
"Life is full of mystery, sometimes difficult to guess.what you want is sometimes not in accordance with what we have planned".
it seems like my life is getting more complicated, being an adult is harder than being a useful person.
like this love story, it is a little complicated and full of struggle.
it turns out that God still wants to give me a test of life, apart from the work of love problems I was tested.
but I live everything sincerely, thank God slowly everything improved.
The beginning of my meeting with ovi, it's a little complicated! I got to know him when I started to be active in the mosque's youth studies.
that's where the beginning of my life is still difficult to find a job, we were close for quite a long time, not even quite long.
I was in love with her two years, that's a pretty good number for me, as long as I tried to convince her family, especially her parents.
"where is there a parent who wants their child to suffer!! what else back then I had a steady job."
I always take ovi to work, I feel happy to have a woman who wants to accept all my shortcomings, just ovi who wants to accept me as I am, even though his parents and family do not like me. but Ovi is still willing to maintain our relationship.
my relationship with her is fine, nothing special, because we have a healthy courtship, I appreciate it and I keep her not one bit of touching intention before our relationship "Shah" in the eyes of religion and the state.
not long after I proposed to ovi, I talked about it first with my parents, I who are unemployed can only charge my intention to my parents, my parents, they sold the garden to pay for my marriage to ovi, which I already had once I had success.
My parents and I came to see the ovi family, ovi looks happy about the arrival of me and my parents, but other things that are seen from the look on the faces of ovi's parents and their families.
I was a little sad to be disappointed, but there was not the slightest intention to retreat, it was precisely their treatment that sparked my spirit, to continue to rise for the better.
in my heart I promise that I will prove to them, if I can make ovi happy in the future.
The show was over and my parents came home.
but the mother is still the mother, her vision is always right, I cried hugging my mother, there was a little sense of calm in my heart, which initially felt tight now disappeared and turned into relief.
"patience, said my mother softly. I smile at her, mother will always pray for you continue By."
there are not many words that my mother said, but I feel like I know everything with what I am feeling right now, this is my choice.I have to accept the consequences myself.
insyaallah in front of her ovi family can definitely accept my presence.
Before long the wedding ceremony arrived, my family and I were ready to carry out the contract held at Ovi's house.
THE OVI HOUSE.
I was surprised not to be confused, not even just me who was shocked.My family also did not believe what we saw, not even my family, my family group came according to the appointed hours but the preparation in the ovi family has not been seen in the slightest.
What else is this???I said in my heart, I was wasting my breath trying to be patient with this situation, I had to look calm in front of my parents and family.
we patiently wait for the preparation of the ovi family, I want to feel angry but this is not the best to solve the problem.
honestly I felt sad to see my parents who always patiently obeyed my wishes, there was not the slightest bit of anger drawn on their faces, mom just smiled looking at me and gently rubbed my back as if implied the word "Patience" he said right.
the mother who always made me strong faced everything, her strength that made me always able to pass all the trials that GOD gave me.
I'm always sure the storm will pass...
before long everything was done with the preparations, pak pengulu started his event, I sat side by side with ovi, and faced with ovi's father, we shook hands to carry out kabul izab, kabul, with one breath Alhamdulilah ovi shah became my wife .
My gratitude is unceasing to God, Alhamdulilah everything went smoothly though initially there was a little obstacle but I am grateful because now ovi became my whole.