of fruits. Baby Amar does like fruits if he is playing then there must be fruit nearby.

After chopping melons, apples, grapes and peeling oranges. Vienna returned and gave it to baby Amar.

"What does Aunt say?"

"Macih Aunty. macih..."

"Together handsome, let's eat!"

"Thank God I am so grateful for everything. Perhaps God knew that the umnya could not move freely to monitor Am. Until God made Am who obeyed and easily understood every sentence we said,"

"May the child in my womb he be the son of Sholeh and Sholehah."

"Amen,"

They were so cool chatting while accompanying Am to play. It seems that the two women were so happy. They laughed as if they had no burden at all. Tell a story about each other's husbands without insulting or bringing up a shortcoming.

Because that's how God prepares the soul mate portion for us. God gives us what we need, not what we want. Not necessarily what we want is good in the eyes of God.

Be thankful for our partners. Don't complain, because we don't know what's behind the flaws.

It's Vienna, she wants a romantic husband but gets a stiff and cold man. But, behind it all Bagas was the most intelligent man Vienna knew.

Because God knows, Vienna does not need romance because the romantic version of Bagas is just that and it is able to make Vienna happy.

Likewise with Asthma, who does not want men Sholeh because God knows what Asthma needs is a man loyal and responsible. Not playing rough when angry, but he makes us the most comfortable backup to soak anger.

Because it was Asthma's job to guide Andrian to the right path.

That is the true love of God for his creatures. There are no limits beyond our reasoning. We just need to be grateful and grateful for what God gives, do not ask for more but try. If God gives us more, it is a bonus for our gratitude.

And never compare our partner with others. Everything is different and it will not be the same.

Never be envious of what looks romantic may be their romance just outside. And, never glorify our partner to others may be they are embarrassed because of many shortcomings.

Be a grateful wife or husband for anything, anyone, no matter what our partner. Husband and wife are like clothes that cover the law. Then close the disgrace of our partner while he does not violate the Shari'a.

There are too many stories in this world that we should set an example for. God created four couples.

One, Allah created the pair of Sholeh and Sholehah as well as Sayidah Fatimah bint Rasulullah and Shaid Ali ibn Abi Talib.

Two, Sholeh and Tholeh as well as the prophet Luth and his wife. Prophet Luth was a Sholeh but his wife was a dissident.

Three, Tholeh and Sholeh as well as Fir'aun and Siti Asiah.

Four, Tholeh and Tholehah as well as Abu Lahab and his wife.

We just have to choose what marriage we want and who we example.

Never tell them the rank of prophet, the rank of friend or scholar. God tells them to set us an example, not a comparison. Do not look at the rank but look at the journey of the story of those who are trying to build a harmonious household.

"Aspie?"

"Yes Win!"

"How can you create this harmony and make Brother Andrian so in love?"

"I always apologize before going to bed and say, is there anything I did wrong today that reduced the level of love between us. If there's please say. Because I always insist, I hate lies and disloyalty. You know what my life story is,"

"Yes, maybe I'll learn a lot from you."

"Don't learn from me, but learn from your partner. Assess his nature and attitude. Learn what his nature and attitude like do not contradict. We get married learning to accept, understand, care for, love. I'm sure he'll never turn his back on us. However, if we have tried our best, then do not complain remain grateful because I am sure someday God will move his heart to still see us not another shoulder,"

Seriate.....

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