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The sons of the Prophet were seven
Three men four women
First Qasim, Abdullah, Ibrahim
Zainab, Ruqayah, Umm Kulthum, Fatima
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Her mother was named Siti Aminah
His father was named Abdullah
His grandfather was named Abdul Muttalib
His uncle was Abu Talib
Let us know the family of the Prophet
A blessed family, a holy family
Let us know the family of the Prophet
A blessed family, a holy family
The lyrics of the song, which tells the family of the suri tauladan, are heard from their tiny lips, adorning the journey to the Villa.
Three cars drove in...Gibran, Azzam and Bimo cars, there will be 4 cars, but the Ummi family can not participate because there are activities in the cottage, but they will stop by later to the cottage when the direction of home .
The three cars have entered the tea plantation area, this is not the first time for Arshaka and Arsyila to visit the Villa of their Grandmother and Grandpa.
Three cars were already in front of Villa, their arrival was welcomed by Mang Amir and Bik Minah.
It was not Gibran their goal but the twin that they immediately embraced alternately.
"there's something to forget." ledek Azzam when he got out of his car and it made Mang Amir and Bik Minah chuckle.
"get in.." take Mang Amir.
"yes go in directly non, den and Abi as well, later the suitcases let our children bring in." said Bik Minah.
"no papa Bik. we can bring it, no need to bother." said Azzam.
"don't that den, it's just a long journey, let our children bring in." Mang Amir replied.
They followed, and all came in, if the parents were sitting in the living room, unlike the children, they immediately joked in the garden ,. as if there were no tired words.
"Healthy Boy and Mama??" ask Soraya
"Alhamdulillah healthy non, Bibik who frenzied when you can news you want to Villa, the children are immediately asked to change the sheets and all of them." replied Mang Amir.
"Just rest everything, the living room select, Dzuhur is still one hour away." said Bik Minah.
While they were chatting, two children Bik Minah went inside with suitcases.
"Sir, where is this suitcase going to be pulled??" ask Banyu son Bik Minah
"that's a suitcase mas Nyu.bet in his usual room, another suitcase directly put directly also in their respective rooms." said Gibran.
"we put it in front of the room all yes mas.." reply Banyu.
"Sir, put the children yes, Gibran wants to go up first, it looks like they are cool." said Gibran
"pleasantly den.." reply Bik Minah with a fluffy smile.
"grandson Bibik and Mamang invite also later in the afternoon to here Bik, so that more crowded." said Almeera.
"iya Nyu, bring your children here huh..."
"don't, you'll disturb.."
"we are family, the intention here to visit and vacation too, no one is disturbed and disturbed, the children will even be happier with their new friends." said Abi.
"well, Mas, Abi. later in the afternoon, the children we invite..."
Tonight they will hold a barbeque in the front porch garden.
And Done bada Ashar, Banyu and his brother also decorate this park, a large mat unfolds, where will be their place later tonight to enjoy the results of their fires.
Not a chair, but a mat, a bit more family felt.
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Later that night, the parents had been wearing cardigans, but not with the children, apparently because they were cool running around making the bone-chilling cold they did not feel.
Happiness emanated from the faces of all family members, as well as the big out of Bik Minah and Mang Amir, they joined the Gibran family.
"Ouch.." cried Arsyila.
"Umma..hiks..hiks...hiks.." cried Arsyila.
"why dear...??" asked Almeera when she was in front of the princess who seemed to be sitting on the grass
"mas Bagas his path Ndak carefully, so Syila to hit Umma .." said Arshaka with a slightly angry tone because the sister fell
"Here try Umma look...." Almeera saw the princess' knees slightly red as she was hit by a small rock hidden in the grass
"hmm... bruises a little, later also healed, not papa, mas Bagasnya not also accidentally... is it Bagas mas...??" almeera asked with a smile looking towards Bagas who was slightly bowed
"Shaka, it's not good to be bad to think, baby, will play running, so it's a risk if you fall, it's not good to blame people.."
"sorry Umma." said Arshaka while bowed.
"mas Bagas apologized also yes Syila, Bagas mas accidentally, Bagas mas was tripped.." said Bagas son of Banyu.
"what's up, Brother, what's the naughty Bagas...??" asked Banyu who suddenly came
"nobody is naughty, all is well, right.o.d used to run around and someone fell down." replied Almeera.
"Syila wants to go to Aki, let Syila's feet be treated with Aki.." said Arsyila.
"you don't be naughty dong Gas." said Banyu to the Son.
"the name is also children, do not be enlarged, they have also admitted what their mistakes are." said Almeera
"the play is already in the past, we eat first yuk.." invite Almeera, Bagas who was downcast afraid to step his feet was directly in the hand by Almeera.
They all gathered, enjoyed the dishes, the children looked happy again.
When the children were busy enjoying the burnt results, Almeera and Gibran approached Banyu, Almeera had previously told of the incident a few minutes ago.
"Let's go.." call Gibran.
"Eh yes mas.." reply Banyu.
"May I talk about something...??" ask Gibran
"yes, can you please help Banyu...??"
"Nyu... angry at the same child may, but still do not give her a bad stamp, it will damage her mental, If she is wrong do not attack her personality. but discuss her mistakes.."gibran
Banyu was silent for a moment.
"Sir Almeera told me about the children, you scolded Bagas.."
"The words are prayer, don't stamp him naughty, bandel or the like..."
"if he makes a mistake, talk to him, tell him what was wrong, teach him to apologize and forgive." this time Almeera spoke
"The name of the children, there is always his behavior, the act, it is our duty parents, to be mediators, they are the greatest teachers of parents to be patient" added Almeera
"sometimes the words come out on their own when angry brother.." replied Banyu.
"karnas is used to it.... Tampa we realize this attitude of ours will make the child hurt, although maybe the child obeys the words of parents, but he keeps a sense of annoyance to parents"
"if we always speak in a loud tone, the child will learn, that if there is a problem can be solved with anger or a loud tone"
"And over time children can also become stubborn and rebellious"
Almeera explained with understanding,.Gibran patted Banyu's shoulder.
"yes mas, sometimes I do say rude and yelling when he does not want to obey" I Banyu
"In educating children aged 0 - 7 years, according to Ali bin Abi Talib, the first 7 years in educating children are like treating them like Kings, It means that parents serve children, it means parents serve children, accompanied by a gentle, sincere and wholehearted attitude when nurturing him. But that does not mean you have to pamper your child. Keep being assertive with affection. If you want to tell a thing, use simple and easy to understand language without violence" said Abi suddenly
"children at this age will spend a lot of time for exploration so they tend to enjoy playing, it is very natural and parents should continue to accompany as a form of stimulation of growth and development"
"in addition, it is also necessary to know that children will imitate many others around them, so our task is to give them a good example by exemplifying the right things" Tamba Abi while rubbing Banyu's back
"means that Banyu has been wrong in acting to Bagas." regretted Banyu.
"it's okay, fixed from now on.." Gibran
"thank you Abi, Mas and Brother Meera too, would like to remember Banyu..."
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