
Finally I gave birth normally, baby boy² weighing three point three kilo grams.
When Bang Parlin put our baby on trial, his voice was so sweet that the nurse stopped listening to Bang Parlin.
The families came to see, My oldest brother also came.
It seems like my brother has changed, he no longer talks condescendingly, nor talks borrowing.
No mention of Bang Parlin's wealth at all.
"Your husband got me mentally, Nia"
my brother answered the question in his heart.
"Because of mental ?"
"Yes, Nia, about needs, about desires, about humility, about judging people by appearance."
"Agkh, I learned a lot from him"
brother said.
The next day my father-in-law came from the village.
He came carrying by² ulos typical batak.
They called it Parompa, not a new ulos, but an ulos that he said was already sixty-two years old, which he got at birth.
Incredibly
Sixty-two years old still looks good.
Two days later we went home, and the guests kept coming.
Even Bang Panyahatan came from Jambi.
Surprisingly their gifts for my son, all the same, namely ulos batak, for what my son ulos this much, used can not ?
There was a debate when Father-in-law gave a name to my son.
He named her like a person from ancient times.
*Rakkaya Sutan Pinayungan Siregar*, that's the name given by my father-in-law.
"To thicken this name we go home first, cut the buffalo"
father-in-law said.
"Don't agree with me, Mang Boru"
live protest.
"Why, Deck ?"
ask husband.
"There is no other name, why should the name of the people of the kingdom ?!"
"That's a good name, Maen"
father-in-law said.
They spoke in batak, I was a good listener.
Eeeeh, no, annoyed listeners, they discussed my son's name but I don't understand, upset right ?
After they spoke at length, they finally stopped as well, perhaps already having a decision.
I waited for the name they would give my son.
Even though Williams Shakespeare said *what does a name mean ?* but to me the name is very important.
"Look, Maen, batak people usually have two names, title names & birth names title names obtained after the child is in-upa, or adopted"
"So I had wanted to simultaneously obey and give a name, but the advice from Parlin about the birth name was given to Maen, because Maen was not a batak, so we could not force
However, our fixed title names are made & tabalkanized"
father-in-law said at length.
I looked at Bang Parlin, he smiled, I was relieved, my husband always has a solution.
I got the right to give my son a name.
About the title name yes, it's up to them.
But what name will I give my son ?
That day my husband told me his name was *Ahcin Pani*, short for Parlin & Nia.
But that name seems too big.
I finally found the right name, which is:
*Pahlavi Siregar*, there is still a pa, but more modern.
Husband agrees, with full title name I no longer bother contesting.
Father-in-law came home, Bang Nyatan also came home.
It was agreed after my son forty days will be held swinging event & at the same time rename & upa-upa for my son.
My ex-neighbor also came to see my son, but he just put on a sour face.
"Why the hell, Miss Nia should be everything, I'm so embarrassed"
said.
"What secret, ma'am ?"
"That's a rented house, why don't you tell me you guys have, kok pura² poor anyway ?!"
"Oh, sorry, Mom, it's the boy's father"
he pointed to my son.
"And I came to the house, wanted to ask for leniency, because I couldn't pay, uh, told to come here, I asked what, he said you have a house"
"One more time, sorry, Mom"
"So we ask for a waiver first, Madam Nia, two more months just barricaded jula-jula, two more months I pay ya, Ma'am ?!"
"Oh, if that's the case, Bang Parlin asked, I don't know that, Mom"
I said later.
At the same time came Bang Parlin carrying fire in the zinc basin.
"What's that made, Bang ? Oh, yeah, this is this Mom's gonna talk"
I said later.
The mother of our former neighbor then returned to express her intention to ask for leniency.
"Can, can"
husband said briefly.
The guest finally came home.
I was still astonished to see Bang Parlin lighting a fire in the zinc basin, the smell was like any other.
"What is that, Bang ?"
ask again.
"Parsiduduan, Deck"
"Use Indonesian, Bang !"
"Don't know I'm Indonesian, Dek, just this new-born medicine, let it rapet back."
husband said again.
"Medicine, what medicine, Bang ?"
I'm more astonished.
"Gini, Dek, this is the medicine of the person who has given birth, let the birth canal of the Ucok is back together, in the village of people giving birth is always like a cure"
bright husband.
"Oh my God, keep that fire next ?"
"Gini, Deck, this is smoke, not fire, there's been a potion burned here, so every morning & evening you're gini, Deck !"
said husband while demonstrating.
He was hanging on top of that fire.
"I mean my brother is smoked to dry quickly ?"
I said while holding back the laughter.
It's only this time I've seen & heard there's a drug like this.
"Yes, there you have it, Dek, his name is marsidudu, an Indonesian that you don't know"
"Don't want to, Bang, it's not seventy years, it's not in a village that gives birth to a child shaman !"
But Bang Parlin continued to force, finally I obediently, just wearing a sarong, I stood while straddling on the coals. It feels warm, whether this is what kind of treatment, I obey because I believe in my husband.
The next day, I was waiting for the parsiduduan, but the husband did not bring any more.
He was busy replacing my son's diaper.
"Where is Parsiduduan, Bang ?"
my many.
"Ang to throw, Deck"
answer the husband without looking.
"Lho, koq banished ?"
"It turns out that times have changed, Deck, the science of medicine is also increasingly sophisticated, you have stitched doctors, no longer need parsiduduan"
husband says.
"Haha, haha"
"Koq laughs, Deck ?"
"Who do you know from ?"
"That, Bou came yesterday, so I saw him lift the parsiduduan, he laughed at me, he said such a medicine for a child-assisted shaman, brother so embarrassed, Dek"
husband said again.
"Haha, haha"
I laugh more and more.
"Fearn my brother isn't close anymore, huh, Bang ?"
"Udah, Dek, do not discuss again, Brother is ashamed, it turns out the times have changed, Brother must also change, so that we are not outdated"
husband says.
It turns out that the incident of parsiduduan can change the husband, he began to often hold my HP, of course I was worried, because if the husband is stylish like a man today, there will be many temptations, of course, a lot of actors are hanging out in Medsos.
"Dek, here, enter the sim, he said, I've bought & I put in, continue to enter e-mail, he said again, where else is included here, Dek ? Keep buying e-mails where ?"
bang Parlin said one night, arrived² only he had brought home a new HP.
I tried hard to hold a laugh, I was afraid my husband offended if I laughed, he always got a solution about life, but immediately deadlocked when dealing with technology.
"Remember ! Needs or desires, Bang ?"
I said while pointing the index finger.
"It's a necessity, Dek, you're so embarrassed to be told to sugel the doctor"
"Haha, haha"
my laughter broke as well.
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