CIRCUMCISION

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The preparation of the dino selapanan they have started, the design of the baby's first weton dino selapan, for thirty-five days. His special Javanese custom at that time was very thick with trust, which led to positive prayers for the development of children later.

Surip and some of his fellow brothers, prepared all the ubo rampe. The event will be tomorrow morning after sunrise.

Tumpeng weton, with seven kinds of vegetables, porridge of seven forms, fruits of seven forms, flower setaman.

All neatly arranged on the amben, to carry out the tradition As the name implies, the tradition is a procession of brak on the baby, baby, which is carried out every thirty-five days precisely on the day of Java weton the baby. Babies are kicked suddenly so that later when adults do not become people who are not shy/mumble.

A feast should be eaten of at least seven, if possible the more the better, for example, eleven, or seventeen.

The number seven means pitu, which is to get pitulungan or help from Gusti kang murbeng dumadi. The number eleven means a dozen, that is, to gain some clarity or compassion .

The number of seventeen means pitulas, which is to get pitulungan and kawelasan from Gusti krankang Murbeng Gesang.

Beautiful morning, procession after procession is over, Teguh is sound in the mother's cradle side by side with san father, they sit enjoying a warm conversation with relatives.

Unlike Atmosiman seems to be preparing to welcome guests, Karmilah dress suwarti, with a different look at the girl in that era.

Batik cloth for his subordinates and a new flea model blouse, Suwarti long hair that reaches the shoulders, beautiful curls and jet black by wearing flower flops on the right and left sides. Elegant and beautiful, the curvature of Suwarti's sweet smile is like a crescent moon, which hangs at the beginning of the month.

"Mas.. What's with mom and dad? looks like there's something, is there a special guest coming, huh mas..?" Bisik Sundirah, who from the beginning did not know there would be special guests who would visit the house.

"There is a deck, may Warti and Prayuda be a match! this is all father and mother's plan. But make sure this isn't compulsion." Mahendra smiled then kissed Teguh's forehead.

And ended Mahendra's mischievous flirting with Sundirah, which today also appears fresher, and more beautiful with a fuller body while giving mother's milk exclusively to Teguh.

"Ndhuk! Beautiful you are lucky later who can have you ndhuk." Karmilah is proud of Warti's innocent appearance.

"Are we going to follow Yu Dirah kirab to mbok paini Bu's house?" Harti has not yet realized that he is currently preparing for the arrival of the Prayuda and Hamida families.

"We will have guests, please take care! you can keep the attitude." Karmilah held Suwarti's shoulder.

"mother! I'm sorry I mean mom how, I'm confused mom!" Warti held onto Karmilah's wrist and looked meaningfully at her adoptive mother.

"Warts... Father and mother did not match you, but we hope! you can get to know each other first." Karmilah's answer relieved Suwarti's heart.

Atmosiman smiled to himself, his eyes pointing to the Daily People he read. But occasionally his eyes glanced while observing his surroundings.

Not long after, the guests they were later to finally arrive as well.

Smile sumringah, and tell each other the situation, they embrace each other signifying happiness.

"Thole Firmly...! Nice quick gede yo lee...!" Hamidah took Teguh from Sundirah.

Mahendra greeted them, then mixed with them with prayuda, Karmilah sat side by side with Hamidah.

While Sundirah came to Suwarti, who was still nervous not to move from his bed room.

"Wart! us why? let's get out. There's Mr. Prapto's family outside." Bring Warti.

"Yeah... I'm scared, and embarrassed.."Warti's face was as pale as if he had just met a ghost during the day.

Sundirah smiled faintly at Suwarti's nervousness and behavior. But no doubt also he guided his hand to the kitchen to take something and bring it forward as a treat.

Suwarti walked down, his head felt heavy to raise his eyes to the guests.

As if fear was wasted this beautiful moment, so to blink his eyes Prayuda was not able to do it.

Without realizing it all eyes look at the behavior of Prayuda, who suddenly become bego-bego o'on, and Suwarti who are nervous, embarrassed but save the sense of wanting to unite their eyes.

ahem... " Oh I'm sorry." Warti's soft voice after hearing Atmosiman's throbbing voice.

Prayuda also hurriedly turned his eyes, towards Hamidah and Suprapto. As if asking for something is done immediately.

"Sit down with the ndhuk, we can exchange stories together here." pinta Atmosiman, and give a seat to his right.

They finally sat down together, and Suprapto began his conversation.

Regarding the name of the family and the purpose of visiting in addition to bersilahturahmi, visit Teguh. There is another meaning that must be taken together.

"Sorry Mr. Atmosiman with mother Karmilah, our arrival is far from the city border. Nothing more than to come to terms with strengthening, our friendship bond to be closer makes a bond more meaningful."

"If allowed in a more sacred bond, We as Prayuda's parents want to unite our children in a marriage rope, and in blessing." Suprapto stared straight at Atmosiman, expecting an answer, then turned to Mahendra and Prayuda.

"Mr Suprapto and mother! we are Suwarti's parents! will not be able to deny this honor, and good news to go to a level that is closer to the family rope."

"We also will not make the same mistake will be repeated, Suwarti as we should as our biological children."

"However! all will go back to those who will live, we can only support and give our best." Atmosiman's answer gives Mahendra and Sundirah some space of relief.

"Suwarti, what will you give as the answer." Atmosiman turned his head and asked Suwarti.

"Father.I cannot afford to refuse, a plan of a bond. But I can allow it, let us know first between me and Prayuda mas." Suwarti lowered his head as deeply as his gaze and gave an answer.

His hands clenched tightly Sundirah's hands which were not far away sitting beside her.

"Don't be afraid! as your parents, we just want the best." Suprapto understands very well what and how Suwarti's thoughts and path are with Sundirah at this time.

In their conversation, understanding each other and realizing the journey of their lives is not easy.

The conversation turns on, things ahead and they expect.

They consist of three groups, Sundirah with Karmilah and Hamidah engrossed in talking about the little Teguh.

Atmosiman, Suprapto and Mahendra they are immersed in the discussion of men's problems and reasonable jokes.

Unlike Prayuda and Suwarti, they moved to a seat in the front porch. Silence, look at each other and blush each other, as if their eyes are representative of a heart.

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#Never look back if it just makes you repeat the mistake, try looking forward and opening a new, better sheet.

Be like the waves, strong and unstoppable.

We do good not because we are good. But because we are changing and trying to be the best.

You are the creator of your own life and can change nothing for anyone else.

God never wrongly gives the gift of love to His servant, because a love that comes there must be a meaning and reason.

Never let the sadness of the past make you ruin the happiness of the present.

If you live your life by the choices of others, your life will no longer be yours. The more severe your problem, the stronger you are. And that's what makes you better.#

Healthy greetings Sir, Mak, Ma'am, Mas, mutual support in prayer, love all of you is the best 😘😘

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