
(Pov Arini)
These days actually I feel less spirit, different than usual, Want to do many things but the body feels powerless. One month more I've had a wife of one hundred, And it can be said we are still warm as newlyweds, inevitably, I have to serve my husband even though my condition is less fit, I want to say, because it can be said that my husband is currently opiate, Want to always make out with me. Besides I also feel that my condition has not been categorized as a reason for syar'i that is allowed to refuse a husband's invitation, I also feel that my condition has not been categorized as a reason for shari'i who is allowed to refuse the husband's invitation, because I'm still capable even if I'm not so fit.
As explained in the hadith that I still remember when I studied in the pesantren,
Which reads:
Abu Hurairah said, The Prophet said, "If a husband invites his wife to have a relationship, but he (wife) does not meet the husband's invitation, until that night the husband is angry, but he (wife) does not meet the husband, so he (wife) got the curse of the Angels until dawn." (Moslem HR).
In other hadiths, it is mentioned
Abu Hurairah said the Prophet said, "By Dzat whose soul is in His hands, not a husband takes his wife to bed (to have intercourse) while he (wife) is reluctant, except that which is in the heavens wrath unto her till her husband forgive her." (Moslem HR).
Remembering the Hadith, I would feel guilty for my husband if I turned him down these last few, but this morning, after I took a bath, I felt my joints getting weaker, my head also felt heavy, I felt like I was having a shower, while my appetite seemed to be lost, Although in front of me in the field of good food cooked by Bi Ana, but I feel no taste, even those in my mind suddenly I want to eat dates ajwa.
Because I felt my head getting heavier, my husband told me to rest in the room. For some reason I feel annoyed at my husband who is still busy with his salary, when his wife is sick, I emphasize to him that I immediately bought ajwa date because I really want to eat it, imagining it was like this tongue had swayed first, so I forced my husband to buy it for me or I would get mad at him.
Actually I do not want to suppress it like that because He seems to be very busy, but my desire to eat ajwa dates as if it can not be held anymore. Shortly after, my husband came to take my order.
"Masyaallah bi..dates are so many, It looks delicious, "Akupun immediately eat it, and sure enough, sure enough, I can't bear to eat it again and again until I forget to salim my husband who wants to go to the office.
"Thank you bi," I said to him, because to me he is my best husband, I must not be rude or bother him excessively in meeting my needs.
After spending about 5 0ns of dates, I fell asleep, and I woke up when my husband came to bring a middle-aged female doctor, she said to check on me. I checked it too .
To my surprise, when the Holy Doctor said that I was Pregnant, At that time I really felt like I was the happiest woman in the world, My Husband immediately hugged me with a haru of happiness.
"Dear, thank you for giving me such a wonderful gift, I'm really very happy" My husband framed my face and kissed my face as an expression of his happiness, as if it didn't matter if there was a Holy Doctor there.
"Then look at the bi" I whispered to her, then Opah came in, and asked what happened, and the young man smiled happily knowing that I was pregnant.
I never dreamed of being this happy, having a Husband who turned out to be so kind and loving to me, even though at first he was fierce and often upset me . I never thought I could have good parents. I feel that I am the luckiest woman, especially with this pregnancy, so which favor of your Lord do you deny.
'O Allah, I will always be grateful for what You have given me, and may You always keep my household a safe family and guard the fruit of our love Amin,' I offer my prayer
(Pov Arfan)
Since childhood, I have been used to seeing my parents fight, it really feels painful and painful in the heart felt until now if they remember fighting, imprinting on the heart, and traumatizing me with marriage.
All this time, I never wanted to when Opah repeatedly wanted to match me, until one day suddenly came a beautiful girl with a beautiful, sharp-nosed nose that was able to divert my world.
But at breakfast when He complains of weakness and no appetite, I really feel guilty for asking for my rights when my wife is less fit. I'm bopong him for a break in the room. I'd like to apologize, but it's hard, because I don't think he protested about last night, but I don't know why he really wanted the ajwa date, anyway, because I think he didn't protest about last night, and asked me to buy it directly while I had to go to the office because there was a meeting, I was worried, between the office or make up for my guilt on her by buying her ajwa date her request
I'll call Andi immediately, please,
"Hello, are you in the office?"
"Already Sir, "answer.
"You told the meeting attendees to wait a minute, it seems I came late, Because I still want to buy ajwa dates for my wife, this was suddenly She was sick, because, limp and ask ajwa date and I have to buy it myself, about where the date is sold?" my tofu, my,
"It just so happens to be close to the host house, just on Merdeka street, in Al Maktum store, which sells all kinds of Hajj and Umrah equipment, dates are also available there"
"Okay "I bought it immediately,
Arriving at the store, I was happy because it was still open.
"Sir, are there ajwa dates?" I asked a man my opah age, with a white beard, wearing a white robe, his face like an Arab descendant.
"So boy, how much do you want ?"
"How much, I bought all "
"There's only five kilos, that's a premium, perkilo 80 grand"
"Yes it's all wrapped up, !" I asked, after that I handed you eight pieces of red money "just take it back sir" and I left immediately because I was in a hurry
Arriving at home, my wife looked very enthusiastic and looked very happy, seeing I brought the date of her request, but I had to leave immediately.
Dikantor Andi talk to me.
"Luckily, the wife of the master, his easy cravings can "hear the word cravings, I immediately gasped, I immediately gasped,
"Nwantedam?" I don't care what Andi talks about after that, because I have to go home and bring the holy doctor, the family doctor, to make sure my wife's condition
When the doctor examined him, my heart was ungodly, like the defendant who was waiting for the judge's verdict. The doctor said my wife was pregnant.
This is the first happiness I have ever experienced, in my entire life, I hug and I kiss her, because I am so happy and so grateful to her . Looks opa is also very happy, I drop myself a clap of opah, to express this happiness.
Thank you God...